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DocBruce
April 28th, 2006, 10:53 AM
Due to the amount of bullshit and harrassment from my in-laws, I have had to erase my myspace account.

And sooner or later, they're going to remember that I post here, so I'm afraid I have to leave.

It's the only way I can think of to keep the bullshit from starting here and keep the heat off of everyone.

I don't want to do this, but I can't think of anything else to do.

I'll miss you guys, I truly love it here.

I'm sorry.

Goodbye.

Edit: sorry, it double posted on me.

tarotgirljess
April 28th, 2006, 11:05 AM
darlin you don't need to run away. If and when they remember you post here if they strat any trouble Good ol Mol with have his way with them and ban them.
At the most you could change your name to a less identifying one and refrain from some details from your life. But I don't see why you should hide. This is one place where posters can handle their own. Your in laws can go pound sand. you stay.
Jess

LostSheep
April 28th, 2006, 11:05 AM
:foh:

what the...?

don't go ......

yeah, TGJ is right ... surely if it comes to that, you could change yoyur username...?

Kalika
April 28th, 2006, 11:10 AM
_pounce_

We'll miss you DB. Hopefully you will find your way back.

WitchJezebel
April 28th, 2006, 11:12 AM
That just sucks DB, hope you can come back to us soon.

Psycmoe
April 28th, 2006, 11:13 AM
darlin you don't need to run away. If and when they remember you post here if they strat any trouble Good ol Mol with have his way with them and ban them.
At the most you could change your name to a less identifying one and refrain from some details from your life. But I don't see why you should hide. This is one place where posters can handle their own. Your in laws can go pound sand. you stay.
Jess

Exactly. MW is an online community that understands community = family. One of ours, and the protection that comes with that.

Amythyst
April 28th, 2006, 11:17 AM
I know what it's like to have nasty in-laws. I feel for you. But they really have no right to control your life. I finally told mine to take a flying leap. It's been almost two years since I've seen them. Best thing I ever did.

I don't know anything about your situation, but I'm having a hard time understanding why a grown man's private activities could be controlled as though he were a child?

No offense meant.

merlo
April 28th, 2006, 11:22 AM
People would really want to come here causing havoc? hmmph. brave souls indeed.

NiftyWings
April 28th, 2006, 11:36 AM
You can also set your MySpace account to "private", and report anybody that's harrassing you. What exactly are they doing? Maybe we can come up with more suggestions.

CoolJ
April 28th, 2006, 11:37 AM
There are ways around the harassment... take heed to the others' advice

phoenixblayze
April 28th, 2006, 12:26 PM
:wah: we dont want you to go, but do what you must.

Brenda
April 28th, 2006, 12:29 PM
:hugz: :hugz:

Earthy
April 28th, 2006, 12:48 PM
Oh no! I've missed him.
Bro..I love you :hugz:

Childof_theMorrigan
April 28th, 2006, 12:54 PM
as others have said, there may be other options, don't count us out just yet! we really would like you to stay... :hugz:

amakaliani
April 28th, 2006, 02:09 PM
Doc, you know you have all the evil women at your disposal, I am sure ythat I can speak for them as of now..........they more than likely will agree with me.......please stay, let us help you.

candle to you, friend

Penthesilea
April 28th, 2006, 02:48 PM
When he calls me, and he will, we will figure something out and get him back here. Personally, if his in-laws try to make trouble for ME, I'll be taking legal action so fast they'd get whiplash!! I'm having a really bad day and I would dearly love to remove someone's throat right now.

Bethra
April 28th, 2006, 02:56 PM
Penth tell him to phone me when you hear from him would you. He has my phone number and has called me a couple of times. Just tell him to give me a yell either phone or yahoo IM. Doc if you're listerning phone me you idjet :p

amakaliani
April 28th, 2006, 02:57 PM
you got us on the backup angle for the craft side..........

Penthesilea
April 28th, 2006, 03:01 PM
I know that he lurks and there are two guests reading this right now. Doc, I know you can't get me right now 'cause I'm online. Call Bethra if you can. :hugz:

DragonMom
April 28th, 2006, 05:45 PM
I don't know anything about your situation, but I'm having a hard time understanding why a grown man's private activities could be controlled as though he were a child?

