To tell or to wait?

[aluokaloo]

When my bf comes over it almost always ends up in a good sweaty roll in the hay so to speak. He has been going through some nasty times, and things are starting to look up for him. He is coming over tonight. My dilemma, we weren't sure if I had gotten pregnant or not, the big dilemma I was pregnant for two weeks, and I have started a silent miscarriage last night. With so much on both my plate and his already, this is not something I am keen and eager to tell him. Figured I would do it after he got himself out of a jam. I know I am having one, because I already had my moontime this month, plus I am having bad cramping, I don't have cramping during my moontime. Among other factors, this is gonna sound sort of gross but I have had many miscarriages over the years and I know what my blood looks like when I am miscarrying and when it is just thatvtime of the month or spotting. I am usually pretty in tune with my body. He is also a psychic and an empath and would know that I was keeping something from him. So do i tell him now, or do i save it for later?

[Caradne]

I think that it's hard to go wrong being open and honest, you might as well get it out in the open. It seems like that would be a hard burden to carry alone. Good luck to you!

[Kalandriel]

Yeah, be open and honest.

[Auroro]

Decisions such as this can be difficult for anyone. Look at your situation, and then ask yourself, Do I love him? and the answer to that is the answer to the question you have asked us, Should I tell him?
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Auroro.

[BrigidMoon]

First let me say...I am so sorry you're going through this! It must be wearing on the body to have one. I could only imagine. Tough decision but for your health, even though you've had a few miscarriages; tell him.

[aluokaloo]

Thank you. I did tell him, and he seemed kinda crushed. He has been calling on me to see if I'm alright, and telling me to make sure I get rest. It wasn't so much that I wasn't going to tell him, but more the fact that he has been seriously stressing and I figured this was afraid that this would be the straw that broke the camel's back sort of thing if I told him now, and didn't wait for things to calm down a bit.

[BrigidMoon]

Well, I think it's wonderful he's worried about you. Sometimes.....the stress of others' problems helps us take a vacation from our own you know?

Maybe in a few months you will be able to try again!