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[tink88]

hey im a 17year old female pagan and i feel so lost at the moment. i just feel like an outsider, no-one seems to care about me. i've recently lost all my friends, they went on holiday without me because there wass no room for me, and i got really upset. they turned round and told me it was no big deal. do u think i was right to be upset? i know i'm a witch and i should celebrate life, and trust me, i want to, but i have no1 to share it with. can anybody give me any advice on what to do? i just sometimes feel like a freak and that no1 wants to know because i'm different. what is normal anyway? i just wish i could find myself some like minded people and be happy. i just feel pathetic because i give out so much love and help and perhaps im taken for granted.
please can some1 message me back just so i know that there are people out there. pagans together.
merry part, until we merry meet again.
lots of klove and sparkle,
tink xxxxxx

[yavanna]

hey im a 17year old female pagan and i feel so lost at the moment. i just feel like an outsider, no-one seems to care about me. i've recently lost all my friends, they went on holiday without me because there wass no room for me, and i got really upset. they turned round and told me it was no big deal. do u think i was right to be upset? i know i'm a witch and i should celebrate life, and trust me, i want to, but i have no1 to share it with. can anybody give me any advice on what to do? i just sometimes feel like a freak and that no1 wants to know because i'm different. what is normal anyway? i just wish i could find myself some like minded people and be happy. i just feel pathetic because i give out so much love and help and perhaps im taken for granted.
please can some1 message me back just so i know that there are people out there. pagans together.
merry part, until we merry meet again.
lots of klove and sparkle,
tink xxxxxx

You sound like you need a hug :hugz:

If you've found this place, you've found tons of pagans to talk with, besides that tons of all around great people to get to know. You might even find some pagans in your area you could meet and hang out with. Sometimes you may feel really alienated and alone, but it won't last. You sound like a very nice person, I'm sure you'll have no trouble making and keepig friends throughout your whole life.

Blessed Be!

[SoulHealer]

hey im a 17year old female pagan and i feel so lost at the moment. i just feel like an outsider, no-one seems to care about me. i've recently lost all my friends, they went on holiday without me because there wass no room for me, and i got really upset. they turned round and told me it was no big deal. do u think i was right to be upset? i know i'm a witch and i should celebrate life, and trust me, i want to, but i have no1 to share it with. can anybody give me any advice on what to do? i just sometimes feel like a freak and that no1 wants to know because i'm different. what is normal anyway? i just wish i could find myself some like minded people and be happy. i just feel pathetic because i give out so much love and help and perhaps im taken for granted.
please can some1 message me back just so i know that there are people out there. pagans together.
merry part, until we merry meet again.
lots of klove and sparkle,
tink xxxxxx

Until recently I felt like an outsider all my life -over the last 10 yrs I just accepted it and didn't try to be "normal". Which did actually get me more accepted then trying to be "normal" and I was happier with life
Don't change to fit in with them -if you follow what is in your heart you will eventually (and it may take time) meet a group of people where you do fit in

[BrigidMoon]

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Well we all feel out of place and different at times. I am sorry your pals ditched you. Hopefully you can find someone else that shares your feelings and your beliefs in your area. Have you tried seeing if you can connect with others on witchvox.com? Just wondering, there may be some people in your area that you can connect with.

[BlackMagicalCat]

Well,hello,,cant say Im a pagan,but I do know how ya feel,being here will help for sure.

Many blessings to you,and welcome.

[Brenda]

I agree with BrigidMoon, I'm sorry all those things happened to you, but just try to find people with similar interests, there must be people like that :hugz:

[Semele]

Sorry you felt left out, but truly you do not need other people to make you feel whole. You don't need them for your spirituality either. You have found a great place for all kinds of communion.

Good luck on your journey and I hope you find some more like minded folks soon.

[magicr666]

You don't need to feel that way. I have always been different from my friends, to think about it different from everyone i know. But i know what you mean by wanting to share that part of you with someone, i sometimes feel the same way. Think of it this way you can do magic more often and be your own person without anyone getting in your way. You are also young and you will meet people along the way, so don't worry to much about it. Always remember people with come and go in your life but who you are stays with you forever.