None taken, I'm sure. For those who haven't been following the BS...
http://www.mysticwicks.com/showthread.php?t=128474&page=15

I haven't been on my own myspace acct for a few days, & he's already deleted his. We're both thoroughly sick of the whole mess. Frankly I'm probably deleting my myspace too. I haven't talked to any of my relatives in 2 days... except for my real sister, good riddance. :grrrrr: Doc just doesn't want them following him here.

amakaliani
April 28th, 2006, 05:59 PM
None taken, I'm sure. For those who haven't been following the BS...
http://www.mysticwicks.com/showthread.php?t=128474&page=15

I haven't been on my own myspace acct for a few days, & he's already deleted his. We're both thoroughly sick of the whole mess. Frankly I'm probably deleting my myspace too. I haven't talked to any of my relatives in 2 days... except for my real sister, good riddance. :grrrrr: Doc just doesn't want them following him here.
we got your back, dear. that is all i need to say.

Deranged Hermit
April 28th, 2006, 06:14 PM
You just send em to me, DragonMom! I am the Deranged Hermit, after all. :meanface:
Seriously though, I hope you guys can work it out so you can stay. We'd all sure hate to lose you. :dis: :awwman:

amakaliani
April 28th, 2006, 06:22 PM
You just send em to me, DragonMom! I am the Deranged Hermit, after all. :meanface:
Seriously though, I hope you guys can work it out so you can stay. We'd all sure hate to lose you. :dis: :awwman:
here, here!!

Ceres
April 28th, 2006, 07:32 PM
I went and read the other thread and I am still confused. That doesnt mean much...sometimes things pass me by. :lol:

smckim
April 28th, 2006, 07:44 PM
Due to the amount of bullshit and harrassment from my in-laws, I have had to erase my myspace account.

And sooner or later, they're going to remember that I post here, so I'm afraid I have to leave.

It's the only way I can think of to keep the bullshit from starting here and keep the heat off of everyone.

I don't want to do this, but I can't think of anything else to do.

I'll miss you guys, I truly love it here.

I'm sorry.

Goodbye.

Edit: sorry, it double posted on me.
Doc, Don't do this!!! DON'T LET THEM WIN!!!!

smckim
April 28th, 2006, 07:48 PM
None taken, I'm sure. For those who haven't been following the BS...
http://www.mysticwicks.com/showthread.php?t=128474&page=15

I haven't been on my own myspace acct for a few days, & he's already deleted his. We're both thoroughly sick of the whole mess. Frankly I'm probably deleting my myspace too. I haven't talked to any of my relatives in 2 days... except for my real sister, good riddance. :grrrrr: Doc just doesn't want them following him here.
Let them do it!! MOL WILL BAN THEM!!! if they start ANY crap here!! And we
can all put them on ignore! PLEASE think it over, the three of you guys! STAY
DON"T LET THEM WIN !!! Don't let them take things like this away from you!!

Philosophia
April 28th, 2006, 07:49 PM
:hugz: Stay here, please. Screw what they think and if they follow you here, we'll protect and defend you.
You and DragonMom are part of this family and I think you're wonderful. So please, stay...

Trithemius
April 28th, 2006, 07:58 PM
Due to the amount of bullshit and harrassment from my in-laws, I have had to erase my myspace account.

And sooner or later, they're going to remember that I post here, so I'm afraid I have to leave.

It's the only way I can think of to keep the bullshit from starting here and keep the heat off of everyone.

I don't want to do this, but I can't think of anything else to do.

I'll miss you guys, I truly love it here.

I'm sorry.

Goodbye.

Well, I finally got caught up on what this is all about, and all I can say is - So what if they follow you here? The admins aren't going to let them start any crap. Don't let them drive you away.

smckim
April 28th, 2006, 08:08 PM
DOC, DRAGONMOM, ATALA
DON'T LEAVE MYSTIC WICKS!!!
This is one place where they can't hurt you!! This is your home, we are all your family, and we are all here for you always!!:hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

Evendusk
April 28th, 2006, 08:11 PM
DB,

By leaving here you are letting your in-laws reactions control you. Change your name if you need to but don't give up such a supportive community.
Good luck.

