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[melantha]

Hi,

I feel weird about asking for a reading, but I'm really frustrated and any help would be really appreciated (I will be more than happy to return the favor if you'd like).

the situation is this: I have a close friend whom I met about six months ago. about two months ago I realized I was falling for him. I just saw him two weeks ago - we spent an incredibly nice weekend together. anyway, while he was here, it was rather obvious that he had feelings for me as well, and that was great. now that he's back home he's barely talking to me and I get the distinct feeling he's a) lying to himself and b) waiting for me to do something (but I don't know what). I asked him about it and got absolutely nowhere. I'm at the end of my rope solely because I care about him immensely, can't think of two people better suited for each other, and I know he feels SOMETHING for me as well. what I want to know is, is there a relationship in our future/should I wait for him to figure things out? or should I start moving on? (the only advice my friends have to offer is "boys are stupid!"... go figure!) :smash:

I'm a scorpio - 11/21, and he's a Cancer - 07/01.

sorry about the length. :D

[Aengus McTeague]

Merry Meet, Melantha.

I did a three card spread for you, with the three positions indicating the issue, the action to be taken, and the outcome.

The first card, the issue at hand;Five of Cups. It indicates discontent, a desire for meaning, and a need to change. This sure sounds like it fits the situation you're describing.

The second card, the suggested action; the Queen of Swords. Swords are a card of truth, and the Queen quite literally demands that her truth be heard. When applied to relationships, I read it as a need for "tough love". Speaking your truth isn't always comfortable or easy, but it's almost always the best thing for all concerned.

The third card, the outcome, was the Seven of Pentacles. This is a card of pausing in your labor to appreciate the growth in your garden. As a prediction, it indicates that if your preliminary work is sound, you will enjoy sucsess.

So is there a future in the relationship? I think so, provided you are willing to tell him how you are feeling, and you are both willing to work at it. All relationships take honesty and hard work, but I seldom see it indicated as clearly as I did here.

Good luck, and Blessed Be,
Aengus

[melantha]

thank you very, very much. good advice to boot.

let me know if I can return the favor, sometime. :)