Help! (Good Energy Request)

[Merrie]

<<sigh>> I don't know what to do...my best friend is having a lot of trouble right now, and i feel so horribly useless...her parents...let's just say they arent the most nurturing people...her mother takes her money, she's constantly abused (mentally and physically), and now she's been kicked out of her home for -get this- speaking to her estranged grandparents. Last i saw of her was today at school, I gave her a hug and told her to call me if she needed anything before she was led away in tears by the guidance counselor...i don't know what's happening...
Please, if you have time, light a candle for Denise.
Thank you.
:heartthro

[Niamh]

Sending positive energy along... to both of you! :)

[flar7]

and for you as well.

[Kristin Ann]

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}} and energy for the both of you, :).

Love & light always,
Kristin Ann

[MammaStar]

((((((HUGS)))))) to you Merrie & good energy for your friend. She is very lucky to have a person like you to care for her.

[Merrie]

RRRRRrrrrRRRRR!!!!!
It makes me so....frustrated!!!! I'm thankful beyond words for all you kind people did before...and things looked for awhile like they were going to be alright...and now they've blown up again. I'm sorry to have to bump this and bother you again...her mother now wont let her eat any of "her" food, but refuses to let her go to work so she cant buy her own....And now she's threatening to send her away. D has said repeatedly that the only things she cares about, the only good things in her life are her friends and her job at the animal shelter. So her mother strives to take them both away. RRRRRRRRR!
Her mother thinks ill of everyone...she's decided her daughter and i both practice negative witchcraft to hurt her!!! She assumes this w/o any reason...D is no witch, and i'm not one to cast spells much. I'm more the light a candle and pray type...and she doesnt even know that! She doesnt know i'm interested in being pagan, but has decided that her unhappiness has to have come form somewhere (surely not herself) So it MUST be us!!! Now she's trying to send her her 3 STATES AWAY so we cant even talk!!!!!!
<<pant>> <<pant>>
Uuuh. <<deep breath>>
Sorry for the rant. Um. I'm sorry to impose, but if anyone has time, or happens to remember us while praying or something...i'd be much obliged.Um. I dunno. <<Sigh>> At this point all i want is what's best...she cant keep living with mommie dearest, it's toxic. But going away would rip apart all she has left...She's going for lawyers, and child service people...i dont know. I'm humbly asking you to join me for a sec...add some good energy...just in hopes of bringing this bad situation to the best possible conclusion for all parties involved nomatter what that may be. Any advice you can give, any anything would be appreciated. Thank you for your time!!!

[cybele]

Merrie,

I do and will continue to send my best thoughts to your friend, her Mother and to you. Truthfully the best I may be able to muster is a deep crushing empathy. It is tragic when those who we look up to don't live up to the honor. I had a friend who had the same type of problem with her Mother. It did work out o.k, but it took a long time. The key I think was that both learned compassion. It is a very hard thing to put oneself in the place of a tormentor, especially when it is one's Mother. To see the flaws and the cause of the hurtful actions is a step. Not that this will soothe the situation ( immediately ) but it helps the injured to forgive and realise the most important thing..........It is not her ( his) fault. That is the support you give your friend, to make sure she realises that she did not cause and/or deserve this treatment.

Best blessings and strength,
Cybele

[StormChaser]

The best advice I can offer is to be her true friend, keep in contact regardless of distance and change. Be supportive and encouraging, and do exactly are as you are now, lean on your friends for support through this.

There are other practical things you can do to help her, I know so many kids with very similar problems. I've come across it time and time again in peer couceling. It's a sad fact in this world there are people in charge of the faiths of the young who shouldn't be entrusted with anything so precious as a life.

I send you strength, endurance, and perserverance. May the lord and lady hold you both close to heart within gentle hand.

Blessed Be,
Storm Chaser