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Youngpagan87
November 21st, 2001, 11:13 AM
Im not sure, but can we use magick to make a loved one become closer and more open to you? I need help getting my boyfriend to open up about his emotions...Any ideas, help???

Genifer

Myst
November 21st, 2001, 12:29 PM
What do you think? Ultimately your magick is your responsibility and only you will be affected by it - so what do you think?

Personally, I wouldn't do it. I would think there was a reason my bf would be closed to sharing, or that we just need time to get closer before he will, so I wouldn't try to force it. I would think tampering with him sharing his emotions would be unethical and could have karmic repercussions too, because you'd be influencing his feelings and thoughts.

ShadowCat
November 21st, 2001, 12:39 PM
I agree that I do not think it is a very good idea.. but again it's ultimately up to you.
Usually, with these sorts of problems where you would like to involve Magick, I think it is best to turn to yourself and see what you can change about yourself rather than toy with another's emotions. Perhaps a spell which would make you seem more welcoming; something which may help you to find out why he is not being completely open; or something similar of your construction might help, even if it does not totally solve the problem.
Thank you for listening to my opinion, I hope I have helped :)