nancyophelia
February 14th, 2002, 06:30 PM
Hi there Lilu, thanx for your help... Can you do a
combo( reading. ) My friend Hanah is in a bad situation with a guy ( he's under her roof right
now. ) She knows that he's cheated on her and that he is a liar about almost everything. She would like to move ( hopefully soon. ) What do you see happening in this relationship. She does not trust him and knows that he doesn't love her. She has asked him to leave but he doesn't want to move on. ( He knows that he would have to be responsible for himself if she weren't there for him...) They work together and she even wants to leave her work and find other employement. She
told me that she pretty much knows that she does not love him. The other huge ordeal is the guy
does drugs and aren't people that are dependant
suppose to abstain from a relationship for a year
until they have kicked the habit. Because they
become depandant on the other person and neglect
their problem and are not capable of being involved at the time, it would be too much to ask.
I know this is true of alchool recovery. He is very emotionally abusive toward her. What resolve do you see happening?... In her heart she knows they won't get over the ruff spots. There is way
too much distrust here. Please help. Thanx. N.
combo( reading. ) My friend Hanah is in a bad situation with a guy ( he's under her roof right
now. ) She knows that he's cheated on her and that he is a liar about almost everything. She would like to move ( hopefully soon. ) What do you see happening in this relationship. She does not trust him and knows that he doesn't love her. She has asked him to leave but he doesn't want to move on. ( He knows that he would have to be responsible for himself if she weren't there for him...) They work together and she even wants to leave her work and find other employement. She
told me that she pretty much knows that she does not love him. The other huge ordeal is the guy
does drugs and aren't people that are dependant
suppose to abstain from a relationship for a year
until they have kicked the habit. Because they
become depandant on the other person and neglect
their problem and are not capable of being involved at the time, it would be too much to ask.
I know this is true of alchool recovery. He is very emotionally abusive toward her. What resolve do you see happening?... In her heart she knows they won't get over the ruff spots. There is way
too much distrust here. Please help. Thanx. N.