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serpent3
December 22nd, 2001, 08:11 PM
I was never raised with any particular religion, and I do believe there are aspects of every religion that can help me. But I think this will help most. My wife wants a divorce because she is confused, and doesn't know herself. She says that if she doesn't know herself, how can she honestly say that she loves me. I believe in my heart that her and I belong with one another, for the simple fact that through all the torment she's put me through, I have forgiven her and love her more than ever. Is there a spell I can cast to make this work out? Anyone is welcome to answer. Thankyou for taking the time to read this.

Myst
December 22nd, 2001, 08:32 PM
In Magick & Rituals you might find more info. You can work magick to help the issue be clarified, to help your wife find answers, etc. I wouldn't recommend doing a love spell or anything like that tho.

Just my two cents. :)

Lavender
December 24th, 2001, 04:13 AM
Have you & your wife thought about some kind of family councilling together? A separation may be an idea. Not quite as permanent as a divorce. Have you asked her if she wanted to try to work things out?

possum
January 22nd, 2002, 09:17 AM
Hey first stop and take a big breath. Ok now stop and relax with your wife and talk with her. Ask the questions she is having trouble with. Like what does she want to change about her life and why? I think alot of women get stuck in a rut and feel lost and can't find a way out so they first jump to divorce when in fact just changing a job or going out more or having a girls night out is all she really needs. Don't give up because you are so special because of the love you have for her. I agree with Myst don't use a love spell but you can look for a clarifying spell for her.Lots of love and luck for you . Please let us know how it goes. Blessed Be!

sjgavula
January 22nd, 2002, 10:47 PM
I wish you luck and clearsight. It sounds like talking is the first step you need to take. From there, you'll know which way to go. If she's willing to work on your marriage, then you have a good chance to get through this stronger as a couple.

Blessings,

Susan

Pagecrd
January 23rd, 2002, 04:49 AM
FIRST IM ASKING HOW OLD YOUR WIFE WAS WHEN THE TWO OF YOU GOT MARRIED AND HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED...NOT MEANING TO PRY OF COURSE. FOR NOW I AGREE WITH THE SEPARATION IDEA. LET HER FIND OUT WHERE SHE IS AND DONT HOLD HER BACK...GOOD LUCK!