Lorrie
April 28th, 2006, 08:51 PM
Doc, you know you have all the evil women at your disposal, I am sure ythat I can speak for them as of now..........they more than likely will agree with me.......please stay, let us help you.

candle to you, friend



I do agree also!!!!! But I also understand protecting your family. Whatever you do, we are behind all of you and hoping it will all work out soon!

Philosophia
April 28th, 2006, 08:53 PM
I do agree also!!!!! But I also understand protecting your family. Whatever you do, we are behind all of you and hoping it will all work out soon!

Yep, I'm in! :hugz::cheers:

Lorrie
April 28th, 2006, 08:55 PM
None taken, I'm sure. For those who haven't been following the BS...
http://www.mysticwicks.com/showthread.php?t=128474&page=15

I haven't been on my own myspace acct for a few days, & he's already deleted his. We're both thoroughly sick of the whole mess. Frankly I'm probably deleting my myspace too. I haven't talked to any of my relatives in 2 days... except for my real sister, good riddance. :grrrrr: Doc just doesn't want them following him here.



Hang in there, hope it will get better for all of you soon! We are here for all of you if you need us. We are behind you 100%!

amakaliani
April 28th, 2006, 08:56 PM
good deal......I am waiting for official go ahead.....if they need anything, I intend to make sure that they at least have the energy to deal with this....

Lorrie
April 28th, 2006, 09:06 PM
good deal......I am waiting for official go ahead.....if they need anything, I intend to make sure that they at least have the energy to deal with this....



Yes, I hate to see them leave when they need us the most, all we can do for now is make sure the energy and strength is there for them.

materra
April 28th, 2006, 10:13 PM
As you know, I don't hang out with you guys alot, but....I always enjoy much of what I read from you. Doc Bruce, I would also miss your contributions to our internet home. Please reconsider leaving; let the admins do that voodoo they do so well.. and stay. Please.

Boogins
April 29th, 2006, 12:40 AM
Stay! You can be protected here!

Little Billy
April 29th, 2006, 12:41 AM
Due to the amount of bullshit and harrassment from my in-laws, I have had to erase my myspace account.

And sooner or later, they're going to remember that I post here, so I'm afraid I have to leave.

It's the only way I can think of to keep the bullshit from starting here and keep the heat off of everyone.

I don't want to do this, but I can't think of anything else to do.

I'll miss you guys, I truly love it here.

I'm sorry.

Goodbye.

Edit: sorry, it double posted on me.


GET BACK IN HERE!

Let those chumps come looking for you. We'll make the bastards' eyes bleed.

Little Billy,
Would LOVE to meet them. :viking:

Fire's Shadow
April 29th, 2006, 12:52 AM
He's right Doc, we'd prolly eat them alive. http://forum.chip.co.id/images/smilies/extra/chomp.gif


http://forum.chip.co.id/images/smilies/extra/shake.gif

Little Billy
April 29th, 2006, 12:57 AM
He's right Doc, we'd prolly eat them alive. http://forum.chip.co.id/images/smilies/extra/chomp.gif


http://forum.chip.co.id/images/smilies/extra/shake.gif

Probably, my ass.

LB,
Will unleash the fury.

Fire's Shadow
April 29th, 2006, 01:00 AM
Probably, my ass.

LB,
Will unleash the fury.

I was referring to the community as a whole, jerk. :rant:

You do it all then if they show up, since you're so gung ho about it. >:P

Little Billy
April 29th, 2006, 01:00 AM
I was referring to the community as a whole, jerk. :rant:

You do it all then if they show up, since you're so gung ho about it. >:P


You want your goat back? :santasmil

Fire's Shadow
April 29th, 2006, 01:02 AM
You want your goat back? :santasmil

What goat? :awilly: I thought the animal control took him away. It turns out I was allowed to feed it whiskey.

