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Mangosteen
December 24th, 2005, 12:27 AM
Well, I suppose this is a slightly triffling subject to have posted here... but oh well... here goes...

Recently, I've really fallen for this one guy who I go to school with... he's cute, amusing, smart, and we share sooo many interests. And he has a girlfriend, of course. We've been friends, of course, and pretty good ones, but just the other day he tells me that he's stuck in a horrible rut and feels aweful about it, because he likes both me and 'her' and doesn't know what to do about it. I comfort him and tell him it's all right, we can still just be friends, but inside I know how much I ache when I see them walking together, holding hands. I don't know what to do.

Also, when I came home from finals, feeling pretty good about my tests, I open the door to find that my house had been robbed. Not only had it been robbed, but they'd stolen my pet iguana. She's probably dead by now. How could anyone steal a living animal? How... how could they do that?

ObsessedFae86
December 24th, 2005, 12:29 AM
:hugz: Aww sounds like you are going through a rough time in life..I hope you get through your love issues and I'm sorry about your home and pet :( Best of luck to you!

AineDanu
December 24th, 2005, 01:32 AM
That really sucks!! If you need someone to talk to i'm about! I am sure the love situation will turn out as it is meant to but I do understand that in the meantime it is painful and confusing.

That is just really low to steal someones pet. I've had my puppy stolen so I can commiserate.

If they went through the effort of stealing it - they will probably keep it alive for themselves and maybe? the iguana has a message it needs to teach these people at this time...... (looking for silver lining for you) That is what I told myself when the puppy was stolen.

taki yume
December 24th, 2005, 09:21 PM
O_O

*sob* I'm so sorry about your pet!! That is the worst possible thing that someone could ever do, in my opinion. ;_; I'm so sorry....I'm a cat person, and throught my life my cats have kept disappearing. Either they run away, someone takes them, or they've died. It's a terrible thing to have to deal with, especially when they're taken away from you. *Hug* I'm sorry.

As for the thing with the guy....Just let it go. Most of it is his decision, so he'll be the one making the calls. The Fates will do what should be done. Maybe right now they're trying to teach you patience and that things won't go your way immediately. Just hang in there, what is to come shall pass eventually.


~Taki Yume

kal
December 24th, 2005, 10:18 PM
hang yourself out there tell him how you really feel
he may be lookin for a indication from you
that you feel the same way as he does
lay your cards out on the table
the timing is right
go for it

DreamSpell333
December 26th, 2005, 03:25 PM
Im sorry your having a rough time. I know that you probably feel bad about breaking them up, but if he likes you,then maybe his relationship with this girl isnt going well. I definitely think you should tell him how you really feel about him. I hope things work out for you.

As for the robbery and taking your pet : thats just HORRIBLE. im so sorry that they did this to you. Did you call the cops? do they or you have any idea who might have done this? :hugz: to you.

BrigidMoon
December 30th, 2005, 12:34 PM
:hugz: to you Mangosteen, hope things are getting better!