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~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 01:31 AM
As a few of you know, I am pregnant and am due in December. For the past week or so, I have felt no movement of the baby at all. The doctor today, could not find a heartbeat...and, has stated, that if I have felt no movement by Monday, he is going to induce labour. This is not a good sign...I'm not sure what to think or do....I'm trying to stay positive, and keep praying that there is some movement...anything....I read between the lines...this is not good. :awwman:

BlueMoon13
September 25th, 2005, 01:34 AM
As a few of you know, I am pregnant and am due in December. For the past week or so, I have felt no movement of the baby at all. The doctor today, could not find a heartbeat...and, has stated, that if I have felt no movement by Monday, he is going to induce labour. This is not a good sign...I'm not sure what to think or do....I'm trying to stay positive, and keep praying that there is some movement...anything....I read between the lines...this is not good. :awwman:
Oh,man........{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

Teresa
September 25th, 2005, 01:41 AM
:hugz: Dressing a candle on your behalf! :hugz: :hugz:

elfmage
September 25th, 2005, 01:41 AM
(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) You and your baby will be in my prayers. I hope hope hope hope hope everything will be fine. :( ((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))

WtchyChick13
September 25th, 2005, 01:42 AM
Oh sweetie, sending you lots and lots of love and of course thinking nothing but good thoughts! :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

Vivienne
September 25th, 2005, 01:47 AM
I am so sorry to hear that, Anamorta. I am chanting prayers that the baby is just feeling a bit sluggish lately, and will soon be kicking up a storm. Please try to be strong and positive...although I know it's difficult right now.

I'm not sure if this will help, but it is a common belief in metaphysics that if the fetus is no longer viable, it could mean that the child's soul has decided that now would not be the best time to show up. Perhaps he/she is looking for an optimum situation to manifest in order to provide him/her with the experiences necessary to help her/him to evolve.

Chanting prayers for a happy outcome,
Vivienne

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 01:50 AM
Should i be worried? If I understood what he wasn't saying, there is a possibility, that my baby will be stillborn. When I asked the doctor if this was possible, he didn't answer me, but gave me this look, that pretty much summed it up for me. I don't know what to think at this point... :confused:

Sothis*Crowfeather
September 25th, 2005, 02:03 AM
aww, I'll keep you both in my thoughts. *******hugs!********

BlueMoon13
September 25th, 2005, 02:06 AM
Yes,hun, you should be concerned about what your doctor is NOT saying. I don't want to alarm you, but your doctor is saying that he can't detect a heartbeat, there has'nt been any movement detectable by you,and that if there is no movement or heartbeat by Monday he wants to induce your labour 2 months before your due date.

I think you need to call his office,right now, and find out EXACTLY what it is he was NOT saying,before you worry yourself sick. Did he have you on a monitor at hospital, or just one of those quickie things in the office?

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 02:24 AM
Yes,hun, you should be concerned about what your doctor is NOT saying. I don't want to alarm you, but your doctor is saying that he can't detect a heartbeat, there has'nt been any movement detectable by you,and that if there is no movement or heartbeat by Monday he wants to induce your labour 2 months before your due date.

I think you need to call his office,right now, and find out EXACTLY what it is he was NOT saying,before you worry yourself sick. Did he have you on a monitor at hospital, or just one of those quickie things in the office?

Monitor at the hospital....twice, and no heartbeat either time.

Morr
September 25th, 2005, 02:38 AM
*hugs*

I am very sorry.
I have lost a child while I was pregnant (Miscarriage mid pregnancy). But I am sending you lots of positive thoughts and energies. Try and stay strong till you know anything for absolute sure.




Moving this to Family & Parenting Forum

BlueMoon13
September 25th, 2005, 02:41 AM
Sounds like he's been thorough as far as monitoring goes, I wish he'd been more communicative with you. Before anything happens on Monday, make sure you know exactly what to expect, before,during, and after your labour, if it turns out that you must deliver now. Is there someone who can be there with you?

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 03:22 AM
Sounds like he's been thorough as far as monitoring goes, I wish he'd been more communicative with you. Before anything happens on Monday, make sure you know exactly what to expect, before,during, and after your labour, if it turns out that you must deliver now. Is there someone who can be there with you?

My stepmother is coming in, so I will have at least one person with me....

