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andiethegoodwitch
October 27th, 2005, 10:32 PM
I just found out my boyfriend likes this girl I was talking about in the skinny, tan, blonde) he thinks she is so nice and pretty and tells me so! I don't want to break up with him because I love him so much, but I don't know what to do. Any ideas? (sorry I am kind of dramatic at times!)



Andie
Sitalique
October 28th, 2005, 01:19 PM
Is there more to it than the fact that he likes this girl in a friendly way? Do you have the feeling that he could be cheating on you, or would be? Lots of guys like to look at the girls and even talk to them, get to know them, but never really consider going anywhere with it.

Have you tried telling him how it upsets you that he goes on about this girl? Maybe he doesn't know you are upset. I'd think long and hard before just breaking up over this.

:hugz: Hope you get things sorted out.
BrigidMoon
October 29th, 2005, 08:55 AM
I just found out my boyfriend likes this girl I was talking about in the skinny, tan, blonde) he thinks she is so nice and pretty and tells me so! I don't want to break up with him because I love him so much, but I don't know what to do. Any ideas? (sorry I am kind of dramatic at times!)



Andie
Try not to wig out. Maybe he's wanting a reaction. Just let him know you would prefer he not mention it to you because it makes you feel like he's wants to go out with her instead of you.

That's what I would do. Just tell him how you feel about it.
Zhr Morgana
October 29th, 2005, 12:38 PM
Try not to wig out. Maybe he's wanting a reaction. Just let him know you would prefer he not mention it to you because it makes you feel like he's wants to go out with her instead of you.

That's what I would do. Just tell him how you feel about it.
Ditto on that...but also trust your instincts about this. If you feel deep down that something is going on between them, then you should talk to him about your feelings.
LyraDragonStar
October 29th, 2005, 04:23 PM
I second everything everyone else has already said. It might help a lot to talk about it first. Maybe he's testing you. I've done that with a few of my friends. Whatever does happen though, best wishes!