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Romani Vixen
January 25th, 2006, 04:31 PM
The Altar

Why have an altar? There are many reasons. Specifically in candle magic, you'll want a place to do your spells. It needs to be a place which you can have candles, and a variety of other objects on. Mine is in my bedroom (private)**, I'm going to be getting a small table from an unfinished furniture place, so that I can do some work on it. A simple altar cloth (pick a meaningful color to you, or change by the season, or whatever spell work you're doing). Your altar will be the place that you cast spells, the place that you meditate, the place that you commune with the Gods. Take your time.


**My shrine, similar to an altar, but more dedicated to the Gods, is now in my living room. I live alone, and so I don’t have to worry about others disturbing it. I also like to have the reminder of seeing it there all the time. My cloth is white, for purity, and remains such.

Basic Tools

This is a very rough example of some tools which you'll want to get for your altar. This isn't a complete list, but this list is very heavily focused on Wicca and similar faiths. My Kemetic shrine has Icons, candle holder, water and food offering dishes, and insence burner.

Athame (a-tha-may) -- Ritual knife. Traditionally not used for cutting physically. I use mine for physical as well as spiritual cutting though, as well as inscribing candles.

Scribe tool -- if you don't have an athame, or don't use it for physical cutting, you'll need something to inscribe the candles with. A sharp rock, a needle, a nail. Find something that works for you.

Censer -- aka insence bowl. place sand in the bottom to stick in stick insence, or lay charcoal on top to burn. Is also useful for burning paper in ritual.

Candle holders -- of course an essential for candle magic. Make sure that you have a few, and ones that will work for all the types of candles that you have.

Snuffer -- some people feel that blowing out a candle offends the element of fire. If this is you (or you don't like the messy wax all over) get a candle snuffer. They can be found at thrift stores occasionally. I also saw them at Jo Ann's for $1.99.


Crafting tools

Some of these tools you'll want to purchase. Others can be made right at home.

Athame is unfortunately one that I do recomend purchasing.... though... my first was a quill pen (air, pen is mightier than the sword).

A censer can be a large bowl from a thrift store. You can also make one out of fimo or sculpy. You can also use a shell as a censer, just be careful when burning paper!

Candle holders are fun. Craft some from sculpy. You can also take a small log, saw one side flat (so that it will lie still) and drill holes for candles.

Please see the Arts & Crafts in the CoT (taught by Kalika) for further ideas on crafts that you can make.

Meditation

Meditation is what I feel to be an essential part of magic. You must know your self. You must also be able to focus and visualize. Meditation helps with all of these things.

Candles can be used for basic meditation. The color of the candle can vary. If you would like to meditate on something in particular, choose an appropriate color. If you just want a general meditation, use white. This candle can be used over and over again until it's gone, or get a big bag of tea lights for cheap and use them!

Sit in a comfortable position with the candle about a foot in front of you. Light the candle and ground and center. Feel the tension flowing out your feet and fingers. Breathe in for four seconds, hold for four seconds, then exhale for four seconds, then repeat. this will create a slow methodic rhythm to your breathe which will allow your muscles and mind to relax more, aiding in a meditative state.

Focus on the candle's flame. If you get other thoughts in your head, let them flow out, and continue focusing on the flame. Maintain your breathing.

After a few moments of focusing on the candle, close your eyes. Hold on to the image of the candle, particularly the flame. Your mind's eye should see the flame flickering. If you loose the image, open your eyes again. Do this for a total of 10-15 minutes each day.

This also works with a regular fire. If you have a fireplace, try it out. You can also do it while camping, etc. You probably have already! Most people notice that they'll look at a fire and end up "zoning out". This is meditation, but non-focused and accidental.


Chakra meditation:

If you like working with your chakras, you can use a candle to open them. Choose a color appropriate to the chakra you want to open, and meditate on the candle, and visualise the area of your body glowing with that color. See the CoT Chakra's class for more info on Chakras.




Homework:

Practice candle/fire meditation. Please do it once a day for a full week. You may try different colors of candle, different music or insence in the background. Keep a log of what you used and your results. Post the results at the end of the week in this thread. If you'd like to keep it simple, you don't need to change anything from day to day, or you may just change one thing.

new_hope
January 26th, 2006, 04:03 AM
What do you mean results?

