View Full Version : AHHH! She's invading my bubble!
Artemis84
November 15th, 2001, 05:43 PM
What do you guys do when people just won't accept your faith? For months the youth group leader at my friend's church has been pestering me. I only went to one or two youth groups about a year ago. On the second occastion she found out I was Wiccan. Now she keeps calling wanting to know if I can get together and "talk" with her (just so you know, we had that big religous talk already). She keeps sending me church pamphlets and says she'll pray for me. I know she means well, but she will just not get the hint and leave me alone. Like I said before: She's invading my personal bubble! :)
talamh
November 15th, 2001, 06:03 PM
She obviously needs more then a polite hint.
Tell her firmly but politely that while you understand she is concerned and that her faith encourages recruitment and conversion, that you have absolutely no intention or wish to change your beliefs.
Then ask her to please stop contacting you.
That's all you need. After that, it's harassment. If she keeps on, contact the officials of her church and say that if she continues to harrass you, you will seek a peace bond to keep her from contacting you.
That should do it. Don't let her continue because you are too polite to ask her to stop. She is exploiting your good nature in the false hope that you will "see the light". Don't let her waste any more of your time.. or hers. bb talamh
Yvonne Belisle
November 15th, 2001, 06:04 PM
Notify them that you apreciate thier concern however they have crossed the line and are now harrassing you and you want it to stop. If your parents know of your choice and approve ask them to support you in this.
flar7
November 15th, 2001, 06:06 PM
could try to convert her! Offer to trade pamphlets, (if you cant find em, make em)
Tell her since you went to their church, she should go to yours, but she has to bring her own goat for the sacrifice! lol :)
Artemis84
November 15th, 2001, 06:43 PM
My parents know about my Wiccan beliefs and are fine with it. My dad is just as annoyed as I am with this lady because he is always covering for me so I don't have to talk to her. He calls her the "deprogrammer." :D
Yvonne Belisle
November 15th, 2001, 06:59 PM
Then enlist his aid. Tell this woman that continued contact would be harrassment and that you are prepared to take legal action if she will not back off.
MammaStar
November 15th, 2001, 07:12 PM
Originally posted by flar7
could try to convert her! Offer to trade pamphlets, (if you cant find em, make em)
Tell her since you went to their church, she should go to yours, but she has to bring her own goat for the sacrifice! lol :)
:lol: :lol: :lol: :T :T :T :T :crylaugh: :crylaugh: :crylaugh: :crylaugh:
Lavender
November 15th, 2001, 11:11 PM
Originally posted by flar7
could try to convert her! Offer to trade pamphlets, (if you cant find em, make em)
Tell her since you went to their church, she should go to yours, but she has to bring her own goat for the sacrifice! lol :)
That was going to be my suggestion too! :D
Seriously, Artemis, I gather you're still under your parent's guardianship? You father should have a talk with this youth leader & tell him to stop harrassing you. I'm sure if your dad tells him the next step would be legal action, he will stop.
Amora
November 16th, 2001, 08:14 AM
I have never had a problem letting people know I'm not interested and to back off. It's a relatively easy thing to do, for me anyway. Just be honest and forth-right. She has no right to push her beliefs on you but you have every right to make her leave you alone.
And then, of course, the suggestion to ask her to bring a goat to a sacrafice is just a classic! :crylaugh:
Starlight
November 16th, 2001, 08:45 AM
Simple answer>>>>>>>>> Say "Get Out Of My Bubble!"
:lol: This way she'll think your a psycho nut and leave you alone! :D
Artemis84
November 16th, 2001, 09:09 AM
Cool idea! That's hard to resist! Unfortunately I'm one of those people that has a hard time being mean to people.
Starlight
November 16th, 2001, 09:21 AM
Oh hey! Ya'know what you could do???? The next time she asks you about religion or anyhting......Just bust out in tears and start rambaling about being saved and exorcised! Even fall down and grab her pantleg just for effect! Then see what she does!! :lol: :rotfl: :lol:
Amora
November 16th, 2001, 01:00 PM
:crylaugh: :rotfl: :crylaugh: :rotfl:
mato
November 16th, 2001, 04:32 PM
Had that problem a few years back, but eventually they got the hint... Or I scared them...
Just tell her to cut it out or go away, that you dont need to be constantly bothered by that shtuff, and you would rather have it end peacefully. Or simply say that you respect their beliefs and that although you do respect them you dont appriciate the targeting, so stop.
Or scare the bajebus out of them... Speak backwards and in latin say it is tongues that you have been touched by an angel and they promised to call...
Lunamoth
November 16th, 2001, 04:40 PM
Originally posted by mato
Or scare the bajebus out of them...
"Save me Jeeeebuuus!!" - Homer Simpson
(Sorry, couldn't help myself.)
mato
November 16th, 2001, 04:52 PM
:rotfl:
Illuminatus
November 16th, 2001, 05:31 PM
Are there pagan tracts out there I can download and print out? I would love to get a few.
Ah found one
www.aquatabch.org/afwe/antitracts.html
bansidhe
November 17th, 2001, 05:48 AM
i should come over there and sort her out for ya artemis! i go to a christian (luthern actually) skool, so ive had plenty of practice! some people are juss like that tho, they dont want to be educated. get your dad to speak to her, whatever, but at least let her know for sure where youre standing! its not being mean, its juss standing up for yourself. :)
Starlight
November 17th, 2001, 09:12 PM
Tell her to join this great "Christian" forum you found called Mystic Wicks and we'll defintly take care of her for ya! tell her to read this thread specifically(sp?) :lol:
Lavender
November 17th, 2001, 10:45 PM
Originally posted by Illuminatus
Are there pagan tracts out there I can download and print out? I would love to get a few.
Ah found one
www.aquatabch.org/afwe/antitracts.html
:rotfl: I love that! I'm going to have to print some out! Thanks! :lol:
mato
November 17th, 2001, 11:45 PM
they're copyrighted so you should probably buy them for the low low price of $15... Dont want to be a nag but thats illegal.
That one was hallarious, and informative!
Lavender
November 18th, 2001, 12:06 AM
Sorry, I was laughing too hard! I meant I was going print up some of my own. :lol: What a great gag!
Artemis84
November 18th, 2001, 10:05 AM
That was great! I want the whole book now!
Starlight
November 19th, 2001, 01:53 PM
Their worth it! :lol:
flar7
November 20th, 2001, 02:14 AM
your jewish.
for some reason, christians dont go after jewish people as much.
Or not around here anyway.
Starlight
November 20th, 2001, 12:14 PM
Or maybe Jahova's Witness (sp?) :lol:
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