my best friend is missing

[Angelwulfe]

i did'nt think i'd ever post one of these but here goes. my best friend is involved with a 37 yr. old man she's 21. even though it legal her family strongly disagrees with it. any way to make a long story short she ran away and was staying with him last tuesday. i've talked to her since last friday (i was gone over the weekend) her mom told what happened. her mom just called and told me a detective might be calling me to ask questions and that right now she is on the east coast (we're near chicago) against her will, and that she been abused, and possibly raped. i don't know how much of this is true but i'm still really worried none the less. i'm sending her energy and visualizing a safe return. just needed to vent.

[NeoPhoenix]

By the Gods. :( You will keep us informed of any changes won't you? Till then I'll send some positive energy her way. I don't supose you could send me her first name, though? It helps me focus where I want to send the energy.

[Chibi-Fallon]

Man, that sucks. You notice how you never hear of lesbians or gays doing this kind of thing? I hope your friend is fine and her mom is just over-reacting (that's a bad word for what I'm trying to say but I hope you get the idea).

[Angelwulfe]

her name is dorianne.
yeah i hope her mom is just over-reacting too. i'm trying not to. i was just pretty shocked to hear she was that far away. thanks.

[Imagi]

I hope everything turns out okay for your friend and her family. It's hard being that far away, and not knowing what is really going on, and not being able to do much about it either way. I will keep her in my thoughts. Keep us posted.

[Laiste]

Sending positve energy to you and your friend!

[JuNiPeR]

I'll be sending positive energy, please keep us posted

[Myst]

Originally posted by Chibi-Fallon
You notice how you never hear of lesbians or gays doing this kind of thing?

Yeah, only straight people do dumb things, right?

I feel like the mom is overreacting. I hope your friend is ok.

[Sequoia]

I agree. . . I think that comment was inappropriate and somewhat offensive. And you DO hear about it, you just usually have it shushed because people insist that it's "anti-homosexual" behavior.

I hope your friend is found safe and sound. I can only hope it was one of those situations where the girl got sick of her family and left, and the mother is just being a psycho about it. When I'm 21, my boyfriend will be 26. But neither of us have a problem with this, and my parents have come to accept it. Age isn't everything, and if that mother wants her daughter in her life, she's going to have to accept it as well.

But I do hope she's alright, and there's energy coming both of your ways.

[SimplyStrange]

I was just about to say the same thing, Myst. That comment was uncalled for.

Anywho, I really hope your friend is ok. I know we'll all be sending whatever positive energies we can your way. I hope it's all overreaction and upset about lack of communication.

Anyway, we all hope she's ok, and you've got our positive energies.

May your friend return safe.

[Angelwulfe]

Originally posted by Puma Hime

I hope your friend is found safe and sound. I can only hope it was one of those situations where the girl got sick of her family and left, and the mother is just being a psycho about it. When I'm 21, my boyfriend will be 26. But neither of us have a problem with this, and my parents have come to accept it. Age isn't everything, and if that mother wants her daughter in her life, she's going to have to accept it as well.

But I do hope she's alright, and there's energy coming both of your ways.
i totally agree age isn't every thing i'm 18 and shadowulfe is 24. my parents were shocked at first but they quickly got over it, because he's a good guy. any way i think her mom should get over it too. let her daugheter grow up but i don't tell her that because she likes me and i don't want to disrespect her.
i still have'nt heard anything new. i might call her mom today to see if anything else came up, i'm trying to stay calm for now and not worry till i know more thats actual fact.

[flar7]

the only time age makes a difference (IMO) is when it crosses
those legal boundries. I was 23 when I married my exwife, who
was 16 at the time. And just barely 16. Had to have father's
permission. whew!