Cassie
September 25th, 2005, 03:40 AM
Whatever happens my thoughts and prayers are with you. :hugz:

BlueMoon13
September 25th, 2005, 03:42 AM
Whatever happens my thoughts and prayers are with you. :hugz:
Me,too........ :uhhuhuh:

Earthy
September 25th, 2005, 03:46 AM
Oh hon :hugz:
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

FlyingBear
September 25th, 2005, 03:46 AM
Praying!!!! :loveydove

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 04:03 AM
Thank you everyone....

Semele
September 25th, 2005, 08:10 AM
My prayers are with you hun. Make the doctor talk to you and explain what is going on. Looks are not enough..he has words and you deserve to hear them.

misschief
September 25th, 2005, 08:17 AM
i hope everything is ok.

Ceres
September 25th, 2005, 08:18 AM
I am with Semele, you should not be left wondering what he is thinking - especially left wondering for an entire weekend. Start by asking straight out what you are most worried has happened and work from there. I would see if you can get ahold of someone even though its the weekend - you SHOULD NOT have been left unsure.

frigga
September 25th, 2005, 08:55 AM
:uhhuhuh:
My prayers are with you hun. Make the doctor talk to you and explain what is going on. Looks are not enough..he has words and you deserve to hear them.
I definately agree. Im SO sorry you have to go through this, and waiting on top of it, ugh! LOts of energy sent to you! :hugz:

Teresa
September 25th, 2005, 09:15 AM
Monitor at the hospital....twice, and no heartbeat either time.
I would say boo on that doctor and have myself checked into the hospital with a monitor.Making you wait is only prolonging your agony and worry which if your baby is still living does not make for a good environment. It is best that you know for sure one way or the other. Call and make arrangements for your other child and go to the hospital!I have a candle burning on your behalf! :hugz: Sending energies to help you thru this troubled time!

Cyzarine
September 25th, 2005, 10:07 AM
:awwman: I will be lighting a candle for you and your baby. Please, just go to the hospital if you can and have them tell you over there. This doctor sounds like an a$$#%^&. You should call his office too and ask them to tell you what is going on. It's his job to let you know everything. I will be praying for you... :hugz:

Lunacie
September 25th, 2005, 11:26 AM
Oh, I'm so pissed at your doctor, and all doctors who can't find the words to explain - often because they are afraid a woman will get "emotional". Grrrrrrrrrrr.

Good advice here. If you can't get ahold of the doctor, then go to the hospital. It may not make any difference to the outcome of the baby's health, but it will make a big difference in your mental and emotional health. I'm so glad your stepmom is going to be there with you. Sending healing and hopeful energies and hugs. :hugz:

Pesha
September 25th, 2005, 11:38 AM
First off sending healing energies to you and the baby. Seconly always get a second opinion if you can in cases like this. And now go to the hospiral and get a monitor on you and the baby. Never relay on a doctors looks. Gad I hate these doctors that do that look thing. As a nurse I always got after that kind of doc.

Peace love and light to you darling.

BB
DS.

aluokaloo
September 25th, 2005, 11:54 AM
Ugh! i hate those kinds of doctors, they shouldn't even be in the business! Stay strong hun, and go make him tell you what you need to know. They have no right to hold info from you! :hugz: hoping for the best outcome for you and the baby.

Kalika
September 25th, 2005, 01:19 PM
:hugz:

Keep us posted sweetie...

Brenda
September 25th, 2005, 01:49 PM
Aww hunny, I'm so sorry :hugz:
my thoughts are with you

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 02:27 PM
My prayers are with you hun. Make the doctor talk to you and explain what is going on. Looks are not enough..he has words and you deserve to hear them.

That's what I'm planning on doing...making him tell me what's going on. I just want to know what's going on...up until now, the doctor has been great...now, he just doesn't want to tell me anything. Although, the nurse who was in the room, made the comment, "This isn't good and she deserves to know."

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 02:34 PM
I would say boo on that doctor and have myself checked into the hospital with a monitor.Making you wait is only prolonging your agony and worry which if your baby is still living does not make for a good environment. It is best that you know for sure one way or the other. Call and make arrangements for your other child and go to the hospital!I have a candle burning on your behalf! :hugz: Sending energies to help you thru this troubled time!

