Any LGBLT Wiccans Here?

[Lady_Zara]

Any Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual/etc. here? I was just wondering if I'm the only one, (doubt it).

[Faelon_Moon_Hawk]

Any Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual/etc. here? I was just wondering if I'm the only one, (doubt it).

I chose other cause i feel lableing is limiting :) While i'm currently w/ my bf, i guess i could be called strait, but i prefer not to as i'm not opposed to being w/ someone the same gender as me, but then again as i've not had this happen i'm not quite willing to call myself bi. So i just say other, much less confining & confusing that way ^_^

[SafeInTheWingsOfIsis]

*raises hand* gay boy here:uhhuhuh:

[Chibi-Fallon]

<---- lesbian

[yavanna]

Nope, but I have a lesbian ecologist friend I adore

(straight but not narrow)

[Arinya]

I voted Yes for I am indeed bi yet not wiccan, although I am most definently pagan.

[Lilith Morgaine]

80/20 here if you need to know what that means..... feel free to ask ;)


http://www.judyfrancesconi.com/bookstore/dreamsofdesire.jpg

[LostSheep]

I think if I'm honest i'd have to classify myself as one of the above (perhaps not lesbian); I find guys attractive sometimes, i've sometimes thought naughty thoughts about them, but i'm currently/have just finished/wish i knew frankly where i stand with a very intense relationship with someone who is very definitely a woman. So ... i ticked 'maybe'.

i confused myself there ....

[Aidron]

<--- Non-Wiccan bi-curious fag.

[argento_occhi]

<----- bisexual Kemetic Orthodox.

[David19]

I voted yes, i'm a 19 year old gay male who recently came out and is now looking for a guy :)

[BlueMoon13]

Not gay, not Wiccan :hrmm:

[StormVixen]

im bi but im in a LTR with my boyf so... um... im practically strate...

EDIT: oh yeah im not Wiccan either...

[Jolixte]

Not wiccan, but very much bi.

[Xentor]

Pagan though.

[Pol]

I chose other cause i feel lableing is limiting :) While i'm currently w/ my bf, i guess i could be called strait, but i prefer not to as i'm not opposed to being w/ someone the same gender as me, but then again as i've not had this happen i'm not quite willing to call myself bi. So i just say other, much less confining & confusing that way ^_^

Same with me. Except I'm a guy with a girlfriend.
And I'm not Wiccan.

[Nova]

I didn't notice it said wiccan... I'm pagan, but you get the idea.

I voted "no" because it seemed the most honest. Had I fallen in love with a woman instead of a man I might feel differently.

That might make me bi... but I'm just not very curious.

[Ben Gruagach]

I'm gay, an eclectic Wiccan, and happily married to my same-sex partner. (We're Canadians.)

My spouse is not Pagan but is very supportive.

[Aidron]

Wait, can I change my answer to formerly disgruntled Wiccan fag? :foh:

[Sage Rainsong]

Wait, can I change my answer to formerly disgruntled Wiccan fag?

Ha ha ha that was funny.


for the record Im a gay pagan.

[Mercedes]

I put "maybe" because I don't really place a bar on who I'd date, and I've been attracted to both male and female, but I've never actually dated one of the same gender (yet).

[aeternus lumen]

I don't really like labels either. I'm an equal opportunity lover. Although i have to say that i have been with more guys than girls. But whatever. I can't really label my beliefs either. They're a unique mix of ideas, I believe.
:huh:

[Philosophia]

I'm a bi-sexual (leaning towards females) witch (non-wiccan).

[Gypsy flower]

Straight, no boyfriend currently a few friends that are male though I dont like girls much:twitch: to many cat fights and to backstabbing! both wiccan & pagan but mostly Gypsy!:wave:

[Arion]

:wave: one very queer male Witch here ;)

[Gede]

Khairete~
Gay hippie Witch here! :p

In a great relationship now with a beautiful boy (just passed 6 months)

Namaste, Gede...

[Toby Stimpson]

Gay Pagan here...it seems to be a common thing, almost every Pagan (and I know up to about 70 now) are gay, bisexual, transgendered or atleast questioning. Tis cool :D

Namaste

Tobias

[Kaija]

another lesbian here..

[Agaliha]

I'm straight, so I put "No" :)

[RubyRose]

Straight. At least 90% of the time. The other 10% is when I'm drunk, and dares are to be had. :lol:

[Lady_Zara]

wow, kewlness. I'm pansexual. *I basically love to love*.

[Mithrea]

<-----------------bisexual

Any Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual/etc. here? I was just wondering if I'm the only one, (doubt it).

:lol: Why would you think you were the only one??? And why is there an extra "L" in front of GLBT? What does that stand for?

[argento_occhi]

I was wondering that too, Mithrea.

Argent

[Catiana]

Wiccan and straight.

[LostSheep]

why is there an extra "L" in front of GLBT? What does that stand for?

the extra 'l' stands for lovely.

*nods*

[Windsmith]

Lesbian but not Wiccan. Much with the Pagany goodness, but not Wiccan.

[Kalandriel]

Straight pagan! :)

[KeelinConvallaria]

<--- Polyamorous Asexual Pagan

[Aidron]

<-----------------bisexual



:lol: Why would you think you were the only one??? And why is there an extra "L" in front of GLBT? What does that stand for?

"L" is for lumpy.

Who's a lumpy Pagan? Anyone? [checks himself for lumpiness]

[Sage Rainsong]

Why would you think you were the only one??? And why is there an extra "L" in front of GLBT? What does that stand for?

Hey you never know. Every time i look at that damn acronym it gets bigger now its up to this GLBQQT. the two q's mean queer and questioning. Most of the time you will see one q to represent them both. But hey maybe the extra L stands for lusious or lovely. I know Im both of thoes things.

[Chibi-Fallon]

<--- Polyamorous Asexual Pagan

Maybe I'm missing something but how can you be both polyamorous and asexual? If you aren't sexually attracted to other people, it doesn't really matter does it?
I mean wouldn't that make me then polyamorous for loving my friends and family?
Maybe I'm just missing something though.

[Chibi-Fallon]

Hey you never know. Every time i look at that damn acronym it gets bigger now its up to this GLBQQT. the two q's mean queer and questioning. Most of the time you will see one q to represent them both. But hey maybe the extra L stands for lusious or lovely. I know Im both of thoes things.

No. Lesbians just get listed twice because we are better then the rest of you.
:bubbles:

[Sage Rainsong]

No. Lesbians just get listed twice because we are better then the rest of you.

pffff! I doubt it honey. *snaps*

[Sage Rainsong]

Maybe I'm missing something but how can you be both polyamorous and asexual?

Yeah I was kind of wondering the same thing.

[KeelinConvallaria]

Maybe I'm missing something but how can you be both polyamorous and asexual? If you aren't sexually attracted to other people, it doesn't really matter does it?
I mean wouldn't that make me then polyamorous for loving my friends and family?
Maybe I'm just missing something though.
There's a difference between romantic love and sexual attraction, imo at least.

[Ron]

Me! And my lover, username=Aluinn....

But we're not Wiccae; I'm a Pagan; he's questioning himself.

[Ron]

There's a difference between romantic love and sexual attraction, imo at least.
I think that I get it... they practise have loving relationships with multiple persons at a time, without sexual relations.

So I get to kiss you... but not "have our wedding night"... that would be fustrating. I'm really soo monogamus & bisexual. I'm a retired polyamourist, though I never got to practice it ... (I have enough trouble pleasing one person.)

[Aidron]

Hey you never know. Every time i look at that damn acronym it gets bigger now its up to this GLBQQT. the two q's mean queer and questioning. Most of the time you will see one q to represent them both. But hey maybe the extra L stands for lusious or lovely. I know Im both of thoes things.

You sure you're not just lumpy?