Romani Vixen
January 26th, 2006, 03:33 PM
Were you able to hold the image for a while? More importantly, did that time increase over the week? Did you notice a greater sence of calm or anything else? Along with what color candle you used and any other factors you added in (music or insence etc)

new_hope
January 27th, 2006, 04:02 AM
Thanks that makes things clearer

DaughterofClouds
February 3rd, 2006, 11:58 AM
I see what the teacher is asking for, I mean the whole finding results. When I can get the candles and the time I will try it. ^^

ladyselena621
February 3rd, 2006, 12:17 PM
I just saw the assignment*blush* I will post results next friday.

slntmom
February 4th, 2006, 02:35 PM
i meditate by candles because that is the only way i can stay focused and block out everything around me. i actually look at the flame and after awhile of watching the flame everything around me kind of disappears and the only thing is left is light stillness and calm. the color that i use depends on how i feel but mostly i use white. if my day was crazy and hectate i use a blue candle for peace and calm

Devi
February 6th, 2006, 04:04 AM
I just saw the assignment*blush* I will post results next friday.


me too :)

new_hope
February 14th, 2006, 04:04 AM
Sorry it took so long but,
the more times I meaditateaed the longer i could hold the image for.
The longest I held it for was about 3 mins (i think, time just seemed to slip away som im not enterarly sure)
BTW, i dont spell to well.
:crazy:

ladyselena621
February 14th, 2006, 10:48 PM
I did the meditation each afternoon alternating between 3 candle colors. I found that as I went a long the time I could hold the image increased,but the color seem to affect how themediation went. Whenever I used a yellow candle it seemed that my thoughts where everywhere(although I could still see the flame) and at the end I did feel as if I came to some answers about several things. When I used blue I just fealt mellow and had nothing going through my mind,and the last color I used was red and I tended to get antsy and want to get up and do stuff while I was tring to calm down and focus on the flame.
Really I learned a lot from the meditation and how the different colors affect me.

wyldwolf
February 15th, 2006, 06:39 PM
I always use a white candle when I meditate. I guess the reason for this is that I am trying to bring all of the white energy into me and disspell all of the negativity. It has gotten very easy for me to meditate. Things just seem to flow in this respect for me. I am able to stare at the flame and am able to adjust it. I can make the flame taller, shorter, fuller or slimmer. As this is happening, it seems as though I go to a place where the only thing is me and the candle and its flame. There are no distractions and just a calm and stillness about the entire experience. For me, it is always a very peaceful time.

Romani Vixen
February 24th, 2006, 02:06 AM
Sorry it took so long but,
the more times I meaditateaed the longer i could hold the image for.
The longest I held it for was about 3 mins (i think, time just seemed to slip away som im not enterarly sure)
BTW, i dont spell to well.
:crazy:

That is just wonderful!!!

Time does tend to slip away when you're in meditation.

Romani Vixen
February 24th, 2006, 02:10 AM
I did the meditation each afternoon alternating between 3 candle colors. I found that as I went a long the time I could hold the image increased,but the color seem to affect how themediation went. Whenever I used a yellow candle it seemed that my thoughts where everywhere(although I could still see the flame) and at the end I did feel as if I came to some answers about several things. When I used blue I just fealt mellow and had nothing going through my mind,and the last color I used was red and I tended to get antsy and want to get up and do stuff while I was tring to calm down and focus on the flame.
Really I learned a lot from the meditation and how the different colors affect me.

Very interesting!

I encourage you now to look at your personal correspondences for those colors, and contemplate how the associations compare.

I also encourage everyone to do additional meditations with different colors as you work through making your list of correspondences.

Another good idea is to do some relaxing/homework/housecleaning/etc with a particular color candle burning. This is a more casual way of meditation on that color. Make note in your personal BoS or journal on any emotional changes, or outstanding thoughts that you get during this time.

magicr666
February 25th, 2006, 02:58 AM
Here is what i did.

Day 1:
I used a white candle with Jasmine oil and insence. I love candle and i tend to us them to calm me down and relax. I use this combo because i feel relaxed and calm with it. I can go into my own world for a good half hour and clear my mind. That was my day 1.

Day 2:
I was feeling abit down and needed some feeling so for this day i used a red candle with rose oil. This time i just looked into the flame and watched it dance. Letting the passion of the flame dance into my mind. I really enjoyed this one.

Day 3:
I used a purple with lavender insence and oil. This time i used the sound of the ocean as music, watching the flame and being at complete peace. I did this one just before i went to bed and i slept like a baby, it was really nice to sleep that good. That was the first time using that combo and i think i will be using it again. The smell is so nices and the glow of the candle takes you away.

Day 4:
I used a yellow candle with orange oil. This reminded me of the nice summer days, really nice.

Day 5:
I went back to the purple candle with the lavender and ocean music, i really enjoyed it. You have to try it to know what i am talking about.

Day 6:
Again the stress from work drives me mad so i went back for my first one. The white candle jasmine oil and insence, i also like this one alot too. It takes away all the stress and leaves you relaxed.

Day 7:
I wanted to try something different so i used a red candle with jasmine oil and a cd with the sound of rain. I watched the candle flame again and listened to the rain. Like i said it takes you away to another world, where everything is different and you can forget all you pain and problems, even if its for a short amount of time.

