plz someone help

[Necrobomber]

last night i got a call from my gf, now ex-gf, saying she needed talk to me. i went to talk to her and she said that she wanted me to open up to her more. but she also said that she felt it was unfair to stay with me if i felt more about her than she did about me and that when i was ready to open up to her then she was mine. apparently at this point the relationship ended. so i left heart broken and went to my friend katie's house. we talked about why i didn't want to be with katie and my gf showed up to get her stuff. she was shocked. so i went to shooters to play a few video games in hopes of feeling better. well it helped for a little bit at least. then katie called me and asked me out yet again over the phone and i said no. she freaked and hung up on me. lisa (my gf) called me bitching at me for making katie cry even tho she doesn't really like katie and doesn't like her hitting on me. i dunno...anyway. lisa made me call katie and apologize. so i called katie's house to apologize and she wasn't home. so i went looking for her and she flipped when i tried to apologize and she just continued to Lisa's. so then i went to say bye forever to katie's mom and went on my way home.

this whole situation has me very upset and cutting almost every waking hour. someone please help. i need help, for i have fallen into a deep adark hole with no hope.

[Kaylara]

I'm so sorry that it went so badly. I know you're upset, but maybe you need to avoid both of these girls for a little while so you can process your own emotions without having to deal with theirs. Do you have a friend who's not involved in this that you can go hang out with?

[SSanf]

Yep. Get shut of them both and make new friends. You need all this jerking around like you need to be shot.

It may be hard but it will also be a big relief. Just don't be available to either one for a while and you may really like the feeling of being free from all that trauma and game playing and being totally free to pursue new interests that will present themselves if you don't have all this going on.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Im so sorry your having such a rough time of it! I agree with Kay and Ssanf, ditch em. You dont need the drama. Drama queens suck. I also see that your 19, well trust me when I say there WIlLL be others. Chin up, this to will pass and better times will come. xxx Ill keep you in my thoughts.

[Brightshores]

I agree with everyone else who has posted - you don't need this ridiculous soap opera in your life.

Firstly - if your girlfriend broke up with you, she's not your girlfriend any more, and has absolutely zero right to tell you who you can spend time with or what you can say to them. She cannot have it both ways. Set some boundaries with her.

Sounds like you definitely need to keep your distance from Katie in particular - you are clearly not interested in a relationship with her at this time, and she doesn't seem to be able at this time to handle a friendship with you on that basis.

Try to spend some time doing healthy things that calm you down - spending time with friends who don't stress you out, taking a nice long walk outside, reading, listening to music. Focus on healing yourself and let the drama subside. It will - it always does. :hugz: