Oh man... *squeal of delight*

[SimplyStrange]

Ok, guys...lately I've been going through what I have been calling a "rough time". Ok, so here's the truth:

Last day of school before Christmas vacation (the 20th of Dec.), my boyfriend broke the news to me that he and our friend were running away to California...that it sucked here and whatnot. So we spent the night on the phone while I tried to hide my crying and blah blah blah...well, the problem was that I was going on that 9-day vacation, and he was leaving on New Year's eve...

Sad, huh?

So when I got back into town, I tried calling him, but couldn't get ahold of him...so that ruled out spending the 30th with him...so I called him on the 31st. We talked for awhile, and neither one of us once mentioned the running away thing...and then he said "can I call you back?"...the only catch: He never did. So I have been really upset lately...lost a lot of tears over him, trying my hardest to accept it...to accept that there was nothing I could do...that he was gone.

Even more sad, huh?

BUT!(oh yes, there's a but) Here's the good part! I was talking to my friend tonight, and she told me that our other friend says that my boyfriend really didn't run away!!! He's been with him for the entire vacation!!!

Oh, I'm so happy I could puke!!! Of course, I'm kind of irked that the last I heard from him was "can I call you back?", but I don't want to get upset about it! I'm just so happy....I really am going to see him again! GODs, I could just jump for joy, I could go pick flowers, fly a kite! dance in the rain!!

Just had to share with everyone :-D

Yours truly,
The very happy
SS

[MistOfTheSea86]

I am so happy for you:)

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

aw :) that's such a cute story! I'm glad everything turned out fine 'n' dandy!
My friend said she was gonna run away over new year...but it was all just a publicity stunt so :nyah: really

[Xander67]

me Happy for you SS.....

(but you still shoulda tackled Paul McCartney :p )

[flar7]

thats ok then I guess. He shoulda' called though... how wude!

[Starwitch]

I'm happy if you are!
One thing though......... Is it fair that he "played" with your emotions like that without discussing it?
Stay strong, and try and get him to talk to you about how he is feeling...... that way things may not take you by surprise the way they have this time :ahhhh:
Love and Light

[Faery-Wings]

Originally posted by flar7
thats ok then I guess. He shoulda' called though... how wude!

*giggle*

Wude- Struck me as funny this morning. But then again, I just watched Blazing Saddles last night!LOL

SS~ I have to agree with Starwitch here. Definitely happy for you if you are happy too. Just make sure you talk to him and find out why he said the things he said and did. Good luck to you both, hun!

BB

Chris

[faeriedust]

i am very happy for you, just be careful hun!!!!!!;)

[SimplyStrange]

I know, guys. I really am irked about it, and I definately planned to talk to him about it, don't think that I wasn't :D. At the moment I was ecstatic, but I really have to talk to him about it. It was screwed that he left me hanging, and it would be kind of foolish to just overlook it....

*cracks knuckles* Watch out, babe... :p

And Xander, next time, I will tackle Paul McCartney. I mean, screw the guy's feelings, right?? :p

[Eudaimonia]

**GROAN** .V. keeps threatening to "leave" because of the cops or some other problem. Keeping him close hasn't been easy, but it's best for him, and helps to kill the mind monsters. All I can do is love him, but I don't let him hurt me if I can help it. I am one of the very, very very, VERY few people who can deal with him on a long term basis, and I know him better than almost anyone. It's just sticking by him, thats all.

Question? Does your boyfriend do any hard drugs? His episode sounded quite a bit like what .V. does when he's coming down from dope, freaking out and all that. If not, keep his mind monsters in check: that may be the best you can do, aside from love him.

Anyone is welcome to question me if I'm not making sense, but a PM might work best.

[TheTheologin]

Here's my question. If he decided to stay why didn't he call you so that the two of you could share the happiness? Seems to me there's something ify going on there. I could be wrong but find out WHY he didn't call you back.