[ravynbynorthwynd]

mostly lesbian, somewhat bisexual.

but i'm not wiccan

[Sun_and_Saturn]

Currently married, but attracted to both genders, and husband isn't opposed to me having a relationship with another woman on the side. I am also not Wiccan-just doesn't suit my tastes.

[Strawberry Bounce]

Lesbian Dianic Pagan :cutie:

[jcldragon]

I'm a straight male who has been practicing Magick since 1967.

A few months ago, I ran across a study done in one of the Scandanavian countries in which the donor brains of nearly 300 deceased gay men were disected. What they found was that the brain structures of the gay men had the enlarged corpus collosum that connects the right & left spheres of the brain, that you generally find in the brains of women. So these guys had male bodies & female brains. I think that explains a whole lot.

I expect that a similar study done with lesbians would show that the lesbians have the extra connections from the front & rear parts of the brain, that you generally find in men.... that is, female bodies with male brains.

I've also read that the differentiation between male & female brain structures occurs fairly early in the development of the fetus. When Nature makes a decision like that, it is sort of foolish for us to question it, don't you think?

One of my dearest friends is a lesbian, and a model. She is quite Spiritual in her way, and I've been getting her interested in Metaphysical thought. This page I've made for her, is not exactly what you could call, "work-safe". hehehe

**link removed by Mithrea**

[Mithrea]

This page I've made for her, is not exactly what you could call, "work-safe". hehehe

**link removed by Mithrea**

**SUPERMOD MODE**

Just a little hint, but if it's not "work-safe," you might consider whether or not it's MW safe. This is why we have MWAfter Dark ;) (http://www.mysticwicksafterdark.com).

[Mithrea]

I'm a straight male who has been practicing Magick since 1967.

A few months ago, I ran across a study done in one of the Scandanavian countries in which the donor brains of nearly 300 deceased gay men were disected. What they found was that the brain structures of the gay men had the enlarged corpus collosum that connects the right & left spheres of the brain, that you generally find in the brains of women. So these guys had male bodies & female brains. I think that explains a whole lot.

I expect that a similar study done with lesbians would show that the lesbians have the extra connections from the front & rear parts of the brain, that you generally find in men.... that is, female bodies with male brains.

I've also read that the differentiation between male & female brain structures occurs fairly early in the development of the fetus. When Nature makes a decision like that, it is sort of foolish for us to question it, don't you think?

One of my dearest friends is a lesbian, and a model. She is quite Spiritual in her way, and I've been getting her interested in Metaphysical thought. This page I've made for her, is not exactly what you could call, "work-safe". hehehe

**link removed by Mithrea**

To say that there are male brains and female brains is comletely absurd in my mind. Not only is gender not one or the other, neither is biology. People need to stop looking for a cause like it's some kind of disease and just let people be who they are.

[Ben Gruagach]

To say that there are male brains and female brains is comletely absurd in my mind. Not only is gender not one or the other, neither is biology. People need to stop looking for a cause like it's some kind of disease and just let people be who they are.

My understanding of the studies is that the brain structures in gay men are more similar to the way women's brains are structured, but they are not the same as women's brains. Sort of in-between hetero men and hetero women brains.

The big question too is whether they really are structures that are established early in life (how do you test that? do autopsies on babies that are gay? how do you know a baby is gay?) or whether the structures develop as a result of the person being gay.

Sexual orientation, like all human behaviour, is so complex it is highly unlikely that a single cause (like a particular brain structure) is responsible.

[louise_holm]

good answer Mithrea! we should take a leaf out of your book!

[jcldragon]

To say that there are male brains and female brains is comletely absurd in my mind. Not only is gender not one or the other, neither is biology. People need to stop looking for a cause like it's some kind of disease and just let people be who they are.Medical science established that there was a difference in the brain structures quite some time ago. That gay men have the brain structure arrangement generally found in women, is something new.

[Mithrea]

Medical science established that there was a difference in the brain structures quite some time ago. That gay men have the brain structure arrangement generally found in women, is something new.

