Adoption/baby strength

[aislin_ryann]

I found out some wonderful news this weekend. As some of you know, my husband and I have tried to have a baby of our own, but we are not able to. So we are starting the adoption process. We were approached yesterday by my sister. Her husband's younger brother and his girlfriend have 3 kids. 5,2, and 3 months. They are wanting to have the children adopted. They are unable to care for the children. They do not work, have drug problems, and are 20 years old. The father's mother has said she wants to adopt the old boy (5) since they have him 7 days a week and his parents only see him on holidays and family get togethers. My sister has the little girl, Gabby (2), 7 days a week and takes her back to her parents for visits. In the 24 hours that Gabby is at her parents house, she had not had her diaper changed the entire time she was there. They just had a baby in october. His name is Logan. They had told my sister that if they could find someone close to take Logan, they would let the children be adopted but they would like for the kids to stay kind of close so they can see then occaisionally. So my sister told them about my situation and they asked her to talk to us about it. Yesterday, my sister came over and asked us if we would like to adopt Logan. We are aware of the situation (this is the 2nd generation in this family where there wer children born into terrible situations and other family members have adopted the children). We are also aware that this may not actually happen. This would be in the best interest of the children. The parents do not have the mental capacity to raise the children and they have said they would like something to happen but they don't want to come out and say, please take our children, we are bad parents. I know that has to be very difficult. But now that they have an option, they are hoping it can be taken care of.

All I am asking is for some strength and protection for everyone involved. We will need all of the help we can get. I am happy that the parents are wanting to do something about their situation. If I am meant to be Logan's mommy, let it happen. But if not, let the parents get clean and be able to be parents to their children.

[Lunacie]

Sending energies for the best outcome possible for these children, and good luck family-type energies for you and your hubby.

[Belladona]

Congratulations and Good Luck! I am very excited for you. My husband, Knightshade, and I plan to adopt too in the near future. I will light a candle for you sweetie!

[Faeawyn]

Praying for the best outcome for these children and it sounds like the best outcome would be you :hugz:

[woodlandfairy]

Hello, Wishing the best outcome for you and the children. I was adopted and it takes special people to love and care and be willing to sacrifice. Sending warm energy your way.

[aislin_ryann]

Praying for the best outcome for these children and it sounds like the best outcome would be you :hugz:


Thank you! :hugz: I feel the same. I want the children to have a good chance at a great life.

[Catiana]

sending energy for the best out come for you and the children :hugz:

[Aleannah]

sending energy for the best possible outcome for all involved :hugz:

[Kalika]

:hugz:

Good luck!

[Brenda]

Sending energy for the best outcome :hugz:

[wyldwolf]

I kknow you must be very excited! Energy being sent for the best possible outcome for you and these children. Keep us posted!:wave:

[Moonlite Faery]

Lots of positive energys sent! I was adopted, so all the luck to you!

[Morr]

*energy sent*

Good Luck!

[aislin_ryann]

I will keep you all updated. I would love to be his Mommy, but we shall see. :) Thank you all so much for your thoughts and energies!

[phoenixblayze]

i hope everything works out, and that you are able to adopt the baby

[smckim]

I pray for the best outcome for all, especially the children, good luck to you.
Blessings for all who are taking care of these children, and Healing energy sent to the parents, with blessings for doing what is best for these babies.

[TaysatWesir]

sending strengthn protection and best possible outcome energy for you and the children :hugz:

[zede]

oh how exciting for you and that is the best gift logans parent can give , it is great when messed up parents do whats best for the kids (not always the case) i wish you all the best . positive energys heading your way!

[aislin_ryann]

Thank you all for your support. I don't know what I would do with out you guys. But I do have a problem. I can't stop thinking about becoming Logan's mommy. I couldn't sleep last night. Part of it was trying to figure out how we are going to buy all of this baby stuff at once, but the Goddess told me don't worry, it will be taken care of. But I can't stop thinking about it. I am planning things out and I don't even know for sure if we will adopt him. Given the option, yes, I am going to in a heartbeat. I would like to get the ball rolling, but at the same time, I don't want to make it seem like I want to take the kids away. (Even though deep inside I do because of how unfit their parents are) I don't want to hurt anyone more than this is naturally going to. But I don't want those kids to go through more than what they already are. What do you think I should do? I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't function properly. I really just want to go to their house and take little Logan right this moment. But that wouldn't be productive. HELP! I don't know how to stop thinking about it so much.

[Ben Gruagach]

I'm sending energy your way.

We're going through adoption as well. We've got our home study done and are now in waiting phase -- waiting for the social workers to match us up with the right child.