The Lady
March 9th, 2006, 02:58 AM
Every day I do the following:

IN THE EVENING: I light my red candles for my relationship altar. My altar has a picture of my daughter, a pink monkey (represents playfulness in relationships), a figurine of a man and a woman holding each other, pink and clear crystal hearts, tiny red flowers, buddha for relationships, swans, a rose pin my daughter gave me this past Christmas. Everyday I light the candles after saying a prayer of gratitude and then requesting continued guidance and wisdom. This takes me about 20 minutes because I meditate on the accomplishments and my requests. I find that my relationships are stronger, communicative, loving, happier, and fullfilling since I started doing this a year ago. I can feel the energy come into me during my prayer and feel the energy go out from me to the people I speak about during my prayer.

IN THE EVENING: I light my green candle for my love spell. My love spell is my request to the universe bringing a person into my life, not a specific person. However, I do have a list of attributes I would like in my lover and I meditate on the list while lighting the candle and reciting my spell. This will take about 10-15 minutes as I meditate on my list. My candle is a fig/lychee smelling candle with sandlewood rubbed into it, which reminds me of a man. I love the smell! Again, the men that have come into my life since I started lighting this candle a year ago have been excellent matches to my list, however, when the relationships don't manifest into something more I modify my list. (NOTE: now don't get me wrong, its not about a 'perfect man', my list is about attributes that are within reason, here is the URL for your convenience: http://groups.msn.com/FullMoonParadise/bestlovespell.msnw) The best part is that I'm still friends with many of these gentlemen, which is really cool! I do believe the energy I put out is coming back by having these men come into my life.

IN THE EVENING: I light my candles in the bathroom for spiritual cleansing while taking a shower. I have light pink, white, lavendar, and light blue. I find these candles to be refreshing to me, their scent is mild and their colors are very light. While I take a shower I meditate on clearing my mind for some time, then I think about all that I need to do in the day and how I will get it done and how it will turn out (positive of course). I wash like usual and the whole time I'm thinking about the positive results. This takes about 30 minutes of my time, sometimes longer as I may meditate prior to showering. I always feel energized afterward and accomplish quite a lot. When going for interviews, I always feel so calm and happy, which is reflected during the interview because I'm told by each interviewer that I interview excellently. (too bad I don't get the job, I'm told I'm over qualified and possibly over priced - I think its a cop out myself but I know someone will take me no matter what)

IN THE MORNING AND/OR EVENING: I have dark purple candles in my living room for meditating. They have a wonderful scent which I can't describe, zen from Partylite. I will sit in the evening and/or early mornings to meditate, just a clearing of my mind for a long period of time. It helps me de-stress (is that a word?) I will do this for about 15 to 20 minutes, sometimes longer. I can feel my body relax and drain out the negative stuff.

IN THE EVENING: My kitchen has fig/lychee smelling candles all over. I am working on creating a kitchen witch altar in there. I chose green, actually a sage green color, because I love the color and the scent. It has been my theme in this room since I moved in a year ago. I burn these candles after dinner once I have cleaned the kitchen. The dishwasher will run and my candles will burn. Like a cleansing and a thank you, an expression of appreciation. This room is also my money corner for Feng Shui so the green represents money too. I say a quick prayer and a thank you and place a request while the candles burn.

IN THE MORNING AND/OR EVENING: While reading my tarot cards I burn lavendar candles and lavendar incense. I love lavendar it is my FAVORITE scent. I enjoy reding my cards with this scent in the air, it helps me focus and gather in the energies from the cards. I will read cards for an hour or more; I take my time while I do my readings. Sometimes I'm trying to get a feel for a particular card so that will require more time spent reading. I usually do readings at night before bed or early in the morning before starting my day.

Overall, I spend a great deal of time sending out energy, and receiving it. Since I started doing the burning of candles I find my life has lots of energy to it, seriously, a constant feeling of positive energy that I have never felt before.

Oh I almost forgot, I have my 'everyday' (for lack of a better word right now) altar in my bedroom on top of a dresser. I have the candles set up for the four elementsand directions, green/north/earth - yellow/east/air - red/south/fire - blue/west/water, a white candle in the middle for purity and psychic energy, and gold and silver candles for god and goddess. While setting up my altar I felt excited and energized. It is my place of worship. When I walk by it every day I can feel it calling to me and I always say good morning and hello to it. Silly I know but I feel I'm being disrespectful if I don't. I haven't actually used my altar for anything yet, I'm doing some studying on some things first.

Sorry for being so verbose but this is all new to me so I'm over zealous. I'm sure I will mellow with time.

Thank you, Tamela

Spacehap
March 9th, 2006, 08:07 PM
When I started I could not get the image to stay in my mind. Then as time progressed I was able to keep it for longer and longer. Now I can keep it in my mind for a little under a minute. And today I was able to close my eyes and see the flame with out looking at a candle first.

WICCANWAY37
March 11th, 2006, 11:16 AM
sorry so late. But here is what i got.
I alternated between 3- colors orange, yellow and purple.
I was able to meditate for about a minute but i progressed
slowly. I was able to see more than just the flame of the
candle using the purple color. I need more pratice at meditating.