"Medical science" is not foolproof and it does make mistakes. There are *not* two types of genders, and there are *not* two types of sexes, so there can *not* be only two types of brains. As Ben said, human sexuality is far too complex to boil anything down into either/or.

[jcldragon]

**SUPERMOD MODE**

Just a little hint, but if it's not "work-safe," you might consider whether or not it's MW safe. This is why we have MWAfter Dark ;) (http://www.mysticwicksafterdark.com).Sorry about that. I'm comfortable about my sexuality, and so are all of my gay & straight friends. That's the world I live in, and sometimes I forget that some people are triggered by the beauty of the human form. Well, I didn't exactly forget, either, because I added a note, just in case...

BTW, how do you get into MWAfterDark? I seem to lack permissions...

[Djinn]

I counted up my past relationships and it worked out that I'm 70/30 straight/gay. Somehow I never thought of myself as bisexual, but I guess I must be! I'm celibate right now anyway--I'm done kissing toads looking for my prince/princess--so the whole matter is kinda academic.

Oh, yeah...also not a Wiccan.

[xInside_Outx]

This thread made me smile. I enjoy knowing that people are homosexual and proud of it! Although I am fairly certain I am heterosexual I fully support the gay community. I live in a town where homosexuality is not necessarily accepted as much as it was in the much bigger much more "submersed in reality" city I used to live in, so seeing this thread was a nice one to come across.

Also, I've been wondering about the whole Wiccan/Pagan/Other thing. I'm fairly new and haven't fully researched the differences....

[xInside_Outx]

Oh, and I was going to participate in the poll but "Yes" wasn't the right answer, and "No" seemed too "definately not"ish to me, "Maybe" wasn't right either, and "Other" didn't say much. So I was thinking maybe you could add "No, but I'm an ally!"

Just a suggestion...

[enchancea]

I guess I would be a bi-curious Pagan :)

[Lilith79]

Bi, but not Wiccan. Ecclectic pagan. :D

[LyraDragonStar]

Nope.

[Dark Phoenix]

Nope straight Wiccan

[♪Hazel♪]

Bisexual Pagan Female here... But good lord if the male race doesn't give me a reason to stick around very soon, Im positive I will cross over completely to girls! Any takers? Lol. X_x;

[WiccanGoddess]

Bisexual, gearing more towards le female species. Sem-lesbian. :D

[morningstar2651]

Any Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual/etc. here? I was just wondering if I'm the only one, (doubt it).
I'm used to the acronym LGBT...the extra L invoked the image of a same-sex couple of sandwhiches (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BLT_sandwich) in my imagination. 8O

I'm straight, monogamous, and spoken for.

[AlleyCat]

Bi female but prefer the boys a smidge more and am in a long term relationship with my bf of 3 years, if he'd been a girl would've been a long term relationship with a gf of 3 years, love is love doesnt matter what bits they have..

[AlleyCat]

Oh but Im not wiccan lol

[Fire's Shadow]

If we must temporarily attach labels then I'm bisexual. I'm not against being with someone of the same sex. It's more about the personality than the tools used. :p

EDIT: Oh yeah, and I'm definately not Wiccan.

[Thereca]

Practiced being straight. Tried hard for 8 years from onset of dating til I finally thought I was bi sexual another 4 years finally realized not Bi either. I came out.. I am not straight.. I am a lesbian. A femme, a foo, lipstick lesbian..all in all I am all girl.

[sidhe]

Bi, not wiccan, poly, and my wife is too. :)

[Moonstar Dancer]

I'm Straight, but have had alot of offers just haveb't takin any one up as of yet. My baby sis is 100% lesbian and I'm pagan:)

[Kestrel Firesong]

Bi, Wiccan, and a swinger.

[~Jaida~]

I said bi but I'm in a LTR with my g'friend so I'm practically lesbian. Love is love no matter the parts.

I'm pagan....or searching....not sure....just not wiccan right now. :lol:

[Windsmith]

I'm used to the acronym LGBT...the extra L invoked the image of a same-sex couple of sandwhiches (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BLT_sandwich) in my imagination. 8O

I'm straight, monogamous, and spoken for.Yup. I have a friend who always refers to "the Great BLT sandwich." Dunno if he ever came up with anything for the I or the Q, though.