Penthesilea
May 1st, 2006, 08:14 AM
I miss Doc. :sadeyes:

Lunacie
May 1st, 2006, 09:26 AM
I miss Doc. :sadeyes:

Me too. I hope he can figure out a way to handle the situation with the family so that he can come back again. But mostly so that he won't be stuck with such a rotten situation in the first place.

Akhkharu Asgard
May 2nd, 2006, 03:04 AM
It turns out I was allowed to feed it whiskey.

You were?

Tentasticle
May 4th, 2006, 02:18 PM
Due to the amount of bullshit and harrassment from my in-laws, I have had to erase my myspace account.

And sooner or later, they're going to remember that I post here, so I'm afraid I have to leave.

It's the only way I can think of to keep the bullshit from starting here and keep the heat off of everyone.

I don't want to do this, but I can't think of anything else to do.

I'll miss you guys, I truly love it here.

I'm sorry.

Goodbye.

Edit: sorry, it double posted on me.

**** that.

You, Sir, are not going ****ing anywhere. You should know by now that you have EXCEPTIONAL backup, here, there, or anywhere.

Just let us know ;)

I've had to put up with EXACTLY the same grief from small-minded ****s who are incapable of understanding that MARRIED != STRAIGHT and that a relationship can, does and will work with more than two people.

I'm sure I'm going to ****ing LOVE what the profanity filter does to this.

EDIT: W00t.

Bethra
May 4th, 2006, 02:25 PM
hug that.

You, Sir, are not going huging anywhere. You should know by now that you EXCEPTIONAL backup, here, there, or anywhere.

Just let us know ;)

I've had to put up with EXACTLY the same grief from small-minded ****s who are incapable of understanding that MARRIED != STRAIGHT and that a relationship can, does and will work with more than two people.

I'm sure I'm going to huging LOVE what the profanity filter does to this.

EDIT: W00t.

rah agreed :viking:

Fire's Shadow
May 4th, 2006, 03:23 PM
You were?

Yup! He took it away though because we didn't have enough land. You should see the Alabama laws. Our constitution hasn't been updated for over a century.

FOR INSTANCE! the wealthiest one percent of Alabamians pay about 4% of their income in state taxes, while the poorest fifth of our citizens pay nearly 11%! Also, Alabama families begin paying income taxes after just $4,600 in earnings, the lowest threshold in the nation. By contrast, Mississippi does not begin collecting income tax until a family makes more than $19,000 in a year.


But this thread isn't about pet goats or Alabama law. It's about convincing DocBruce to come back.

Deranged Hermit
May 4th, 2006, 03:43 PM
Yup! He took it away though because we didn't have enough land. You should see the Alabama laws. Our constitution hasn't been updated for over a century.

FOR INSTANCE! the wealthiest one percent of Alabamians pay about 4% of their income in state taxes, while the poorest fifth of our citizens pay nearly 11%! Also, Alabama families begin paying income taxes after just $4,600 in earnings, the lowest threshold in the nation. By contrast, Mississippi does not begin collecting income tax until a family makes more than $19,000 in a year.


But this thread isn't about pet goats or Alabama law. It's about convincing DocBruce to come back.


But that's the kind of stuff he's missing out on if he doesn't come back. :sniffsnif

Penthesilea
May 4th, 2006, 06:57 PM
Doc will come back when he feels he can. Not before. No amount of "convincing" will change his mind. Only a change in his Real Life situation will do that.

Tentasticle
May 4th, 2006, 09:08 PM
Doc will come back when he feels he can. Not before. No amount of "convincing" will change his mind. Only a change in his Real Life situation will do that.

I disagree. Doc hasn't gone because he feels he can't post here, he's run away because he fears what MIGHT happen. There is absolutely NOTHING stopping him posting here RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW.

Is there, Doc?

Fire's Shadow
May 4th, 2006, 09:42 PM
Doc will come back when he feels he can. Not before. No amount of "convincing" will change his mind. Only a change in his Real Life situation will do that.

:(

I was only hoping that he'd view the thread, and see that we cared enough about him that he could still feel safe here. I think there is a level of protection MW would offer him. I'm sure the admins wouldn't mind banning any family members who try to join up here to throw stones at him.

