Stalker?

[freakydorky]

Theres this guy, Roger, I met him once and talked to him...ONCE....and he thinks i like him....and i cant just say 'no i hate you leave me alone' I'd feel bad...hes in sodding virginia right now but he still calls constantly and talks about all the nasty little things he wants to do to me.....its quite disturbing and he wont go away...i tell him i have a boyfriend (i lie) but he doesnt take a hint and the next second hes talking about all the places he wants to touch me i hate it and i hate him...any ideas of anything , any spells maybe to make him see that its wrong?

[Yasmine Galenorn]

If he is a stalker, you don't need a spell, you need the POLICE. Magic is NO GOOD without doing the practical.

And why the hell are you worried about a creep's feelings? If he's harassing you, then you MUST tell him "Leave me alone. I want NOTHING to do with you."

You must take responsibility for acting on this and use some common sense. Stalkers can be quite dangerous.

Document everything he's written to you (have you kept copies? If not, then do so from now on). Tell people what's happening.

And for that matter, why are you still talking to him? Why are you taking his calls? Good gods, by not telling him to STOP...by still accepting his calls, the cops may say you're encouraging him.

Once you've told him to knock it off, then when he continues to do this, you'll know that he's a threat. AFTER you've done all this, then you can use a binding spell to keep him away from you, or a mirror spell to return his energy to him. (Both can be found in my book Embracing the Moon, or version of them can be found in many witchcraft texts).

I know I sound a little harsh, but frankly, people come to me all the time with questions about how to use magic to protect themselves when they're leaving themselves wide open on the physical level. Magic isn't here to solve your problems, it's here to enhance what you do AFTER you've done the practical.

Good luck.
Yasmine

[Kudzu]

I agree with Yasmine. Magic should never be the first resort of the cowardly. It should be the supplement of the practical.

[Karma Chameleon]

Theres this guy, Roger, I met him once and talked to him...ONCE....and he thinks i like him....and i cant just say 'no i hate you leave me alone' I'd feel bad...hes in sodding virginia right now but he still calls constantly and talks about all the nasty little things he wants to do to me.....its quite disturbing and he wont go away...i tell him i have a boyfriend (i lie) but he doesnt take a hint and the next second hes talking about all the places he wants to touch me i hate it and i hate him...any ideas of anything , any spells maybe to make him see that its wrong?


First of all, you don't need any spells. Obviously the dude has something wrong with him and casting a spell won't cure it. You need to tell him to leave you alone and then immediately stop talking to him. Do not have any further contact what so ever with him. Don't try giving him any 'hints' to go away either, just flat out tell him to F off. By continuing to talk to him and by not telling him that you want nothing to do with him, you are only encouraging him to continue harassing you. If he still continues to stalk you and keeps trying to contact you after you told him that you don't want anything to do with him, call the police. Chances are he won't leave you alone even if you ask him to. So you must be prepared to document everthing and report everything to the police.

Also, you might want to get an unlisted telephone number to give out to your friends and family while keeping your old phone number and having an answering machine record all of your stalkers calls.

Here's a link about stalkers..
http://www.antistalking.com/aboutstalkers.htm (http://www.antistalking.com/aboutstalkers.htm)