[Forever_Your_Boy]

I'm totally gay

[Morrigan_Wolfwind]

Straight Wiccan-in-training. My best friend's bi (but not Wiccan).

[Romulus]

I'm bi, not yet wiccan, curious, but bi.

[Ritten]

I too am a Gay Wiccan/Pagan :wave: . These last few years have been rather complicated due to me discovering those two facts.

[Whitewolf]

Bisexual. Even though I'm a [polytheist] Pagan and have Wiccan/Shamanic tendencies I don't real consider myself one [ Wiccan].



-Jessica [aka Whitewolf]

[SilverGhost]

wow! I havn't posted in ages! And yes, i'm also bi-sexual, though lately i've been more attracted to girls than guys so...

-i'm eclectic pagan btw

[Happy Shrew]

I'm straight, though I wouldn't be upset or anything if that theory got proved wrong. It's just not looking very likely - women are about as personally arousing as my curtains, and they aren't exactly making me hot right now.

Also monogamous, because my one guy suits my needs fine and I'm used to the lack of maintenance required.

Also not Wiccan/Pagan, though friendly to both. Friendly to people of different sexual orientations, too - y'all are a lot of fun.

In summary, I'm boring.

[Ben Gruagach]

I'm straight, though I wouldn't be upset or anything if that theory got proved wrong. It's just not looking very likely - women are about as personally arousing as my curtains, and they aren't exactly making me hot right now.

Also monogamous, because my one guy suits my needs fine and I'm used to the lack of maintenance required.

Also not Wiccan/Pagan, though friendly to both. Friendly to people of different sexual orientations, too - y'all are a lot of fun.

In summary, I'm boring.

You're what some of us call "straight but not narrow." :)

[star_belfire]

Bi girly right here!!!! :abbed:

[Lilith Morgaine]

wow! I havn't posted in ages! And yes, i'm also bi-sexual, though lately i've been more attracted to girls than guys so...

-i'm eclectic pagan btw


I ADORE your avy... where did you get it?

[Ami]

When I first saw the title of this thread, I immediately though LGBLT = large BLT. :lol:


I don't really have a sexual orientation. I'm anti-love. But gay/lesbian/bi people are cool. I like to try and stay open-minded.

[SilverGhost]

I ADORE your avy... where did you get it?

Thanks! I'm not sure I remember actually, i think i got it from one of my friends sites, either that or typing "willow and tara" into yahoo image search and browsing the sites that came up... sorry i can't be more helpful...

[Brandon Bee]

I'm gay.

I've been struggling with my sexual orientation for the past couple of years and I just finally gave up trying to be someone I wasn't.

[Ben Gruagach]

I'm gay.

I've been struggling with my sexual orientation for the past couple of years and I just finally gave up trying to be someone I wasn't.

Glad to hear you are learning the Big Lesson: that YOU are the only one who will live with you your whole life! Trying to live your life to fit what you think others expect of you won't work unless it's also what you feel in your heart is true.

It doesn't matter if you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, or asexual. Just learn to be the best YOU that you can be. And it's perfectly OK to change your mind about things too as you go through life! Some people start off thinking that they are a stereotype (because it can be fun if you're with the right friends!) but later on you discover there are other parts of you that are there too which don't fit some tidy label or stereotype.

"To thine own self be true."

[Ben Gruagach]

By the way -- I just LOVE this Simon and Milo song (http://phobos.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewAlbum?playlistId=30537103&s=143441&i=30537123). (It's called "Be As" and is off their album, "Ready, Ready, Set, Go.")

I wish they would play it in every high school over the PA system each and every morning. It's a message that too few teenagers these days hear. So long as there is one teen or kid out there who feels like they can't be themselves then the message still isn't getting out there.

[Sequoia]

Not wiccan, but I *am* bisexual and polyamorous.

