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Nova Starlight
July 19th, 2005, 04:45 PM
Is there anyone there that has a few minutes that they can spare to talk with me i feel like im at rock bottom with so many horrible things going on in my life at the moment for example my best friend has told me that she has slept with my 17 year old son and i cant deal with the thought of that ,everyone hates my SO..my teenager has left home and wont talk to me..my other son has shacked up in my house with his pregnat girlfriend and keeps having goes at me all the time so please is there anyone there who can help me ??

my msn messenger is novastarlight@hotmail.co.uk

blessings and thanks Rosie

Contra Mundum
July 19th, 2005, 05:03 PM
oh my god that is terrible!i'm sorry

Nighthawk
July 19th, 2005, 05:08 PM
Man, what the heck is going on? Can I help?

Neass
July 19th, 2005, 07:50 PM
I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. :ack: Your so called best friend will get whats coming to her. She can't do what she has done without paying for it. As for your other son, it's your house, you pay the bills. He needs to respect you but he doesn't. I know you love him but it's time for some 'TOUGH LOVE'. :bastard: They need to help with expenses and show you some respect or kick them out. If he gets un-ruley, call the police and have him escorted of the property and then follow through with having him legally evicted. I know this isn't what you want to hear but it's what they need. Sometimes the hard lessons in life is exactly what they need. You have us for moral support, even if we aren't there in person, we will be here in spirite. :) I'm here if you want to talk!

blackroseivy
July 19th, 2005, 08:10 PM
This is such a lousy situation!! The thing I have learned from reading (Tarot) about such situations is simply that these people have their own minds - trying to force the issue not only will not have the desired effect, it will push them farther away in the long run & make them more likely to mess up. I certainly will pray for you & hope that they come out of it soon! :(