Lunacie
May 5th, 2006, 09:02 PM
Doc will come back when he feels he can. Not before. No amount of "convincing" will change his mind. Only a change in his Real Life situation will do that.

Or a change in his attitude and the way he deals with the situation...

If nothing we say makes any difference at all, then he wasn't as much a part of this community as I thought he was. http://mysticwicks.com/images/icons/icon9.gif

wooleybob
May 8th, 2006, 08:35 AM
Damn..Just came across this..Hey Doc..Dont leave..Give me a call or I'll call you..Take care Bro..

SilverClaw
May 8th, 2006, 10:58 AM
Hey Doc and Dragonmom you will be missed, hope things turn around for you soon.

johenn123
May 8th, 2006, 03:30 PM
maybe if you get bs off them you should tell mol, I mean he has a bs detector.

NiftyWings
May 8th, 2006, 03:33 PM
I vote for a pre-emptive strike.....what's their phone number and email addresses??

:deviltail

Aleannah
May 8th, 2006, 03:46 PM
DB, I don't know you very well at all, but I do know that you are loved and respected in this community. I also know that we as a community take care of our own. I completely understand that you don't want to bring trouble to this community that you love, but we have handled trouble before, and we can do it again. We have one rule...Respect. Let them come here and disrespect you, DM or anyone else. They will be dealt with accordingly. Don't let them determine your way of life. :hugz:

smckim
May 8th, 2006, 06:36 PM
Or a change in his attitude and the way he deals with the situation...

If nothing we say makes any difference at all, then he wasn't as much a part of this community as I thought he was. http://mysticwicks.com/images/icons/icon9.gif

Excuse me! Doc, DragonMom, and Atala, are an important part of this community, Doc and DragonMom have been members here for a while and
have become like family to some members here! I think we need to RESPECT
Doc's decision, even if some of us don't agree with it. One thing I'm sure we
can all agree on, is that they will all be missed very much during their absence on
MW, and we hope they will return soon. I'm sure that when Doc feels that the
time is right, they will be back. Until then I think we all need to send them all
the love and positive energy that we can, every day.

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 06:45 PM
Excuse me! Doc, DragonMom, and Atala, are an important part of this community, Doc and DragonMom have been members here for a while and
have become like family to some members here! I think we need to RESPECT
Doc's decision, even if some of us don't agree with it. One thing I'm sure we
can all agree on, is that they will all be missed very much during their absence
MW, and we hope they will return soon. I'm sure that when Doc feels that the
time is right, they will be back. Until then I think we all need to send them all
the love and positive energy that we can, every day.



This IS a sanctuary.

If you're not safe here, where can you be?

Lunacie
May 8th, 2006, 07:12 PM
Excuse me! Doc, DragonMom, and Atala, are an important part of this community, Doc and DragonMom have been members here for a while and
have become like family to some members here! I think we need to RESPECT
Doc's decision, even if some of us don't agree with it. One thing I'm sure we
can all agree on, is that they will all be missed very much during their absence on
MW, and we hope they will return soon. I'm sure that when Doc feels that the
time is right, they will be back. Until then I think we all need to send them all
the love and positive energy that we can, every day.

I have offered my support, love and positive energy, and I do respect Doc's decision. I, along with others in this thread, have been pointing out that there may be other ways of viewing this situation, and other ways of dealing with it. Offering our thoughts and opinions is one way of showing our support. If we didn't care, we wouldn't be bothering to think of possible solutions, eh?

Penthesilea
May 8th, 2006, 08:01 PM
I disagree. Doc hasn't gone because he feels he can't post here, he's run away because he fears what MIGHT happen. There is absolutely NOTHING stopping him posting here RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW.

Is there, Doc?Doc calls you friend. For that reason and that reason only, I'll let him deal with what you have said here in private. I've no doubt that Doc will see what is posted here as will DragonMom and Atala if they haven't already seen it. Negative comments posted here do no good except maybe -- never mind. To say what I'm thinking wouldn't be "respectful". What I will say is this: if you can't be supportive and therefore respectful of Doc's decision -- shut up. You aren't helping.

