View Full Version : Help!! i need advice!?
MysTiK
November 9th, 2001, 05:25 PM
I have recently had a HUGE falling out with my best friend. Before you think oh how stupid, or woteva, understand that i really do love her and this has really upset me. That's not the problem though, it's just that i don't know how to deal with them being so mean to me. It's not just normal falling out nasty though, they are so petty and immature when we fall out. (yes it has happened before) They followed me around the supermarket last night because they thought it was funny!! and they give me prank phone calls all the time!!
Plz, plz, plz help me!! i need to get over her because she is not worth it but i can't!!
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Pheonix
November 9th, 2001, 07:48 PM
Ignore her, prove to her that her efforts are not working and that you are above such childishness. If all else fails notify somebody. That might put her in place. lol
Xander67
November 9th, 2001, 10:55 PM
the fact she is doing these things indicates she is still trying to get your attention......
but the best thing to do is ignore her,and if that doesnt work
ya might want to get yer parents involved...:)
Gender Nectar
November 10th, 2001, 12:47 AM
They want for you to be bothered, so try and put on a stone face, or I find what works is to make fun of them back...not bickering, just a mature, to the point retort. Maybe it's time you no longer care what others think about you. They are, afterall, the ones acting childish.
Myst
November 10th, 2001, 12:48 AM
Yup, ignore her, obviously she isn't worth your time.
UnSolon
November 10th, 2001, 03:13 AM
Sounds like a pretty childish thing to do to me. Follow someone around making fun of them.
However the fact that they (she) is following you might mean that she still likes you. That even if she is angry with you (and you with her) she is not going to simply stop ignoreing you.
Mind you I dont really know the situation.
However I have been stuck in the middle of situations like that. When a whole bunch of my friends have divided into sides and wont even bother trying to patch things up, wont swallow their pride (any of them) and apologize to each other. One saying he is not going to apologize untill she does, and her saying the same thing (vica versa).
Call her up, just talk to her. Dont apologize untill you guys have sorted out what the problem was. If you guys start yelling at each other, STOP. Take a five minute break. Come back to it with a calm mind. Adrenalin rushing through the brain is the WORST way to try and solve an argument.
Peace
flar7
November 10th, 2001, 09:03 PM
with her? If so, call and ask whats up. Ask why this is happening.
Then if she doesnt want to be your friend, igoring them and gettin a better friend works pretty well. Living well is the best revenge.
It took a third party to get me and one of my best friends back together, and it was worth it. We just had to forget the past and move on.
MysTiK
November 11th, 2001, 02:24 PM
Thank u all 4 caring! I didn't expect any one to take me seriously but u all did! Back to school tomorrow and i'll put some of your advice into practise! i'll let you know how it all goes!
Ball-Bhreac Ròn
November 12th, 2001, 01:38 PM
well.....how DID it go? Enlighten us please ;)
MysTiK
November 13th, 2001, 04:32 PM
I totally ignored the little *$£%#!&^%!?! And she hasn't said a single word to me!!! I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Happy!!!!!!!!!! thank you all loads and loads and loads!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE WWW.MYSTICWICKS.COM!!!!!!!!!!
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~PEACE~
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Ball-Bhreac Ròn
November 14th, 2001, 01:44 PM
yey! Who doesn't? :p
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