What Do You Do ???

[faeriedust]

when you have a spiteful,vendicive family that causes you problem after problem because they don't like the decisions that you make in your life. mine in one weeks time has filed a petition with the court to have my kids taken away and has managed to have me evicted over a minor thing. how do i make these people stop?

[Chibi-Fallon]

These people are your family?! Holy shiznicks! I really don't know what I'd do. Sounds like it's time to drag in a therapist. That seems to help a lot of problems. Might as well give it a try. And if there's a therapist there they can't kill you and hide the body.

[Twig]

Get a lawyer my Friend, your children are involved. I don't see much that us or anyone else on the web can offer that could be of any more help.

You have my prayers.

Peace,
twig
:elf:

[mato]

Those people suck! I would suggest that you file a neusance law suit and get them to pay damages that wind up putting them in the poor house. I have family like that, distance yourself, move out of their sphere of influence and if that is not possible start degrading their sphere until there is a place that is out of their control. I would also suggest a few less ethical means but I should let you find those yourself. However if they are doing this as a part of an attempt to bring you back into the fold they are most likely not going to stop until you have made it clear that they are no longer a part of your life and that the onlything that binds you together is blood, which contrary to popular belief is thicker than water but not nearly as important. Another option is to return the favor, there is always a way to get some one into deep sh*t with a minimal effort. :smoke: If you need ideas...

[faeriedust]

i have gotten a lawyer, and made it very clear they are no longer my family and a therapist has been involved. lol took care of the important stuff before posting. just needed to vent .

[Wyrdsister]

I'm SO glad that you got a lawyer and therapist involved! Poor faeriedust, my heart really goes out to you. Please keep us posted about your situation and on anything we can do to help. I'll keep you in mind in my healing circle tonight.

Blessings Be to you and your children!

Wyrdsister

[Old Witch]

Fairiedust, we'll see you thru this too!!:thumbsup:

[Twig]

:thumbsup: Then vent away!!! We are here for you .:heartthrob:

Peace,
Twig
:elf:

[mato]

Glad you didnt waste any time. Vent away.

and you can pm me for any suggestions my might need;)

[faeriedust]

thank you everyone !!!! i have only one friend here and bless her heart, she never says anything but i know she must get tired of my crying. lol i don't know what i would do without MW.

[flar7]

You have tons of friends here!!!!!:) REALLY

[Flaire-FireStar]

Yeah, we're always here for you! 24/7!!! *hugz* :)

[Yvonne Belisle]

You have far more than one friend here and we all have times in our lives that we need to cry. Sadly they tend to come in blocks of pain and never just one or two things. I hope you didn't forget a restraining order on your family. If you need anyone to talk to we are here and you can always pm people! Plus there are several of us happy to be available by im as well!

[faeriedust]

thank you so much. yes our lawyer is going to do the restraining order too.

[Desert_Shadow]

:thumbsup: May the Goddess bless you and your children while keeping you safe and giving you the strenght you need to get through this trying time. Prayers and Hugs!!!

[Garnet]

The teapot's on the stove, I have a batch of shortbread in the oven, & the comfy chair is for you.
Good luck & good energy.

[Old Witch]

Seems like you have it together now!! Good For You!

[NeoPhoenix]

:eek: Geez I don't know what really to say, other then I feel for you, and if you ever need someone to talk to or just vent I'll be there for you. *Big hugz* Brightest Blessings to you and your children, and may the Lord and Lady be with you always. *Big hugz again*. :(