halfwaynowhere
March 22nd, 2006, 01:07 AM
alright, this is an odd situation... my best friend was going through this phase where she felt she needed to have a boyfriend to feel complete, and had basically become obsessed with finding one... she did the whole myspace thing, met a few guys that way, talked to them on the phone sometimes, but that was it... then there was this one guy, from out of state, who she got to talking to, and they talked a lot on the phone... i chatted with him online once or twice, and he seemed to really like her, seriously, he was committed to her... he saw more into the relationship than she did... well, my friend fell and hit her head, and woke up, she decided she needed to worry more about finding herself before she needed to go and look for someone else... but she's not very good about letting people down softly... so apparantly she broke things off with this guy... he sent me a message on msn saying that since my friend doesn't like him, he's not going to be online much anymore, and he seemed really upset... he's a sweet guy, nothing like the losers she has gone after before... but he signed off right after sending me that message, so i didn't have the chance to explain things more clearly... so now i feel really bad, i want him to know that she just isn't right for him, and that he shouldn't feel so bad because things didn't work out... he's a sweet guy and he'll find the right girl eventually... i don't want him to be all depressed about this, because frankly, my friend isn't worth it, at least, not to him.. no person is worth throwing everything away for... i tried emailing him, but my message was returned, he apparantly doesn't use his hotmail account for email, just for chat... so instead of directly telling him what i want to, i figured if people can send some "feel better about yourself" energies and what not, it might be good for him...