Little Billy
May 8th, 2006, 08:02 PM
Doc calls you friend. For that reason and that reason only, I'll let him deal with what you have said here in private. I've no doubt that Doc will see what is posted here as will DragonMom and Atala if they haven't already seen it. Negative comments posted here do no good except maybe -- never mind. To say what I'm thinking wouldn't be "respectful". What I will say is this: if you can't be supportive and therefore respectful of Doc's decision -- shut up. You aren't helping.

http://poee.co.uk/boards/images/smiles/mittens.gif

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 08:09 PM
http://poee.co.uk/boards/images/smiles/mittens.gif


Capital decision!

*pulls up lawnchair*

Lunacie
May 8th, 2006, 08:12 PM
Okay, I know that you folks love Doc Bruce and the womenfolk and miss them being around here. But dammit! Disagreement doesn't necesarrily equal disrespect. Maybe some of our posts seem out of line because we don't know the whole situation, but that's no reason to give us the back of your hand for trying to be helpful (in our own 'tough love' kinda way).

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 08:23 PM
Okay, I know that you folks love Doc Bruce and the womenfolk and miss them being around here. But dammit! Disagreement doesn't necesarrily equal disrespect. Maybe some of our posts seem out of line because we don't know the whole situation, but that's no reason to give us the back of your hand for trying to be helpful (in our own 'tough love' kinda way).



I personally have no clue WTF is going on. Nor do I want to. This is a disagreement among some people on a PUBLIC board. If people want to make a spectacle of themselves....it's public property, and all the criticism that goes with that.

*:boing: Exactly who's side am I on again?*:boing:

Jenne
May 8th, 2006, 08:25 PM
Capital decision!

*pulls up lawnchair*

He he...those are mittens, not slugfest gloves.

Lunacie
May 8th, 2006, 08:30 PM
Capital decision!

*pulls up lawnchair*

*puts away soapbox and gets out lawnchair*

Hey, Merlo, want a cookie?

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 08:38 PM
*puts away soapbox and gets out lawnchair*

Hey, Merlo, want a cookie?


Now that's the spirit!!!!!!



Are you sure you're a stranger? 'cause that's something I'm NOT supposed to do....accept gifts from strangers. but what flavor you got? not macidamia nut from subway? It would take two, anyway....

*holds breath*

Little Billy
May 8th, 2006, 09:05 PM
Capital decision!

*pulls up lawnchair*

Them are mittens, son, not boxing gloves.

LB,
Isn't going to esplain this to anymore unwashed heathens.

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 09:16 PM
Them are mittens, son, not boxing gloves.

LB,
Isn't going to esplain this to anymore unwashed heathens.



When conflict is unresolved, sometimes it's best to come to a boil. Then the healing process starts. Somebody do something. now.

'cause I have my own drama, and I come here for fun.


me/////drama=war. that's my nature. I'm not happy about it, so keep it to yourself, or resolve it on your own.



*opens cooler and asks the lawnchair people if they need anything*

Little Billy
May 8th, 2006, 09:21 PM
When conflict is unresolved, sometimes it's best to come to a boil. Then the healing process starts. Somebody do something. now.

'cause I have my own drama, and I come here for fun.


me/////drama=war. that's my nature. I'm not happy about it, so keep it to yourself, or resolve it on your own.



*opens cooler and asks the lawnchair people if they need anything*

I'll have a gram of whatever you had before you typed that. :santasmil

LB,
Has no idea what you were attempting to say.

Cynyr
May 8th, 2006, 09:27 PM
If you're old enough to have inlaws, you're old enough to peruse forums responsibly without having to answer to anyone!! Your Inlaws?? I could understand your spouse - maybe - but your Inlaws - get some balls!!

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 09:47 PM
Very Good!

Shamanism is such an underated pastime.

You'd get &^^%$% by a gram of this. 'Cause it's not for sale.

Still want some? I'll GIVE you some.....

Lunacie
May 8th, 2006, 10:19 PM
Now that's the spirit!!!!!!



Are you sure you're a stranger? 'cause that's something I'm NOT supposed to do....accept gifts from strangers. but what flavor you got? not macidamia nut from subway? It would take two, anyway....

