Hello

[scaryfairy]

I am not a new member here, but I have a personal question here, and I'd like to keep it private.

I hope this is okay.

I would like to find a spell or some way to communicate with a child I miscarried and to talk to this child if it is not the same one, I may have potentially gotten pregnant again, and I would like to ask the child to come back at a time when we are more ready and capable of providing for him/her, and I want to reassure the baby that we love it and that we want to bring it into this life but that now is not a good time and that this will not happen again, that the next time the opportunity to get pregnant happens it will be carried through completely. Thanks it is very important if I could get some help pretty soon.

Thanks.

[Philosophia]

This is a very difficult subject but I'll see what I can find. I know its easier to create your own ritual and could help you connect more with your child.
When I lost a loved one, I did something similiar to this. I lit a large pillar candle, placed it in front of me and sat in a comfortable position (or lie down whichever suits you best). I also lit some incense (lavendar) but that was to help me relax so maybe finding something that can help relax you may help.
Meditate and relax yourself. Lower any sheilds you have up. Feel yourself having water poured over you (this will help open yourself to become more receptive). Close your eyes (if you haven't already) and let yourself go. You should feel more lighter and less grounded.
You will see yourself in a shapeless, fluid world. When I did this, I was in the ocean with no fish, just water. Do whatever feels right for you.
In your mind, call to the baby. See tendrils of silvery grey spread from you. These are like receptive beacons and can help find it. Don't worry if you don't see a human manifestation of the baby. It can come in its spiritual form. Don't worry, you will know when it arrives regardless of shape.
Send out your message through your mind. It might act like a sonar communication (similiar to whales) and the tendrils may help spread it quickly.
However, if nothing occurs don't give up. Your message is out there.
During days and nights, always keep yourself open to any messages being given. Every day watch for signs and messages that may occur, but don't worry if nothing does. It could mean that the child has moved on.
I hope this has helped you in some way, but I do believe the child knows it was loved (and loved you as well) and that the miscarriage was a sign that the baby's spirit wasn't ready to be born.
If this hasn't helped, then I'm sorry I can't do much more. If I come in contact with it when I'm travelling, I'll send it to you. :hugz: I will light a candle to send energy for you.

[9-2-2]

You don't need to do anything like that, but you can if you want. If you miscarried, then it already knows it wasn't the time. Its soul is not bitter, it doesn't hate you, it's not confused, sad, or worried or some such silliness. What you should do is meditate and do some calming energy work... you're not a murderer.

[scaryfairy]

Thank you very much I will try that! :)

[LordHelmet]

typicaly the spirit is around watching and waiting by the secound trimester (sometimes they don't show up until right before birth) but doesn't enter the body until around the time of birth. If the baby dies in birth, the spirit goes on and finds another fetus to wait for. After they incarnate and start to learn to hold peoples fingers they forget all about how they got there. I'd say if your pregnant and you want to get an abortion you might as well do it sooner, why keep a soul waiting to be disapointed.

I know my would have been big sister was a girl though, even though my parents had no idea. If you sensed anything like that you ight be able to use that to connect with them.