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Kodachi
September 7th, 2005, 09:43 PM
I just don't get it. Its like jumping on a lily, you're on it and then it slips away. I just don't feel normal, like myself. I feel like I understand everything but I then understand nothing and everything is nonsense and I get upset more often.

Ok lemme try to work this out (I'm a Mercury Rx so bear with me, its better in my mind than transfering on the page) All this summer - all this year I've been having nothing but complicated issues from college to job to people to just myself and my spirituality. I want to grow better and be better but it seems as if I really don't know how and when I do find a point, it isn't long before I'm back at square one thinking that I'm just wrong.

Ya see, I'm a psychic as well as a Witch. I always was told to meditate everyday and crap like that they way that I am told but it seems like no way I can really work with. I just feel like I can't work with me because I'm the one that messes up (sorry if I'm not making sense, I'm a poet). I want to be a better psychic and Witch (plus I've heard of the adage "Use it or lose it" I don't wanna lose my abilities). I've been told that the name of the game is just to build a better connection with the subconscious and even read an article on it where a person talked with himself in the form of a game until he found that he was bringing out his inner voice. Now I know that I already have mine and that I am highly psychic but it seems like, I feel fake sometimes like I'm just pretending cuz I'm not doing this stuff like they do in the movies (as if that's suppose to be how it is *roll eyes*). Now, when I was young, I was lonely and had no one to play with and especially no one to play with me, I "split my mind in two" just to have a person to talk to and help with my issue but I tried the question thing but it seems like I was on both ends of the line and the other person (the inner voice I guess, I call her "mind") was gone. I know that I do my best when I let my subconscious, "mind" do the work but to me, I feel like now I'm trying to see my own face by looking over my shoulder and watch a game with a bird's eye view while I'm one of the players. Its so hard. I feel like I'm shutting down and going no where really really fast. Then lets add the part where insecurity and unsureness was the main keyword of my summer due to job and school (and even are the keywords of now). I'm so stressed and it seems like nothing is happen while everything moves.

Can someone PM me so I can talk about this? Thanks for reading.

AutumnRain
September 8th, 2005, 07:25 PM
Only just caught this post honey, but hope everythings OK and that you're feeling a little better. Will keep you in my thoughts. :hugz:


Love & Light,
Autumn

CzechWoods
September 9th, 2005, 02:41 AM
use it or lose it sounds a bit overrated

Astara Seague
September 10th, 2005, 04:20 PM
Sounds to me you may be a bit out of balance, I dont think anything is wrong with you... just get your priorities inline and dont try to do everything at once...

Zhr Morgana
September 13th, 2005, 02:55 PM
Sounds to me you may be a bit out of balance, I dont think anything is wrong with you... just get your priorities inline and dont try to do everything at once...
My sentiments exactly...hope that things get better for you...and remember to let things just "be"...don't feel like you have to be anything or do anything in order for things to be right. You need to figure out what your main priorities are and just go with it.

Kodachi
September 14th, 2005, 09:43 PM
Thank you for your help. I'm starting to understand that now. I guess its me having all this time on my hands and nothing to do with it.

Kathleen Wyse
September 14th, 2005, 10:35 PM
Hang in there! The meditation really can work, the problem is that no one told me ahead of time that it makes things way worse before they get better. I had enough baggage from my youth to weigh down a caravan when I happened to take an introductory Zen meditation class just so I could understand what my husband had gotten into. While I had always remembered the things that had happened to me, meditation caused me to begin reliving them. It was absolute hell! I ended up going to a shrink (which was a waste of time) and was diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder. The only thing that really helped me was continuing the meditation and learning slowly how to set boundaries for the past and all of the stuff I was picking up from other people. It was a very painful process, but it paid off. All I can say is hang in there, and if you can find anything to help like I did, then stick to it. Just make sure you don't fall back on anything that is self-destructive. Good luck!