[cartweel]

<--- Je suis un homosexuel. Oui, c'est vrai.

[tigers_fire]

Me I'm lesbian newbie Wiccan I only have been practicing for about three years. I'm always looking for new friends!!!!

[2steps]

bisexual (Kinsey - 5)

[Silver Water]

Oooh, never saw this thread before. Another lesbian here :wave:

[DragonMom]

I picked other, 'cos I'm not Wiccan but I am bisexual.

[MalPixie]

straight but not narrow!
Oh but not wiccan

[WiccanGoddess]

I am gay. Officially. Though, honestly? Asexual would fit me a whole lot more.

[Crystal_Raye]

<---~Bi-curious~

[TheRaveness]

Been a Femme Lesbian since the day my Mom popped me out!! Also must say I will be celebrating my 10th year anniversary with my partner this year. WooHoo!

Oh yes, I am an Irish Witch!

[2steps]

:) congratulations

[deadoracle]

<---Big ol earthy lesbian here!

[DarkSymmetry]

Flaming gay here....:wave:

[Feroxyhite]

A pretty boringly 'straight-seeming' bisexual who tends to go for guys more often than gals.

[Kuan82]

gay eclectic wiccan boy here. 23 years old

[Anwell]

Knew it when I was 6 years old. Proud gay Wiccan :D

[WiccanGoddess]

6 years old? My goodness, I'm 18, and I'm still figuring things out. You're a lucky one, Anwell. I wish I could have figured it out earlier. Would make life easier, I would think.

[Anwell]

I had a difficult time, didn't knew how to say it that I was attracted to boys instead of girls. But, my sister-in-law (or is it sisterinlaw?, don't know how to spell it :D) told me that I was six years old, when I told to her that I was attracted to boys. She never told any one about this.

[Sage WindMoon]

<-- Heterosexual non-Wiccan Pagan witch. Romantically and sexually attracted only to women. Lots more room for variation on the pagan/wiccan/witch part for me.

[Sobeq]

extremely bi-curious eclectic pagan. When I say extremely, the only reason I haven't experimented with a girl is because I have some major trust issues and have to really trust someone before I get sexually involved, so basically I've just never met anyone with the proper preferences to have figured that out. Drat.

[WiccanGoddess]

CrazedStarlite: Well, shucks, it's too bad you and I don't live close together. I have the EXACT same problem.

That, and it's pretty difficult to find a girl that's not currently dating someone these days...too many straight girls out there. ;)

I have a girlfriend, but none the less, we have never met. We have been doing the online bit on and off for nearly 7 months now. When it hits a year, we'll decide our fate from there.

I've never truly expiremented. I've had pecks on the cheek, and the random grope from the girl friends, but I've never had a true to life experience, and goddess durn it, I want to.

[Sea-Witch]

<---- Lesbian non-Wiccan Witch. :wave:

[Moonlight's Daughter]

Bi Sexual Swinger, wiccan witch here-31

[KaidaMidnight]

I checked other.. now let me explain. I am married, and have been with my husband for 6 years. I have had sex with only 1 other girl in my life, but with a couple of guys. I don't classify myself as straight, because I think if I wasn't married and a girl came along that I could love, I would. I'm not a lesbian though, because I love guys :lol: The reason I don't consider myself bi is because it was only 1 time that I was with the same sex, and I don't see that as experience to make the "label". Hope I didn't confuse you all as bad as I did myself just now... :lol:

[SilentDreams]

I'm gay, although I'm not a Wiccan. I'm an eclectic pagan.

[Silver Water]

I cannot, for the life of me, remember if I posted here before or not... so I might as well err on the side of too much and post again just in case. :D

I am a lesbian who is seriously considering getting involved in the Wiccan path instead of just the random dabbling. Means a lot of learning and that is exactly what I want.

[amakaliani]

Bisexual, involved with the father of my child. Would love to have a triad, however.....well, I am kinda picky. With good reason. Also, only nominally Wiccan - legally ordained in Wicca - But, most assuredly an eclectic Domestic Wytch.

