Marijuana and the effects on others

[purpleathame]

Hi,
I was just wondering if others had similar things happen to them when their partner/ friends smoked.
I always get this really negative feeling / energy when my bf smokes. Would this have to do with his aura?
Could it have to do with being an empath?

Just that most the time i dont know where these feelings are coming from, and i feel so negative.

Thanks for your opinions on this
BB

[Cassie]

I think that all drugs have an effect on the aura and since you are an empath it doesn't surprize me at all that you are picking up something, especially as the person concerned is very close to you.
Moreover, being pregnant, your maternal and protective instincts are at a peak anyway.
Could it be that deep down you would prefer your bf not to smoke weed while you are pregnant; at least not in your pressence?
I think it would help to talk this over with him.

[Inward Visionary]

Well for some people marijuana can help weed out any fear or negativity and put it outside yourself. It could create a heavy feeling in the air. If you're an empath you would pick up on this. It could also just be a clouded thought pattern he's putting out. Either way, it does change the atmosphere. If you want to lighten it up a little bit, do just that. Send him Light and the room as well. Hope this helps!

[greenwitch]

I've always gotten the same negative awkward feeling whenever my boyfriend or even friends smoked weed around me, but for me there's more of a personal problem with it- my father loved weed more than his family, thus creating problems with me and the beloved smoking.

I do agree though, that because you're pregnant that might have something to do with it, protective maternal instincts are kicking in and maybe you don't want your unborn child to be exposed to it. examine your feelings just a bit and see if that helps at all.

[LostSheep]

I'm just wondering, what effects does it have on him? Does it make him feel negative, and depressed, or does it have a mellowing effect? if it has a depressive effect on him, then you could simply be picking those feelings up, or maybe if it does have a calming effect on him, maybe there's some kind of reaction there: the negative energies are kind of being purged from him, as Inward Visonary says; energy has got to go somewhere, and maybe it's going into you. Maybe meditation or if you're an empath, whatever strategies you've learned to shield yourself, might help to stop you being so receptive to it?

[ap Dafydd]

I wonder if it's just that being straight around people who are stoned is a pretty negative experience anyway - if you're sitting there wondering what he's finding to giggle at or why they're having such a ridiculous conversation, then it must be pretty alienating!

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[purpleathame]

Hi,
thanks for the replies, i should have said that he doesnt smoke near me, he smokes in a diff room and i usually cant smell it etc.
It has a mellowing affect on him thats why i didnt understand where the depressing feelings were coming from.

[LostSheep]

Another thing i'm wondering is, maybe weed has (or would have, if you smoked it) a different effect on you than it does on him, it might have a depressing effect on you, while it has a mellowing effect on him, and maybe being an empath you're kind of picking up on the effects it has on him but feeling it the way you would if you were smoking it yourself?

hope that made some kind of sense.

[LadyTrinity]

Drugs are bad Mmmk. and if you are pregnant.. U shouldnt be putting your self around smoke anyways. What u take into ur body. Your baby does too :hugz:

[CoolJ]

I'll just give a little of my own experience...

One of my best friend whom I knew for many years suddenly broke contact with me and started doing drugs... Weed, Crack, Acid, whatever else is out there... Now I don't like him at all, he's an ass and keeps making up bullshit pity stories to take advantage of people.... and the way he talks, I'm not sure if he's just plain lying, if he's an idiot, or if he's so severly halucinating from the drugs... I won't list what he says here butsome of it would just blow your mind....

It's not just the drugs themselves that are bad but the environment people are usually in when they go do them... bad crowds are bad energy

[Clytemnestra]

Well, he does smoke it in another room.
I do think that it somehow breaks down auric barriers, but I don't know for sure.
I've always found it a not so good experience in my body or in others. (when I am around them I mean.) Except for this one artist guy I knew. He had such a cheery demenour, and when he smoked, which he did every day, he seemed happy and shining, and got things done! I guess there has to be an exception to every rule... I never got any bad vibes off him.

ALthough, I do agree with Cool j. About the crowds. That makes sense from my experience.

[MsFireHaven]

I have to ask why he smokes. Is it for a medical reason? To relax? Or for a socal situation with friends?
Is there negitivity because you use to smoke?
Honesty is always the best policy, talk to him!

[Chibi-Fallon]

One of my best friend whom I knew for many years suddenly broke contact with me and started doing drugs... Weed, Crack, Acid, whatever else is out there... Now I don't like him at all, he's an ass and keeps making up bullshit pity stories to take advantage of people.... and the way he talks, I'm not sure if he's just plain lying, if he's an idiot, or if he's so severly halucinating from the drugs... I won't list what he says here butsome of it would just blow your mind....

It's not just the drugs themselves that are bad but the environment people are usually in when they go do them... bad crowds are bad energy

That's because your ex-friend is an addict and and addiction changes the way your brain works. I assume that her bf isn't an addict.
It seems like your logic would follow but addiction is totally different from the casual user. Your brain chemistry changes when you become addicted. That's the personality change.

[CalisticSunrise]

lol.. its funny i was just thinking about that.... I have the exact same feeling... i have no problem with pot, nor people smoking pot or anything... but with my fiance i get this negitave, angry feeling whenever he smokes or i find he had been smoking... I'm also an empath and believe that it has a big effect... I think i feel this way because when he smoes it clouds his mind and although makes him feel better for a minute it makes him forgetful and he can't concentrate which irritates him later on... so for me i pick up on future agression... i hope that helps comfort a little