I'm being checked into the hospital at 10am tomorrow....and that arrangement, came from a second doctor. He's the one who told me the most this far...he was more worried about it, then my primary doctor was. I've always hated doctors, and this just confirms that feeling.

Ceres
September 25th, 2005, 02:36 PM
That's what I'm planning on doing...making him tell me what's going on. I just want to know what's going on...up until now, the doctor has been great...now, he just doesn't want to tell me anything. Although, the nurse who was in the room, made the comment, "This isn't good and she deserves to know."

You DO know what it is they dont want to come out and say, right?

wintermagick
September 25th, 2005, 02:38 PM
:rubhead: Oh, hun... I'm so sorry and this is one of the worst things anyone can go through. I had a very difficult pregnancy last year, and from my experience it seems like the doctor should have put you in the hospital right THEN AND THERE to see what could be done.

I will light a candle and send loving energy your way, please let us know how things go.

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 02:43 PM
You DO know what it is they dont want to come out and say, right?

In a way, yes I do....if I understood it correctly, I'm carrying a stillborn baby. :heartbrea

Ceres
September 25th, 2005, 02:45 PM
In a way, yes I do....if I understood it correctly, I'm carrying a stillborn baby. :heartbrea

I am SO sorry. And I know nothing anyone can say is going to help for a long time.

Childof_theMorrigan
September 25th, 2005, 02:52 PM
I am SO sorry. And I know nothing anyone can say is going to help for a long time.


i feel the same way

:hugz: anamorata :hugz:

~Anamorata~
September 25th, 2005, 02:56 PM
Strange as this may sound...I feel better having you guys here. More so, then having my offline family.... :smoochypo

Cassie
September 25th, 2005, 03:10 PM
Strange as this may sound...I feel better having you guys here. More so, then having my offline family.... :smoochypo

You can be sure we will all be with you in our hearts while you are going through this.
:hugz:

Jenne
September 25th, 2005, 03:18 PM
I'm so so sorry...:hugz: Healing vibes for you...:raining:

Faery-Wings
September 25th, 2005, 04:28 PM
Hugs to you. I am so sorry you are going through this. I had a dr do that non-talk- you'll be better off not knowing bull. Nothing they say can be as bad as the worrying and wondering and still having to deal with the worst eventually.
Hang in there, sending love and energy to you.

daughtersleep
September 25th, 2005, 04:44 PM
:sadman: I am so, so sorry. Candles lit for you, your child and family--I wish there were more anyone could do.

Mistress_Ravenshadow
September 25th, 2005, 07:31 PM
:hugz: :hugz:

Lunacie
September 25th, 2005, 07:40 PM
I'm being checked into the hospital at 10am tomorrow....and that arrangement, came from a second doctor. He's the one who told me the most this far...he was more worried about it, then my primary doctor was. I've always hated doctors, and this just confirms that feeling.

I'll be sending you energy and good thoughts in the morning.

indebted
September 25th, 2005, 07:42 PM
The little bugger may have its back to the doc. My son did that. One doc worked for over an hour trying to find a heartbeat...never did...but he was fine. The doc bruised me so badly, though that his face was seared into my memory. Then when the bastard doc came in (cuz he was on shift at the clinic) to deliver the baby a few months later, I ordered him OUT and told the nurse that I would NOT be having the baby if that bastard was on call....she needed to call the Chief of the Department....and she did....that doc was not let near me and I was able to tell the staff my story and he was removed from the OB/Gyn rotation.

So, the doc does not always know. Sometimes the baby is just "lazy" and does not move much.

{{{{{:hugz:}}}}} to you and yours....please keep us updated!

Vivienne
September 25th, 2005, 07:49 PM
My thoughts...and my heart is with you. Peace.

Ceres
September 25th, 2005, 08:31 PM
The little bugger may have its back to the doc. My son did that. One doc worked for over an hour trying to find a heartbeat...never did...but he was fine. The doc bruised me so badly, though that his face was seared into my memory. Then when the bastard doc came in (cuz he was on shift at the clinic) to deliver the baby a few months later, I ordered him OUT and told the nurse that I would NOT be having the baby if that bastard was on call....she needed to call the Chief of the Department....and she did....that doc was not let near me and I was able to tell the staff my story and he was removed from the OB/Gyn rotation.