[CheshireEyes]

I'm hetero, I don't like to say "straight" b/c it brings negative connotations to those that are not, like they're wrong or "crooked" or something. So hetero here, i like the opposite sex.

[Lady Valkyrie]

I am a Bisexual Christian Wiccan/Christian Witch.

[IsauraStrider]

I'm a lesbian and I'm Wiccan

[Quil]

Female-to-male transsexual and Kemetic recon here.

[Lilith Morgaine]

70/30 women first.... lol I'm proud of those that "get it" right away...... if you don't.... ask.....

BTW.... it can vary anywhere from 55/45 to 85/15 like the stock market.....

Single and hating it...... http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/10/10_3_6.gif

[Crysiira]

I clicked "maybe" because though I've been with my fiance for the past four years, that never stopped me from thinking about being with others... of either gender... but since I've had no experience other than the occasional kiss, I don't really know if I fit the label of bi. By the way, since you make it seem so not-stupid to ask, what does the ratio mean when you say 70/30 women?

[Wytchie]

Well up until now I have been heterosexual, and am in a long term committed relationship, but I would not be 100% against the idea of trying out new experiences at a possible time in the future, if it felt right and my partner was happy with it etc...I don't find all that many people sexually attractive full stop, so I think maybe I might be bi if the right woman had crossed my path before I was in a committed relationship, so who knows what the future may hold as they say, eh?! :nyah:

Oh yeah and not Wiccan, totally eclectic pagan is more me :)

[Arion]

I'm hetero, I don't like to say "straight" b/c it brings negative connotations to those that are not, like they're wrong or "crooked" or something. So hetero here, i like the opposite sex.
CE, i love you. lol

I think I've said something in this thread before, but I'm a queer ( i like that term because it encompasses everything) Feri witch. I don't really know how to label myself. I'm a mix of gay/bi/transgendered/gender queer/everything else, so "queer" is what i use to describe myself. I'm fairly pansexual.

[Lilith Morgaine]

I clicked "maybe" because though I've been with my fiance for the past four years, that never stopped me from thinking about being with others... of either gender... but since I've had no experience other than the occasional kiss, I don't really know if I fit the label of bi. By the way, since you make it seem so not-stupid to ask, what does the ratio mean when you say 70/30 women?

70 and 30 are percentages.... I will always list women first as I believe it is their rightful place :D

For example... if one day I was feeling 80/20 it would mean I was feeling very drawn to women and hardly at all to guys....

Make sense? A Good day for guys would be a 50/50 day, lol

[Lady Aeris]

hi friend :)
im a lesbian, looks like we are not alone here-

[Lady Aeris]

ah yes, and i am not wiccan, but an eccelctic witch none-the-less.

[Lilith Morgaine]

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After reading the following post I just got so mad........ You judge for yourself......

http://www.mysticwicks.com/showpost.php?p=2610379&postcount=256

[Ben Gruagach]

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After reading the following post I just got so mad........ You judge for yourself......

http://www.mysticwicks.com/showpost.php?p=2610379&postcount=256

Someone sounds like they have delusions that they are Hugh Hefner.

[Starlight*Rains]

Currently married, but attracted to both genders, and husband isn't opposed to me having a relationship with another woman on the side. I am also not Wiccan-just doesn't suit my tastes.That about sums me up too. we seem to have a bit in common! ;)

[Lady Aeris]

WARNING!!! NEED TO VENT.....




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After reading the following post I just got so mad........ You judge for yourself......

http://www.mysticwicks.com/showpost.php?p=2610379&postcount=256


wow...someone's dilusional. oh well, that's just ignorance...

[Starlight*Rains]

Are there any of you that women answered yes here single and in CT?

[Lilith Morgaine]

I've been out totally since I was 20 and I'm now 26. I've even been "married" to a woman for 2 years (not together now). I'm finding it really difficult in the dating world. There is one woman I cannot get off my mind. I haven't a clue whether or not she's at least bi. I've approached women in the past when I wasn't sure and it has not turned out well. I could fall in love with her.... what should I do? If I write to her, what should I say?

