Much need Love magic (with an explination this time)

[calamitycomplex]

I requested a love spell the first time I visited this site. I did it in a rash manor so I think a little explanation is needed.
The girl in question for this spell is not a random crush of mine. She is my girlfriend. Interestingly enough our relationship isn't even in trouble. It just used to be so much more. Aspects of our lives, not really anything we can control, have forced us to not be as close as we were. I'm looking for a spell to reinforce what we have and remove the obstacles between us. Something for the both of us to focus on our love again.
I really do love this girl. I want nothing more in my life than her.
Any magical help or just some advice (maybe just a sympathetic ear) would mean the world to me. Thanks!

[Shanti]

Well when it a matter of a couple wanting to mutually rekindle their fires...magick, in my opinion, is best if it is created form your own mind/minds. My SO and I have on several occasions re-bonded with love magick/spells. We always create our own as our hearts and minds are what they are made of and there is nothing as good as your own hearts work!!
Be creative, or simple..whatever floats your boat!
As long as your hearts and minds are in it, it will work.

[CzechWoods]

change is the rhythm of the world. relationships can be strong and than grow a bit less intense, but its like the waves of the ocean, the tides, you might think there is not much left and than WHOM, the flood will just carry you away

my post means, before trying to pepp up your love with magic, maybe try accepting the fact, that sometimes things change, become calmer, less intense. maybe its the beginning of the end, maybe its the calm before the storm

talk with your gf. ask her whether she feel s the same as you, and what are her reasons for the relationship to have shifted/changed

take this as a chance to work on your relationship/coupleship, rather than messing with magic.

love is the magic but a relationship takes a lot more than "just" love (or magic for that matter) it takes lots of dedication, work, forgiving, sesibility, sensuality, care, care-taking, kindness, and did i mention hard work ?