So, the doc does not always know. Sometimes the baby is just "lazy" and does not move much.

{{{{{:hugz:}}}}} to you and yours....please keep us updated!

Because of stories like this, do not allow an induction unless they are certain your baby is lost. I wish you had someone to be your advocate there for this! Please be sure your stepmother understands the situation.

WtchyChick13
September 26th, 2005, 12:17 AM
Continued thoughts and prayers going out tonight. :hugz:

Cyzarine
September 26th, 2005, 07:44 AM
I will continue to send energy for you and your baby... :hugz:

FaerieGothMommy
September 26th, 2005, 08:43 AM
Oh, hun!
I am sending you my love, and you are in my thoughts. Please let us know how everything goes.

Annyka
September 26th, 2005, 08:51 AM
You and your unborn baby are in my thoughts and prayers.

RubyRose
September 26th, 2005, 10:03 AM
I'm so sorry :hugz: I really hope that your baby is okay.

Strega Del Vento
September 26th, 2005, 10:03 AM
Oh Sweetheart, I'm so sorry you're going through this. What would irritate (and hurt) me more than anything is the doctor not being straight, and come out and say what he suspects is going on. Even though you knew what he didn't say, it's still wrong that he didn't say it.

I will keep you and that precious baby in my prayers and will light a candle for you both today. I lost a child due to an ectopic (tubal) pregnancy which termed itself out at 2 1/2 months (luckily for me). This is no way compares to what you're going through right now, but I just wanted to let you know that I understand some of what you're going through. My Doctor, as great as he was, didn't come out and say anything until the termination process had already begun.

Stay strong. I'll be checking this thread regularly to see if there are any updates.

We are all with you, and hoping for the best.

Hugs & Love

Childof_theMorrigan
September 26th, 2005, 01:13 PM
thinking about you this morning.... :hugz:

Kalika
September 26th, 2005, 02:23 PM
:huddle:

You are in my thoughts.

~Anamorata~
September 27th, 2005, 12:42 AM
For now everything is ok...at home with a monitor right now. The baby actually moved! I could've danced!!! The heartbeat is faint, but it was heard, thanks to the Specialist, who found it! I will keep everyone updated...and thank you all for the thoughts and prayers! They helped alot!! _pounce_ _pounce_ _pounce_

WtchyChick13
September 27th, 2005, 12:50 AM
:boing: :boing: :boing: That's great!!!!! Baby was probably just hiding out for a bit. :)

Great news sweetie--I'll keep the good thoughts coming your way!!! :hugz:

~Anamorata~
September 27th, 2005, 12:55 AM
Oh it is great news!!! I was at the hospital with the monitor on for less then an hour, before the baby kicked me in the ribs! The Specialist said that some babies prefer not to move around as much, which is not unusual. Plus, the baby weighs about 6lbs at the moment... :bouncybob :kooky:

Rowan MoonDragon
September 27th, 2005, 01:12 AM
I just read through this whole thread and I have to say I'm SOOOOO incredibly happy that the baby is ok. I will pray for you and your baby for continued good health. I'm very relieved so I can only guess how relieved you are! Many hugs and much love to you!!!! :acheeer:

Blessed Be!!

~Anamorata~
September 27th, 2005, 01:14 AM
:hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

Brenda
September 27th, 2005, 01:16 AM
That's great news hun :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

~Anamorata~
September 27th, 2005, 01:23 AM
:sunny: :dancy: :sunny:

BlackMagicalCat
September 27th, 2005, 01:42 AM
I read through this whole thread,and am sooo Glad you and your little gift are doing well,bless you precious one.

Teresa
September 27th, 2005, 01:42 AM
For now everything is ok...at home with a monitor right now. The baby actually moved! I could've danced!!! The heartbeat is faint, but it was heard, thanks to the Specialist, who found it! I will keep everyone updated...and thank you all for the thoughts and prayers! They helped alot!! _pounce_ _pounce_ _pounce_
:yayhawaii :clapping: :yayhawaii :clapping: :yayhawaii Sending You energies for baby and Mom! :yayhawaii :clapping: :yayhawaii

Cassie
September 27th, 2005, 02:12 AM
I am SOOOO happy for you!! :D :D :D :D
May The Goddess continue to protect you and the child you are carrying.
_pounce_ _pounce_ _pounce_ :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

RubyRose
September 27th, 2005, 02:26 AM
That's so great to hear. Keeping you and the baby in my thoughts.

Sothis*Crowfeather
September 27th, 2005, 03:34 AM
:ringaroun Great to hear!

FaerieGothMommy
September 27th, 2005, 06:09 AM
Wow, that is such a relief! I am so happy for you *Hugs*

BrigidMoon
September 27th, 2005, 06:18 AM
That's great news hun :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:


_pounce_

Awesome thank you for letting us know!~

Faery-Wings
September 27th, 2005, 06:24 AM
*huge sigh of relief*

I don't know if they still suggest this, but I remember that my drs had me lying on my left side when I had preterm labor and then bedrest. Something about the blood flow was better. It can't hurt right?

I am so happy to hear the good news. Rub that belly for us all!

Scarlettvixen
September 27th, 2005, 07:20 AM
:hugz: hun
I think baby got our energy boosts and reacted!

wintermagick
September 27th, 2005, 07:35 AM
:bouncybob

Cyzarine
September 27th, 2005, 08:01 AM
:dancy: That is great news... :hugz: I know this was said somewhere else in this thread, but it does help...lay on your left side to promote good blood flow to your lower body and the baby. It might be uncomfortable but in the long run it helps. My boys did that to me. I thought for sure one of them was not going to make it but he was just hiding behind the other one...needless to say he was the first one out...got to crowded for him... :D Glad to hear that everything is alright...but I will continue to send both of you energy.

wolfos3d
September 27th, 2005, 08:07 AM
:):):)

frigga
September 27th, 2005, 08:46 AM
Yaaaayyyyyyy!!!! :fpompoms

Mistress_Ravenshadow
September 27th, 2005, 08:48 AM
Oh it is great news!!! I was at the hospital with the monitor on for less then an hour, before the baby kicked me in the ribs! The Specialist said that some babies prefer not to move around as much, which is not unusual. Plus, the baby weighs about 6lbs at the moment... :bouncybob :kooky:

:dancy: i am so glad everything is ok.. :hugz: :hugz:

Valkie
September 27th, 2005, 10:51 AM
:hugz: Glad to hear that everything is doing good.

p.s. 6 lbs!! That's the size of my boys at full term!

Rhianna813
September 27th, 2005, 11:02 AM
That is GREAT news!! I am soooooooooo happy for you I could cry hehehehehe But I am so not happy with how that first Doctor treated you, how he was not communicative. That is just not right and you deserve better.

:hugz: Anamorta and baby :hugz: Take care!!

Rhianna

Strega Del Vento
September 27th, 2005, 11:49 AM
For now everything is ok...at home with a monitor right now. The baby actually moved! I could've danced!!! The heartbeat is faint, but it was heard, thanks to the Specialist, who found it! I will keep everyone updated...and thank you all for the thoughts and prayers! They helped alot!! _pounce_ _pounce_ _pounce_

This is the absolute BEST news! I am so happy for you! I'll continue lighting candles for you and the little one. A little extra energy couldn't hurt. I'll be checking for updates. Again, this is wonderful news, and I'm relieved for you!

**Hugs**

Ceres
September 27th, 2005, 12:06 PM
I am absolutely speechless with happiness for you!

Lunacie
September 27th, 2005, 12:35 PM
:woot: I'm crying here, and I don't generally do that on discussion boards. *misty smiles* Yes, do sleep on your left side and don't go back to that awful doctor.

Neither of my granddaughters weighed that much at birth - full term - they were fine but my daughter had some health concerns.

FlyingBear
September 27th, 2005, 12:49 PM
:thewave:

:fpartay: Thank Gods!!
:clapping: Thank you for give us such a joyous update!
:yayhawaii Many blessings to you and your little one!

:thewave:

Childof_theMorrigan
September 27th, 2005, 01:33 PM
oh thank the god and goddess! that is PHENOMENAL news!

Morr
September 27th, 2005, 01:54 PM
*hugs*

That is wonderful news :)

aluokaloo
September 27th, 2005, 02:04 PM
Woohoo! That is awesome news! I am so glad everything is alright, may the Gods continue to watch over you and your little one! :nonono: :fpompoms :thumbsup: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

Kalika
September 27th, 2005, 02:17 PM
:hugz:

I am SO happy to hear you are doing ok!!!

I'll be keeping you and the little one in my thoughts.

:huddle:

~Anamorata~
September 27th, 2005, 03:46 PM
I'm not out of the woods yet, but for now everything is ok. I have to wear a monitor for the next few days, so they can keep an eye on things. I was so happy over yesterday, that I came home and ate an entire cheesecake! I love cheesecake, but not that much! I will keep everyone here up to date about things. :smile:

As for sleeping on my left side...I've always slept that way...even the Specialist said I should...my daughter was 7.5lbs when she was born, so 6lbs while still in the womb has the specialist floored! Me, too! :foh:

StellaLuna
September 27th, 2005, 04:18 PM
I just read through this thread. I am so overjoyed with your news.
May the Goddess hold you and your wee one in her healing, protective embrace.

take care,
light & love

ApollaJade
September 27th, 2005, 05:57 PM
YAY! now let's hope nothing else comes up.... :)

Annyka
September 28th, 2005, 01:17 AM
I'm not out of the woods yet, but for now everything is ok. I have to wear a monitor for the next few days, so they can keep an eye on things. I was so happy over yesterday, that I came home and ate an entire cheesecake! I love cheesecake, but not that much! I will keep everyone here up to date about things. :smile:

As for sleeping on my left side...I've always slept that way...even the Specialist said I should...my daughter was 7.5lbs when she was born, so 6lbs while still in the womb has the specialist floored! Me, too! :foh:

I was only 4.11lbs when I was born. 6lbs sounds big to me! Anyway it's great to hear that things are not as bad as they first seemed. Please look after yourself and that baby. You both are still in my prays.

Iaityinepu~Annyka

Jenne
September 28th, 2005, 01:46 AM
OMG, I'm soooooo relieved...and so happy for you! Have a cheesecake for me, too, wouldja? :hugz:

QUEEN OF THE DAMNED
September 28th, 2005, 01:50 AM
OMG! I just saw this. I've been neglecting my MW friends lately. I'm so sorry hon.

I'm glad things are definately looking better. Keeping you in my thoughts :hugz: :smile: :flowers:

Earthy
September 28th, 2005, 02:36 AM
Oh hon..that is wonderful news.
Will continue to keep you in my thoughts, and sending some healthy baby energies :hugz:

Vivienne
October 5th, 2005, 11:37 PM
Blessed Be!!!

Chanting prayers for the health of you and your lovely little babe!

Vivienne

Ceres
October 6th, 2005, 07:19 AM
Anamorata, you and your baby have been in my thoughts, how are you both doing? We need updates!

fairyannas
October 6th, 2005, 02:05 PM
I just finally got a chance to read the entire thread today....
Energy and Prayers for you and your little one!
Please update us when you can...
(((BIG HUGS)))

phoenixblayze
October 6th, 2005, 02:50 PM
i am sooo glad that you have felt the baby move and heard a heartbeat. i know that this had to be very scary for you. it was scary for me. im just soo glad that the baby is responsive, and i hope that you can carry to full term

QUEEN OF THE DAMNED
October 6th, 2005, 06:51 PM
Love to you Anamorata my darling. How are you? Sorry I haven't been on to say hello much lately, been very busy, but I am keeping you in my thoughts.

crimsonhearts
October 6th, 2005, 07:34 PM
Blessings to you and your baby!
When exactly are u due?
My birthday is Dec 2!
:weirdsmil

HorseCrow
October 7th, 2005, 05:15 AM
I only found this thread just now. I'm so happy to hear that your little bean is still there :)

I am however, appalled at how your first doc handled the situation- if he could not find a heartbeat, then he should have sent you straight to the hospital for an ultrasound. Him sending you home to wait it out and then wanting to induce... I seriously want to smack him! He could have ended up inducing you and having your baby out prematurely. Not to speak of the psychological pain for you, having to walk around not knowing.

If you need to talk or have questions, then feel free to PM me and I will help you as best I can.

atropa
October 7th, 2005, 02:54 PM
Oh thank god!!!! I just read this and I am so happy for you! It must've been awful not knowing.

daughtersleep
October 8th, 2005, 03:01 PM
:huddle: :abbed: :thewave: :ringaroun
*lights a candle for you and the babe*