How to do distance readings??

[Fairyheart]

Hi!

A friend of mine constantly asks me to do a reading for her while we're chatting on msn. I don't know how to do that. Please can someone explain to me how I should go about doing a distance reading for her??

Thank you!!

Fairyheart

[GalenaFaolan]

I found I'm quite good at doing readings over the internet or distance. I'm not sure of exactly how I do it other than I totally rely on my intuition. I seem to be able to pick up a persons "vibes" or something about them that enables me to be dead on when I do a reading. I'm not saying I'm right 100% of the time cause I'm not and I'd be leary of someone who said they were. If I know the person a bit it seems to be easier to clue in on them. Ones I don't know at all I still seem to pick up on somehow.

For me, it just boils down to intuition and going with what feels right. If while I'm reading the cards it "feels" like the truth to me then I go with it. I found second guessing myself definitely leads to a big zero in the accuracy department.

[Cyn]

Well if you don't usually have the questioner shuffle the cards or anything you should do it like you'd do any other reading. If you usually have them shuffle the cards then you'll want to work on doing some readings where you're the only one to make contact with the cards.

When I do readings (whether the questioner is here in person or I'm doing a long distance reading, it's always the same) I shuffle the cards 3 times while asking the question. Then I cut the cards 3 times, with my left hand (if you're left handed then use your right hand), put the deck back together and deal out the cards in whatever spread I've chosen.

You can come up with your own way of shuffling, but maybe that'll give you a starting point. :)

[LisaT4P]

Just take a moment before hand to think about your friend & her question. Shuffle the cards & lay them out. Go through them one at a time, just like you normally would for any other reading.

The only difference is that you are typing the answers, not speaking them. I've actually found this to be an advantage, especially with email readings. You've more time to work out exactly what you want to say.

For phone readings, I will often say to my client "Think about your question & tell me when to stop shuffling" and when they do, I stop & lay out the cards. That gives them a chance to be a part of the reading a little more.

[seastone81]

I find if I just focus on the question and the person from whom it's coming, there's no problem with proximity.

[Fairyheart]

Hey Everyone!

Thank you for replying. That's exactly what I was looking for.
I needed a little nudge in the right direction.


Thank you :kooky: