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Old Witch
January 7th, 2002, 09:44 AM
I am devastated! My best friend passed away last night. I can hardly see the keyboard through the tears. Our families are close so this is affecting all of us. We taught Elementary School art together 30 yrs ago........My son and her daughter were each others first loves.........We shared our love of animals and plants........She became ill about 7 yrs. ago when she got a brain infection. She has been on dialysis for 2 yrs. She did see a grandchild and for that I am grateful. She suffered mightily, but she fought well and bravely. Her husband did every thing for her and is truly a good man! I am rambling now, so please help her on her way and and send us the courage to let her go.
Love, Old Witch.

Danustouch
January 7th, 2002, 10:29 AM
I'm so sorry, Old Witch. I am sending positive, healing energy your way. If you need to talk, my AIM handle is Danustouch.

Xander67
January 7th, 2002, 01:20 PM
:eek:

OW, If there is anything I can do, let me know....if you need to talk Pm me! :(

*hugs

I am at work but I can send you as much energy as I can
I am sorry to hear about your friend!

Kahlan
January 7th, 2002, 02:33 PM
For starters OW here (((((((((Big Hugs))))))))), I am sending positive energies your way, and as much love as you need. I know we, meaning all thoughs here who love you on MW, are here for you!

Love & Hugs!!!

Laiste
January 7th, 2002, 02:36 PM
May the Goddess give you and your loved ones the strength you need at this time.

Sorry for your loss!

:( {{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}

amberwolf
January 7th, 2002, 05:29 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your friends passing Old witch i will light a candle for you .If you need to talk PM me. My friend of 18 years passed away last October and i know how hard it is for you at this time .my thoughts are with you Blessings Amberwolf

flar7
January 7th, 2002, 06:28 PM
you have my well wishes and prayers. If she was your friend then she had to have been a nice person, since you are one of the nicest people of all! (((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))

stormyray
January 7th, 2002, 07:50 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss........ I am sending all the loving energy I can spare your way.

Yvonne Belisle
January 7th, 2002, 09:10 PM
you have my support.

Old Witch
January 7th, 2002, 10:37 PM
Thank you all so much. I don't know how to express how much your caring means to me. I've finally stopped crying, ( at least for now). Thank you again for your energies, candles, and prayers.
Love, Old Witch.

MammaStar
January 7th, 2002, 10:39 PM
I have no words, for I can't find the right ones to say. But here are ((((((((((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) for you.

:heartthro :heartthro :heartthro

faeriedust
January 7th, 2002, 10:44 PM
i am so sorry for your loss. you are the sweetest person and i am sorry this happened to you. if you need anything let me know. my aim handle is sarindipidi712. i also will light a candle for you.

Flaire-FireStar
January 8th, 2002, 01:17 AM
Oh goodness.... *very big hugz* Will light a candle for you....

Old Witch
January 8th, 2002, 10:07 AM
Once again, Thank You all so much. I feel a bit better today. The old trite saying "life goes on" is so true. The Funeral is not until Thursday, so thats gonna be a very bad day. I've decided to remember her with happiness and joy, thats how she would want it! Love and Hugs back to all of you!
Old Witch.

Garnet
January 9th, 2002, 03:04 PM
Dear Old Witch...
Hugs, prayers, & energy from me & my four-legged posse.
***meow!***

Kristin Ann
January 9th, 2002, 03:38 PM
*tons of hugs* for sure and you're definitely in my thoughts. Do stay strong, :).

Love & light always,
Kristin Ann

SpikesPet5150
January 9th, 2002, 04:16 PM
Love and hugs to you, OW. I'm very sorry for your loss. As everyone else said, if you need someone to talk to, you can always PM me, and my aim handle is Wiccanchik2001. I know what it feels like to lose a best friend... and I'm here for you, anytime.
~Bree

bluebear
January 9th, 2002, 08:14 PM
Dear Old Witch,
Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved friend. I recently lost a close friend. He was the one who started me on this path so I know how you feel. Try to remember that your friend may be departed from the physical world but lives on forever in the spiritual world. I am burning a candle for you now.
Love and blessings always
Bluebear

Old Witch
January 9th, 2002, 11:26 PM
Ya'll are just the best!
Love, Old Witch

Old Witch
January 10th, 2002, 06:30 PM
Well, it's done! How can putting a shell of a body into the ground hurt so much? (Just a rhetorical question ) I know she went on her way Mon., but today was so final. Thanks again for your energy, support, and prayers. Love, Old Witch.

zhowlingwolf
January 11th, 2002, 06:02 PM
I will light a candle for all of you this evening. Healing energies are on their way !!!
Blessed Be !!! z-wolf

Hope
January 11th, 2002, 09:04 PM
I know you already "know this" but please don't forget to come and ask for more love and support as those moments come up when you need a shoulder to continue to let your friend go. I know for me personally letting go can be really hard, and I wish you many happy memories that make you laugh at your time together here.

Love and hugs to you and yours while you work through this!

lvoe
hope

Danustouch
January 11th, 2002, 11:34 PM
((((((((((((OLDWITCH)))))))))))))))))))) Still hugging you mentally. I know how hard it can be. Please remember to ask for help if you need to talk.

Sequoia
January 12th, 2002, 01:18 AM
awwww. . . I'm so sorry to hear that. . . *HUGS HUGS BIG HUGE HUGS* it's so hard to loose such a close friend. My thoughts are with you.

Garnet
January 12th, 2002, 01:23 AM
Dear Old Witch;
My best friend died several years ago. Every now & then, I find myself thinking "I have to tell Jonathan about this," & then I remember, "Oh spit, I can't tell him."
As long as it takes, we're here, listening.
P.S. I miss you, Jonathan.

bansidhe
January 13th, 2002, 05:06 AM
i know its belated ow, but my thoughts and burning of the candle are with you!!! *mass hugglies* hang in there! *more mass hugglies*

Isis
January 15th, 2002, 12:19 AM
Old Witch my heart, soul and prayers go out to you.

I'm still a novice, and bit younger than you, but I must say this to you. This woman came into your lives, and effected you profoundly. Her love and wisdom has not only been passed on to her children, but I'm sure to yours as well, and vice versa.

To have a friend that morphs into family is something special. Something that many people never get the opportunity to experience. You've spent a lifetime with this woman, and she'll continue to be part of your life. You'll never truly let her go, your spirits are entertwined. Her phsyical body is gone, but her heart, soul and spirit live on in your memories and in the life lessons that you brought to each other and your families.

I have a couple of friends like that......so if I were to loose them, I know I'd be devestated. My deepest love and sympathy go out to you and your families.


BB,

Isis

Ball-Bhreac Ròn
January 15th, 2002, 03:55 PM
aw :( (((hugs))) for old witch...this must be terrible for you! Have a tub of marmite to drown your sorrows in, and remember you can pm me if you need to talk, or need a marmite refill. Stay strong!