[CheshireEyes]

I've been out totally since I was 20 and I'm now 26. I've even been "married" to a woman for 2 years (not together now). I'm finding it really difficult in the dating world. There is one woman I cannot get off my mind. I haven't a clue whether or not she's at least bi. I've approached women in the past when I wasn't sure and it has not turned out well. I could fall in love with her.... what should I do? If I write to her, what should I say?
Hey, LM, I think you should at least TRY, otherwise you'll be kicking yourself for it in the future. Just give it a try and say something that way at least you'll know.

If she's not attracted to women then so be it. If she's an enlightened woman, she'll take your advances for the compliment it is.

I know that even though I'm attracted to the opposite sex, when members of my gender have come on to me in the past, I'm deeply complimented.

I've always viewed people's actions by their motivations behind it. If they are pure and genuine then I see no reason to get upset.

Kinda like if someone bakes you a chocolate cake for your birthday, unbeknownst to them, you are deathly allergic to chocolate. The motivation behind baking you the cake was to celebrate your birthday not to kill you. Ergo, their motives were pure.

So, go for it, LM, if she's worthy of you she will graciously accept your proposal for a date, if she's into you and if she's not, she will graciously understand your pure motivations behind them.

Never know until you try....:)

[Skylah]

Like Faelon, I don't care for labels either...
I think that the more "catagories" we put people into, the more we loose sight of what is important and what should be appreciated and valued.

[Silver Nightfire]

Right now, I'm only interested in guys. But who knows. Someday in the future that might change *shrug*

[Qeniheru]

For a while I considered myself bi-curious, but not anymore. The only bi/lesbian women around here that get interested in me are the ones that will screw anything with a heartbeat. :/ Even then, that is all of....2. 2 girls wanting to do anything with me in 4+ years since I decided I was bi-curious. I have gotten up the courage to approach a girl I liked on more than one occasion, but was turned down each time.

I guess I was never meant to be with a girl, or at least try it...oh well.

[WiccanGoddess]

I believe everyone to an extent has a bit of bisexuality or bicuriousness to them.

[fafonen]

bisexual agnostic pantheist. ;)

[fafonen]

I find it interesting that someone brought up the idea of gay men having "female brains" and lesbians possibly having "male brains" because, while I'm bisexual and not lesbian I tend to be very feminine and fit into a lot of the stereotypes about what is considered a females brain and what women are considered good at: bad sense of direction, good at english, etc. and I like women. I think to say that lesbians have "male brains" and gay men have "female brains" is very generalizing and definitely not true in my case.

[WiccanGoddess]

The only thing 'male brained' about me is that I despise getting dolled up. But other than that, I am very feminine. (Btw, I'm a Lesbian.). I am in fact more feminine than my straight men. As for 'female brained' homosexual males...I only know a few 'flamers', and they do it for the attention. Other than that, they are just as male as the heterosexuals.

[Lunar Raven]

I'm male..and a bit curious I suppose.

[magickaldreamer]

I'm a 16 year old bisexual Wiccan. Although I'm out to almost all of my friends and family that I'm Wiccan, I'm only out to a few friends, regarding the bisexuality. However, I'm apparently willing to share this fact with people I don't really know! Lol.

[Arion]

However, I'm apparently willing to share this fact with people I don't really know! Lol.
Hehe, it's always easier to tell people you barely know. Telling people you know and care about (and have to put up with on a regular basis :p) is the tricky part.

[tiger eyes]

Lesbian wiccan here!!!:wave:

[ravenhecate999]

represent!

[ShadeOSG]

Gay Witch here.

My favorite online resource for gay witchcraft information (though almost entirely slanted towards men) is the website of one of my first teachers:

http://faerywolf.com/

[MidnightFire]

gay eclectic witch here.

[Johnathan Brisby]

:hutone: Straight as a board thank you very much- oops wrong room...:bug: