Two Charts, kindly?

[Ron]

23rd December 1989
19:15 (GMT-4)
Georgetown, Guyana, South America.

16th August 1985
04:00 (GMT-5)
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada.

Any insights would be really appreciated in terms of how these two would astrologically mish-mash.

[KEishin]

Ron, thank you for the very clear information, but just as an FYI Guyana is GMT – 4 and the province of Ontario is GMT –5. I figured out what you meant however, so no foul! :hahugh:

Overall impressions tell me that there is some serious chemistry potential in this partnership, but much of that chemistry may come from passionate debates between the two of you. It stands a fair chance of being long lasting, but could be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster, complete with thrilling ups and dramatic downs, but always a fun ride.

Both of you have Cancer rising and Capricorn on your houses of partnership. You probably met through work or some sort of social function or activity. You’re both sensitive and slow to get to know someone else. It’s probably you’ll both marry late but you are intensely loyal to those you both consider “yours” which is why it can take a while to find the right someone. This other person is looking for a Capricorn for balance, which you, Ron, have to offer – 5 planets in Capricorn – so this is a very positive connection. However with you each having sensitive Cancer rising, when one gets upset the other is quick to follow. You may never admit it to the other, as you want to feel safe before you each let that sort of passionate energy loose.

You have a couple of relational aspects in common; one of the most influential is South Node conjunct Moon. This gives a feeling of instant attraction, great comfort and familiarity to a relationship. You both approach things from the same emotional viewpoint and need the same things to feel secure. There is a lot of safety in this link, but it can cause problems with moving a relationship forward. You may tend to isolate yourselves and only do things together that are familiar instead of trying new activities. Juno conjunct Sun in your composite chart is another indicator you both would be very serious about this relationship, probably trying to make it permanent.

One thing to keep your collective eyes on is a Saturn quincunx Mars aspect between your charts which can cause some major headaches if not nipped in the bud. What this means in application is that there will be plenty of adjustments each of you needs to make. Right off, I’m sure one or the both of you think of this as a serious (Saturn) relationship, not a one-night stand or a summer fling. Emotional connections are great starters but they need to be flexible and adjust to changing conditions without either of you having meltdowns. The problem exists mainly from the other person’s perspective. Over time he or she begins to view you as very stern and serious, which may not actually exist. They may feel boxed in and unable to express themselves because they think you won’t approve or understand where he or she is coming from. The problem is that they can start hiding so much of themselves from your perceived harshness that you both lose touch with each other. What would help for them is to remember how reliable and stable a person you are and that you can each find emotional security if you are honest about your feelings. This “trapped” feeling can go both ways, but it is more likely it will affect the other person more. If you can work on this issue it will draw you even closer.

[Ron]

Thank you very much. I highly appreciate that.

Professional to say the least. Thank you. :hugs:

[KEishin]

Thank you very much. I highly appreciate that.

Professional to say the least. Thank you. :hugs:
You're more than welcome!
(I don't get to do enough volunteer synastry charts, so I appreciate the practice.)