*holds breath*

Yep, white chocolate chip-macadamia nut. Homemade of course. Whatcha got in that cooler that would taste good with 'em?

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 10:39 PM
Yep, white chocolate chip-macadamia nut. Homemade of course. Whatcha got in that cooler that would taste good with 'em?


Virtual cooler. Whatya want? We have chicken breasts and ribeyes marinating (it's a big cooler) Zima's, Petrone, Blavod, of course...merlot.. coke and pepsi, dr pepper, Xfactor, some euros, 10 pounds of ice.

Bubba has the naked college girls and the crown royal. Ned has the seado and the boogie board.

Why, what you got?

Little Billy
May 8th, 2006, 10:43 PM
If you're old enough to have inlaws, you're old enough to peruse forums responsibly without having to answer to anyone!! Your Inlaws?? I could understand your spouse - maybe - but your Inlaws - get some balls!!

http://poee.co.uk/boards/images/smiles/wanker.gif

Little Billy
May 8th, 2006, 10:44 PM
Very Good!

Shamanism is such an underated pastime.

You'd get &^^%$% by a gram of this. 'Cause it's not for sale.

Still want some? I'll GIVE you some.....

Or kill me.

Lorrie
May 8th, 2006, 10:45 PM
Whoa, people, this is getting a little out of hand here! OK, I don't know all of the reasons that they have decided to stay away for a while, but I am sure that they feel this is what is best right now and would want us to respect that. When things permit, they will be back and I'm sure will explain why! Yes, they are all our friends, and that is the reason that we should respect their feelings and judgements! They know the whole story, we DON'T, lets just trust that they are doing what is right. They know by now how we all feel and that we miss them, lets just support their decision and them, if we are their true friends, then shouldn't we just be standing behind them for support? That is what they need the most right now. Our thoughts, energies, our support.

merlo
May 8th, 2006, 11:09 PM
Hey, anyone need anything?



*ponders getting naked and jumping in the river, although, lawn chair offers the best view*

Lorrie
May 8th, 2006, 11:12 PM
*ponders getting naked and jumping in the river, although, lawn chair offers the best view*[/QUOTE]



I sure hope the water where you are is warmer than it is here!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Amythyst
May 9th, 2006, 09:57 AM
I've been reading and rereading some of the posts on this thread and I may be a bit dense but I still don't understand how a grown man could be that afraid of his in-laws.

If they are harrassing him, then legally, wouldn't they be the ones in trouble?

smckim
May 9th, 2006, 10:09 AM
Ok... Again... there is alot more involved here, than just a usual argument
with your in-laws type of thing. It is for that reason, that it has been stressed
that we all just trust Doc in the choice he has made and support him in a
POSITIVE way NOT criticize him and sling nasty remarks his way. We as members of a community should support a member when they need it, not
question why. Anyway, his friends here all support him and are there for him
and anyone else... well hey what goes around comes around.

Sitalique
May 9th, 2006, 10:23 AM
I support Doc on whatever reason he has for not coming here.

Maybe it would've been best if he just said he had to take a sbatical (sp?) for a bit and not given as much info as he did?

I've seen other posts of people that were gonna be gone for a while that didn't get the response this thread has. So maybe the key for anyone in the future making a farewell post (whether they intend to come back or not) is not to say anything more than it's for personal reasons.

Just my take on things. Again, he has my support and hope that he's able to come back someday. :hugz:

NiftyWings
May 9th, 2006, 10:37 AM
If you're old enough to have inlaws, you're old enough to peruse forums responsibly without having to answer to anyone!! Your Inlaws?? I could understand your spouse - maybe - but your Inlaws - get some balls!!


:jawdrop: DAY-UM!! Who pissed in your Wheaties this morning? We all may or may not agree with his decision, but this is totally uncalled for.

Xentor
May 9th, 2006, 10:39 AM
Admin mode

Cynyr, put a lid on it. This is the helping hands and hugs forum. You're not helping nor hugging.

Kalika
May 9th, 2006, 10:40 AM
Hey, anyone need anything?



*ponders getting naked and jumping in the river, although, lawn chair offers the best view*

:lol:

Excellent distraction tactic.

