someone i know has been shot

[Contra Mundum]

My friend was shot 2 times in the back. Please pray. Things are not looking good. He is on life support with one collapsed lung, and damage to his aorta. He is not concious as yet. So please pray.

[Nighthawk]

Man, not good. I shall do so.

[Flar's Freyja]

Urgent prayer on the way.

[Old Witch]

Prayers sent........

[mothwench]

poor little sweetie. :sadeyes: mental hugs and energies coming your (and his) way. :hugz:

[~Elise~]

Energy sent to both of you

Elise

[circesraven]

:hugz:

[AutumnRain]

I'm sorry hun, *hugs* & energy sent to you at this difficult time. :hugz:

BB
Autumn

[Contra Mundum]

thank you all for your prayers,he's still unconcious and in critical condition.http://70.85.169.212/3421/184/emo/crying.gifthey are still operating on his lung and aorta ,but we've been told to prepare for the worse.

[Ishtara]

Strength, energy and prayers sent to both of you :hugz:

[Temptation]

I'm so sorry. :hugz:

I've lit a candle and sent energy.

[Aleannah]

healing energy sent :hugz: keep us updated

[BlackMagicalCat]

Bless his heart,may God send his angels to stand by his bedside.I pray the Lord will stand between him and death,amen.

[Lunacie]

Prayers/good thoughts/energies for the best outcome possible.

[Willow Rosette]

IM so sorry for your pain. A candel is lit for your friends to heal and for you to have strength in the difficult time ahead.

[Contra Mundum]

oh my god he died.i'm in shock he was only 19.
i don't know what to do

[Nighthawk]

Awwww, I am so sorry. I guess you have to grieve, it is about that time. Hoping you're gonna be ok with this... I mean, in time. sorry.

[DaNcInG_WiNd]

:awwman: :awwman: :awwman: I am so sorry for your loss. May your friend be at peace and you find yours in this saddening time. Energies and well wishes sent to you.

[Dragonladyofwater]

I am so sorry! :hugz: My thoughts will be with you and the family.

[StellaLuna]

How awful.
You have my prayers and healing energies.
Strength and comfort to you and your friend's family.

love&light

[Catiana]

I'm so sorry, healing energies sent to you and his family.

[Contra Mundum]

oh my gods all my friends are fighting and i'm caught in the middle i feel so sad!!
i don't know what to do.i am so drunkl i can't take it

[Ceffyl]

My friend was shot 2 times in the back. Please pray. Things are not looking good. He is on life support with one collapsed lung, and damage to his aorta. He is not concious as yet. So please pray.
Really sorry to hear that. Lighting a candle for your friend... and for you to help you get through this horrible situation.

[daughtersleep]

Prayers and healing for all of you. :sadman:
You will be tired of hearing it, but I am so deeply sorry.

[Contra Mundum]

thank you all i just feel sad sorry for myyy behaviour.

[daughtersleep]

Your behaviour..? Don't know that anyone can blame you.
(It really won't always feel like this. It really won't.)

[Contra Mundum]

who knows ,,thankm youu though

[starfire]

When someone I loved and cared about died, I stayed away from alcohol, I knew I wouldn't ever stop. I hope you can find people to talk to, his family, your other friends, you guys can help support each other during this time. So sorry....so young....so hard...... Pray you can be guided to do what you need to so that you can get through all this.

[Contra Mundum]

i am not able to talk alcohol is the only thing i have right now.i just can't believe it .

[daughtersleep]

In your position, alcohol is one of the first places I would turn (hence I couldn't blame you)--but starfire is right to say it might never stop. Please be careful; your friend wouldn't want you to hurt yourself.

(Aaaaaaand...no more soapboxes from me.)

Alcohol will never be the only thing you have, even if it's impossible to feel otherwise. Whenever you are able/ want to talk about it--for all it will be said a thousand times, and you're probably sick of it already--we're always here.
Whatever the path is that gives you strength, may you find peace and guidance there.

[starfire]

i am not able to talk alcohol is the only thing i have right now.i just can't believe it .

Instead of drinking, I walked, and walked and walked. It helped get that energy that gets built up and makes your stomach all twisted. If you can't talk, maybe ask one of the other people who were involved if they need to talk, you can listen. It will help them, and it will help you with your feelings too.

Hugs to you

[Contra Mundum]

oh i did that.but no one wants to talk.

[The Dagda]

the fates have reasons for everything, even for something an act so violent, and a result so terrible. confusion reigns in the imediate aftermath of an event such as this, and it is important to realise that it is futile to try and understand why. forces beyond our conception are at work, and take comfort in knowing that they are benign, all-knowing, and loving. As regards alcohol, it would be premature to suggest that a few drinks during your period of mourning would lead to anything else, and besides, it will help you sleep, and that is somthing you should get plenty of. At the risk of this turning into a sermon, i will say one more thing, look after yourself.

[Willow Rosette]

Oh hun Im so sorry for your loss. A candel is lit for both you and your friends family. Take the time to grieve and search out those that understand your loss. :hugz:

[Ravendancer]

Sending all the energy that I can your way. There is a way of healing sweetie. And it takes a while. But believe that it will happen. Time helps, things keep moving, even when we want the world to stop turning. *Tight Hugs*
You will get the strength, I can feel it vibrate from you......He will give it to you. Believe in yourself and him....

[starfire]

well if you need to talk to me, I will keep watching. If you have any questions, I will answer to the best of my abilities. And with the others, at least you let them know that you are willing to talk, who knows they may call on you later. I had one very close friend that allowed me to call any time day or night. I would go to his house for hugs, it just made me feel better. He is also the only one that I could cry around. I hope you have someone in your life like this that you can turn to. Even a brother or sister. let others know what you need, they don't always know how to help.

Isn't it nice to know so many here care, just wish I was close by to give you that hug, you know the kind you feel all commfy in and can let go.......

[Sea Ash]

oh my god he died.i'm in shock he was only 19.
i don't know what to do

Borderlinesin...
Greetings my wounded friend.....
I know the devastation - I'm sorry as I feel your pain and anguish through my pc screen.
The only thing you can do right now is what you're already doing - proccessing. Your friend is with you....intangible to you, which is why this is so hard and will continue to be hard in the coming weeks until the understanding of his energy presence settles with you. Embrace this pain so that the feeling of the situation doesn't get away from you. We're here for you - know that.
I have suffered much loss in the past 23 years beginning at the age of 19.....It will change you as it has already begun to do so.
You are under the illusion at this moment that you are alone in your pain...in darkness where there is confusion and no grace. WE will make sure that you feel love and perspective from this.

Love, Sobriety and Peace,
Sea Ash