I hate to ask, but could I have a reading, please?

[Faery-Wings]

I know I haven't been around in this forum much lately. I would love to do a reading in return, but I have been starting to work with my cards the last two weeks, and I am *just* starting to feel tiny sparks of energy come through. Very hard reading for myself. :(

Anyway, my question is about my relationship with my husband. We are in this place where we have become distant with each other. He has changed and I am not sure I like that. As a result, we have been arguing a lot- I don't see us on the same "page" so to speak and it is coloring my thoughts and reactions. There are things within myself that are making me unhappy and insecure and I am having a real hard time examining them.

Any insight at all would be so helpful.

BB

Chris

[Kristin Ann]

Hi Chris, I'll do a reading for you this evening after I've finished my cleaning and laundry, :). I'll be thinking of you too, :).

Love & light always,
Kristin Ann

[Lavender]

Hi Chryss, I pulled a card for you from my Wheel of Change Tarot. *Love this deck!*

The card is Strength (r) - it's my favourite card. A naked woman is riding a lioness, chasing the lion. She just exudes strength & vitality. All the symbols on the card is talking about passion, vitality, strength. Are you two communicating your needs to each other? One of you is more passionate than the other? More decisive than the other? You're into a new phase of your life but you need to step up & show a little strength. Sort of let yourself blossom into the woman/person you should be.

[Faery-Wings]

Kristin Ann- Thanks so much for your offer. Just want to let you know, I am going away for the weekend, so I promise to get back to you on Monday with feedback. BTW~ my name is Christine Ann :)

Wildchild~ Your reading was enlightening. I forget that I am a strong person. Gary (hubby) is strong too (Taurus :eek: ). He recently started a band and it is taking over ...everything. And I am passionate and possessive of "family time." This is where we have been butting heads. From your reading, I am getting that I need to let him go and do what he has to, and learn to stand on my own as well.

Now is the question of how?
:)

Chris

[Lavender]

Ack! I knew I should have trusted my initial instincts! I had a feeling I read the card wrong. I kept thinking it should be less strength, let go more. :rolleyes: Sorry about that! :p

[Faery-Wings]

No, no you were right too- it is both! (yeah, I am confusing LOL!)

I need to learn to be strong and stand up for myself in some ways. And in other ways I need to learn to let go and be strong on my own. The trick is going to be learning when to be strong and stand firm and when to be strong and let go.

So yes, you were right. And so were your initial instinctstoo. I am probably not an easy person to read for.:crylaugh:

Thanks again,

Chris

[Lavender]

Want me to attempt a "how" reading later tonight? :p

[Faery-Wings]

If you have nothing better to do, Yes please!!!

:)

Thank you so much!
Chris

[Lavender]

Ugh! Sorry, Chryss! I've been fighting a cold for the last couple days & didn't seem energetic enough to do that reading for you. I hope you had a good weekend. I was hoping to feel better by Sunday night. Maybe someone here wants to do the "how"?

[Faery-Wings]

Oh please don't worry about it. :) Just feel better. Maybe tonight after the kids are in bed, I can do a reading formyself- trying to figure out "how" to help my marriage is a much easier reading than "what the h*** is wrong with my marriage." I know he loves me, I really do. And everything will work out- I just hope that I can figure it out so I don't make us both miserable in the meantime.

Please go rest and get some soup or tea, Ms. Wildchild!

Chris