[Mother Goose]

Feeling left out is never easy to deal with. :hugz: magicr666 is right about you meeting more people along the way. I never cared much for the teens I went to school with, they just always seemed to so immature in their thinking and reasoning...which meant I felt left out too. It's hard to accept that the people you'd like to be friends with aren't really cut out to be real friends. I'm very sorry. (((hugs)))

[beautiful_teardrop]

Hey hun!...hang in there!...i have felt exactly like u do...i have felt like i had given soooooo much of myself to the people who i thought really cared about me and who i thought were my friends....and feeling like i gave them all i could and then got nothing in return...its a sucky feeling...and it was all because i was either different from them or they just didnt see how lucky that they had someone that cared so much for them...and i think that if ur so called friends cant see wat is right there and cant give anything back and ditches u for no reason or just because ur different....then maybe they rnt ur friends...maybe they just use u to sort out their problems and then thrown u aside wen they dont need u anymore...and i must say that that really does suck and i know wat ur feeling...i mean i was ditched on my birthday by who i thought were my 2 bestfriends...and they didnt even call me to wish me happy birthday....but thats in the past....and i think that u should find someone that will care for u back....like spending time with u and find someone that will give u advice wen u need it and just be there wen u need a hug and come to u in return...someone that loves u for u...and will not think of u as an outcast or an outsider....someone who thinks of u as 1 of the best things in the world because they know u love them....i have found someone just like that....we r now more intuned with each others feelings that i could just be having the worst day and she can feel it on the other side of town and call me just to see wat was wrong....i mean we r basically inseperable....and i think that is wat u need....someone like that...who wont ditch u....or who wont think of u as "different" just because ur beliefs....someone whose going to give the love and caringness (yes i made a new word :smile: ) back to u as strong if not more than wat u have given them!

I hope everything works out and u find atleast 1 person...if not more...who is like this....Let ur heart guide they way....and no...i dont think ur wrong for being upset because ur friends ditched u....but i hope everything turns out great in the end....

Best wishes and Blessing
Alicia

P.S. if u ever just want to talk to someone....im always willing to talk to someone new and exciting!! :smile:

[Kalandriel]

I've been there too, it's a sucky feeling at the time. You'll soon find out that only one or two friends really last past high school... you'll just pick up the good ones as you go through live.. a couple more in college, so on and so forth. :hugz:

[goblinhill]

:hugz:

[Dannen]

hey im a 17year old female pagan and i feel so lost at the moment. i just feel like an outsider, no-one seems to care about me. i've recently lost all my friends, they went on holiday without me because there wass no room for me, and i got really upset. they turned round and told me it was no big deal. do u think i was right to be upset? i know i'm a witch and i should celebrate life, and trust me, i want to, but i have no1 to share it with. can anybody give me any advice on what to do? i just sometimes feel like a freak and that no1 wants to know because i'm different. what is normal anyway? i just wish i could find myself some like minded people and be happy. i just feel pathetic because i give out so much love and help and perhaps im taken for granted.
please can some1 message me back just so i know that there are people out there. pagans together.
merry part, until we merry meet again.
lots of klove and sparkle,
tink xxxxxx

I know how you feel, I'm a 16yr old pagan and i used to have friends like that. I eventually gave up on them and cut myself off from them but i went through some lonely times before i found anyone else to hang around with, so i know how hard it can be.

I know that its hard to look on the good side when their's so much bad going on, but be thankful your not like them. from you post i can tell that you wouldn't do the same to someone else, which is a great way to be, too many poeple go from being bullied to being the bully; as if to compensate for their past.

i know i'm rambling here, but i'm trying to tell you that theres always light at the end of the tunnel, we just may need someone else to point it out to us. Myself, i buired myslef in my school work in the hope that when the time came i would have the grades in my exams to take me away to uni - i don't know if its the same for you but i think that if you find something important to focus on, the rest fades away.

If you ever need to talk, don't hesitate to PM me :hugz:

[SammieAnn]

((hugs))