am I right or wrong?

[johenn123]

It all started when I went out with a guy, it didn't work out, he was clingy etc so i broke up with him. Now a while later i started liking him again and I told him that but he'd moved on, ok fine. Then he found out I had a secret and insisted I told him, he put a "x" at the end of a text which seems small but it's not when you like someone like I did. Eventually I told him, fine.

What's not fine is the fact that he's secretly been sending text messages to my best friend about how much he fancies her and stuff, she kept it secret because she wanted to spare my feelings and stuff and I understand that. But the fact that he forced me to tell him my secret, manipulated me, went on about trust and feelings then went behind my back? (I even told him I wouldnt mind if he went out with people)

Also when I sent him angry texts he decided, well, from the horses mouth:


Wat hav i ever done 2 u personally i think ur bein selfish i went out wit u n u dumped me an d i asked again and u said no and now u cant accept it and i said sorry h8 me if u want but ive got the morale high ground cos i did apologise and i did it because of ur feelins.


I dint want 2 hurt ur feelins by tellin u i was only thinkin of ur feelins but maybe i got i wrong so im soz i dont deserve all this abuse ur givin me cos i was only thinkin bout ur feelins.

now im confused, was I right? Wrong? I just don't get it at all.

[Serendipity]

I'd be confused, too. I can't read what the heck he wrote.

[MysticWitch]

Well you dumped him. I would move on. :hugz:

[johenn123]

i know I did, but I still had strong feelings for him and he knew that. I dunno, i really..

[MysticWitch]

i know I did, but I still had strong feelings for him and he knew that. I dunno, i really..


He obviously isnt interested in hooking back up with you. :foh:
I'm not trying to come off as mean..
Personally if someone hurt my feelings by dumping me, I wouldn't want to get back with them and I wouldn't care if they didnt like when I text'd their best friend (Weither it is wrong or right to do it.) :ggrief:

[johenn123]

you were honest and that's fine, you've just got to understand I don't care about whether he wants to hook back up with me, its just we were still really close friends and he lied to me, that's it but I asked a question and I got an answer I didn't like even though it's true

[MysticWitch]

you were honest and that's fine, you've just got to understand I don't care about whether he wants to hook back up with me, its just we were still really close friends and he lied to me, that's it but I asked a question and I got an answer I didn't like even though it's true

:hugz: It will be okay. It's not always easy to be friends with an Ex. Expecially when you still have feelings for them. Everything they do will affect the way you feel. :(
You can try to talk to him..

[johenn123]

Ok, I did a tarot reading because they relax me.

I got:

reversed sun for the past :(
reversed chariot and judgement for the present :(
(other ones related to different things are)
4 of swords reversed
7 of cups
8 of swords
temperance reversed
5 of swords
when I think the reading is going unbelievably shit, I get:
king of cups (NO REVERSALS, wheeee)
and future:
ace of swords =D

I mean it obviously doesnt resolve all my problems on the spot or anything but I have more hope now.

[johenn123]

you know, he was texting another of my friends at the same time, I found out today

[johenn123]

and now hes going out with a totally different person. 0_0

[BlackMagicalCat]

YES,,,Dump him NOW,,,and everyone else who looks at you sideways,,,your to young to become involved deeply with anyone.:lol:

[johenn123]

damn, lol I'm moving on now.which is good, but it still kills me to see them canoodling

[blackroseivy]

What I have to say is THIS: You broke up with him for a reason. Hang onto that, & keep remembering why. I think that this should help a great deal. Too clingy? There may have been even more problems down the road. TRUST me!! ;)