Please send energy!!!

[merlo]

I don't ask for tooooo much here, but you guys, I really need help! My ex-girlfriend the wicked fairy just e-mailed me, basically asking me to call her. We have been through too much. My family would seriously disown me if they found I had contacted her. Not to mention all the other b/s I've already been through with her. The only thing is: I'm lonely, and it's getting hard not to think about her. Here's a hammer, :smash: smack some sense into me!!

[Lunacie]

Don't do it !

Not until tomorrow, not until you've given it some thought
or talked it over with someone. I've been there, lonely and
missing my ex. But in time I was able to see just how much
happier and better off I was apart from him. Srong emotions
can keep us from thinking clearly or seeing the situation the
way it really is instead of the way we wish it were. Hugs :hugz:

[Madame De La Mort]

Good luck with it..and put away the hammer it won't help your thinking

[Willow Rosette]

Hon you dont need to be thumped. But I do agree wait untill tomorrow to call so you have time to think before you do it. Im kinda in the same position so Im not going to lecture just please think it through first.

[Earthy]

Merlo..don't do it!
You want me to come over there and smack you round the back of the head, bro?????
Seriously, you know you'll end up getting hurt..I know you're lonely but is it worth it in the long run?
You know I support you no matter what, i just don't want you being hurt again. :hugz: :hugz:
Love ya!

[BlackMagicalCat]

In my younger days I had a girlfriend just like that,she could yank my chain anytime she got ready,I loved her,and couldnt stand to be without her,she made me feel warm inside,but she was hard to get along with,so ,finally I moved to another town where I had a job,and never saw her again.But she has a place in my heart still.I dont know what happened to her.

[Ishtara]

Sending you strength, hugs and positive energy :hugz:

You know what to do (or rather, what not to do), so trust your intuition and do not let her manipulate you! Best of luck :hugz:

[darkone_withwords]

I wouldn't call her. If yall have been through alot and your family dosen't want you to talk to her I would listen to them. If your lonely and need a friend to talk to pm me and I will talk to you. Sometimes it is best if you leave the one you love alone for a while and then when and if you get back togather it is that much better.
~dark

[AutumnRose_43725]

:nonono:

(energy sent!)

[merlo]

Thanks y'all. Sometimes I wish this weren't a public forum....My web is tangled with this one.

[Earthy]

:hugz: brother of mine.

[Sun Sprite]

Best wishes. I know it can be tought to make that decesion. She maywant something totally unrelated to restrating a relationship. If so, she should be able to let you know through a mutual friend. Don't forget to take care of yourself.