Fidelity

[FaerieDragon]

I am in serious need of an effective spell to ensure my husband remains faithful. It sort of needs to combine a detachment from a certain person in his past, and a release from the power she holds over him. She is not a pagan, but I do not put past her the ability to use a spell to hold him to her.

I know that it does take 2, but ever since I've known him she's had this power over him.

Any suggestions would be VERY helpful:(

B*B
FaerieDragon

[Lavender]

Can I ask a couple of questions first? How does your husband feel about this person? Does he want the spell too? Do you know for sure if the other woman is using magic?

[FaerieDragon]

I've asked him several times if he wants something done, and he has emphatically replied yes everytime.

As far as I can tell he feels...nothing...not hate not love, no emotions wasted on her, but as i said, he feels this power over him.

I'm not absolutely certain she would be using majick on him, but she will stop at nothing to make sure we are not happy, and is succeeding, and I really want this to end.

Would a spell against psychic attack be more effective? I'm at my wits end

[Lavender]

There are things you could try magickally. I would suggest a mirror spell. Something to reflect the magic of the sender back to them. As well as a binding spell. The freezer ones works well. There are so many variations of that one. Basically, you write the name of the person on a piece of paper & freeze it in a ziplock in the freezer. I think in this case, it would be more effective if your husband participates also.

Some things to consider is that could your husband be using this as an excuse? A fidelity spell is not a good idea because you're casting a spell to manipulate someone. With the two options above, this may give your husband "breathing space" to increase his own will. I would suggest you sit down with him to work out the wording of each spell & as well as the components you want to use.

[white_draco]

The order you do Magick : 1 - you do what you can without using Magick. 2 - if you can't resolve the situation without the mundane use Magick if necessary.

Why can't you husband just stand up to her, why can't you stand up to her, why can't you BOTH stand up to her....

That's what I want to know...

-White Draco-

[Theres]

i think any spell you plan on using would be useless if he DOESN'T participate!
and as far as using a spell ethically, why not cast a protection or shield around HIM. it would avoid doing anything against anybody's will, and would block any perceived influence without any karmic repercussions.

[Myst]

Some great ideas here, and I was just going to repeat what Wildchild already suggested. Mirror spells and freezie spells work really well and there's no need to entangle your energy with the other person's that way - their energy is just sent right back without touching you, or frozen out. I've used both kinds of these spells with good success.

[FaerieDragon]

He can't stand up to her, because she has their daughter,and he's afraid she'll run off with her if she thinks he's trying to cause problems, and I can't stand up to her because she's very violent, and I'm 22 weeks pregnant.

Thank you very much for your input, I was wondering how to stop this without stepping all over 3 fold karma.

B*B
FaerieDragon

[Myst]

Have you guys looked at taking her to court to work out the custody of the daughter?

[seawitch]

the responsibility of your husbands fidelity is his.
you don't have to worry about it if you have a happy relationship your husband wont stray. and if he does it wasn't meant to be.
i can understand your love for him. and your need to feel secure at a time like this. maybe you need a protection spell for your family

[Rick]

I'd recommend either Practical Rune Magic IV or Practical Rune Magic VI; both can be found 'stuck' at the top of this forum.

And I wouldn't be too worried about the Law of Three ('course, I'm not Wiccan). I've been the agent of the Law of Three (or Ten, if they REALLY p'd me off) a time or two, myself.

[Hedwig]

I just thought I would mention that any binding or separating you would do would most likely automatically block the child involved too. I would try very hard to not use magic when there is a child involved.