Love Magick

[DarkHeart13]

Okay, I need a little help writing a ritual. See, I am only 15. My boyfriend is 16. We are young, but I believe I know what love is and I believe he does too. I have gone through a lot of pain my whole life and so has he. I've been raped, lost most of my family, been in hospitals for overdosing, cutting, etc. He's been in hospitals too. He's had drug problems and just about gone through everything. So even though we are so young, I feel we know what love really is because of what we have went through. It's not the same type of relationship most teenagers would have.

I have major trust issues with people, yet for some reason I trust him. Yet I'm still afraid to lose him. And he is afraid of losing me too. He told my friend yesterday that he doesn't want to get his heart broken, which is why he is afraid to get into a relationship with me. (We're friends with a burning love I guess you could say). But he said he would never look for another girl. I am the one he loves and my friend said he started crying.

I want to do something to let him know that he can trust me and that I will never leave him, that I will help him in any way that I can. Telling him is not enough. I have done everything I know to do mundanely. I feel it's time I ask Godde for help now. So does anyone have any ideas on how to go about writing this ritual? What correspondences and such I should use? I need your help. I don't want to screw anything up. I'm trying to be really careful. I'm not trying to make him love me. He already does. I just want him to somehow know for sure how exactly I feel about him.

I really appreciate your help. Thanks.

[semi]

Why is telling him not enough? Telling him and showing him in your actions should be enough, in my opinion. Also, I don't think you can get someone to trust you by doing anything other than being trustworthy. It's the other person's choice to trust or not. A lot of people tell each other a lot of things, like how much they love a person, and sometimes these declarations are insincere. There isn't really much of a way to be certain except to trust your instincts. He has to reach a point where he can trust himself, his instincts, to make the right choices. If you are doing all you can to show how much you love him, I'd say it's up to him now. Good luck.

[DarkHeart13]

Why is telling him not enough? Telling him and showing him in your actions should be enough, in my opinion. Also, I don't think you can get someone to trust you by doing anything other than being trustworthy. It's the other person's choice to trust or not. A lot of people tell each other a lot of things, like how much they love a person, and sometimes these declarations are insincere. There isn't really much of a way to be certain except to trust your instincts. He has to reach a point where he can trust himself, his instincts, to make the right choices. If you are doing all you can to show how much you love him, I'd say it's up to him now. Good luck.

Hey. I accidently made another thread for this. When I sent this one it said the website wasn't responding so I thought it didn't send and I had to rewrite everything. lol. Well, I know he believes me. That's not it. I only want in this ritual for him to receieve this feeling of undying love and trust from me. And for him to become more open with how he feels.

[Teresa]

Have You thought about doing a ritual for yourself to open you up to more love and inner healing? Some of the things you have stated sound like You still have some healing and some dealing to do first. You have to make peace with yourself first and learn to love yourself before you can move on to others. If not there will be ssome rocky times ahead. Take a few minutes and think about it before you say that you don't need to. I had a rough childhood too and for some years denied that I needed the inner healing until all "You know what" broke loose.


Write a poem for him and a ritual for yourself =)

[arianrhods_daughter]

I responded to your other thread feel free to PM me if you have any questions

[DarkHeart13]

Have You thought about doing a ritual for yourself to open you up to more love and inner healing? Some of the things you have stated sound like You still have some healing and some dealing to do first. You have to make peace with yourself first and learn to love yourself before you can move on to others. If not there will be ssome rocky times ahead. Take a few minutes and think about it before you say that you don't need to. I had a rough childhood too and for some years denied that I needed the inner healing until all "You know what" broke loose.


Write a poem for him and a ritual for yourself =)

Hey there. Yes, I have thought about doing a ritual for myself. I wanted this one to be a well-thought out, long kind of deal. I wanted to make this ritual out for the both of us actually...like at the same time. That's why I was asking for all the help. It will take a while for me to get just right. About the loving myself before I can love others part...Well I do love myself. I have made plenty of mistakes and I am still paying for them. But aside from those mistakes, I am happy with the person I am. I really do like my personality. I still know I do need to heal though. And I write poems for him all the time. He loves them. lol. Thanks for the help.

[OnyxStar]

Maybe you should invite him to share the ritual with you. Just the act of doing magick together will give you a stronger relationship.