Jessica
May 3rd, 2006, 07:12 AM
I was wonder if anyone has any experiences with using spells and ritual to help heal oneself from past sexual abuse and used binding magic on dangerous people (ie: the abuser).
As a young child, I was sexually harrassed and abused by a family member a few years older than me. I worked through this situation, however I was recently (5 or so months ago) in a relationship where I was mentally and sexually abused by my boyfriend (of two years), and it's opened up a whole new can of worms for me. I'm out of that relationship, working hard on getting myself on track in life and working hard at Uni (and I'll admit... a little stressed out).
Every time I am at the point where I feel I have finally moving on from my recent past, somehow he finds his way back into it. It's in a way that I can't really get a restraining order on it, but it's enough to effect my life and eventually I think it will effect my new relationship.
He is a dangerous person, serious anger problems that he can't manage... very emotionally unstable, violent and very good at manipulating people to his own use. He is currently "in love" with one of my friends, and is harrassing and stalking her. He has gotten to the point where his best friends are calling her and telling her to change her numbers, be careful and stay away from him because he is unstable, and dangerous. It seems more than just I admit this, but no one wants to back me up when I go to the authorities about it.
I'm at my wits end with it at the momment, and my mind has been turning to the idea of binding, and self healing to help the situation. I'm not new to magic or ritual, but I would like to hear from anyone who has been through any like this and use magic to help things along, and their experience. (PM is fine if no one wants to reply publicly)
Also, I have been researching binding and gathering information on it (as it is nothing I have needed before), and any websites or information anyone could share would be most appreciated.
As a young child, I was sexually harrassed and abused by a family member a few years older than me. I worked through this situation, however I was recently (5 or so months ago) in a relationship where I was mentally and sexually abused by my boyfriend (of two years), and it's opened up a whole new can of worms for me. I'm out of that relationship, working hard on getting myself on track in life and working hard at Uni (and I'll admit... a little stressed out).
Every time I am at the point where I feel I have finally moving on from my recent past, somehow he finds his way back into it. It's in a way that I can't really get a restraining order on it, but it's enough to effect my life and eventually I think it will effect my new relationship.
He is a dangerous person, serious anger problems that he can't manage... very emotionally unstable, violent and very good at manipulating people to his own use. He is currently "in love" with one of my friends, and is harrassing and stalking her. He has gotten to the point where his best friends are calling her and telling her to change her numbers, be careful and stay away from him because he is unstable, and dangerous. It seems more than just I admit this, but no one wants to back me up when I go to the authorities about it.
I'm at my wits end with it at the momment, and my mind has been turning to the idea of binding, and self healing to help the situation. I'm not new to magic or ritual, but I would like to hear from anyone who has been through any like this and use magic to help things along, and their experience. (PM is fine if no one wants to reply publicly)
Also, I have been researching binding and gathering information on it (as it is nothing I have needed before), and any websites or information anyone could share would be most appreciated.