Lunacie
May 9th, 2006, 12:44 PM
Admin mode

Cynyr, put a lid on it. This is the helping hands and hugs forum. You're not helping nor hugging.

It is?

It looks like it's posted in "Just Talk" to me.

Anyone who feels like someone is being disrespectful/rude/breaking the rule should click on the 'report' button.

Xentor
May 9th, 2006, 01:21 PM
It is?

It looks like it's posted in "Just Talk" to me.

Anyone who feels like someone is being disrespectful/rude/breaking the rule should click on the 'report' button.
It is. Someone did.

Penthesilea
May 9th, 2006, 02:05 PM
Yeah, this is where this thread belongs. Doc would never ask for help but that doesn't mean that we can't hug him anyway.

BlueMoon13
May 9th, 2006, 02:25 PM
.....trust Doc in the choice he has made and support him in a
POSITIVE way.....
:cheers:

smckim
May 9th, 2006, 03:44 PM
:hugz: :hugz: :hugz: Doc, DragonMom, Atala, and Kids! Positive energy, and Bright Blessings to you all. Do What You Will :cheers:

amakaliani
May 9th, 2006, 03:58 PM
Doc, May the blessings of KaliMai be upon you and yours, all of yours. We love you Doc, and family. We support you, and we are here for you, brother!

Tentasticle
May 9th, 2006, 04:10 PM
Doc calls you friend. For that reason and that reason only, I'll let him deal with what you have said here in private. I've no doubt that Doc will see what is posted here as will DragonMom and Atala if they haven't already seen it. Negative comments posted here do no good except maybe -- never mind. To say what I'm thinking wouldn't be "respectful". What I will say is this: if you can't be supportive and therefore respectful of Doc's decision -- shut up. You aren't helping.

Yes, he does call me friend - that's why I get to be completely frank with him, and he gets to be completely frank with me. He knows exactly what I'm saying there, and he understands completely.

EDIT: In fact he just told me exactly that not two minutes ago.

Penthesilea
May 9th, 2006, 04:54 PM
Yes, he does call me friend - that's why I get to be completely frank with him, and he gets to be completely frank with me. He knows exactly what I'm saying there, and he understands completely.

EDIT: In fact he just told me exactly that not two minutes ago.Then I have nothing to add.

Lunacie
May 9th, 2006, 04:55 PM
Hmmm, I can't seem to stay away from this train wreck. :wth:

It would be nice to know if Doc Bruce also feels that our honest opinions are misplaced and disrespectful.

Cynyr
May 9th, 2006, 08:14 PM
Admin mode

Cynyr, put a lid on it. This is the helping hands and hugs forum. You're not helping nor hugging.


LOL - Jus hav'n ah bit O fun ye no - IN the Lord of course, A weeee mahn afeared O de inlaws. Nutin makes me sicker. Okay - nuf said. I think my mom's calling me to take a bath. see ya - :blushake: :blushake: :blushake:

Cynyr
May 9th, 2006, 08:20 PM
DocBruce,

Ya know I thought you were kidding us and sh** and well, Okay hugs and kisses baby, I hope it gets alll better and I meand that in the Lord.

:broomride

Atala Syracuse
May 11th, 2006, 05:26 PM
Hmmm, I can't seem to stay away from this train wreck. :wth:

It would be nice to know if Doc Bruce also feels that our honest opinions are misplaced and disrespectful.
Some may be misplaced, but only by those who don't know/understand the entire situation. I don't feel that anything said here has been completely disrespectful, but then again I'm NOT easy to offend. I only ask that the in-laws not be refured to as out-laws. We like out-laws, we are out-laws, so... It would be more helpful if everyone could consentrate their energies on us getting the new house! They can't hit what the can't find!

amakaliani
May 11th, 2006, 09:03 PM
Some may be misplaced, but only by those who don't know/understand the entire situation. I don't feel that anything said here has been completely disrespectful, but then again I'm NOT easy to offend. I only ask that the in-laws not be refured to as out-laws. We like out-laws, we are out-laws, so... It would be more helpful if everyone could consentrate their energies on us getting the new house! They can't hit what the can't find!
you got it, Atala!