A little healing energy

[NightFire]

I would like to ask that any that is willing send some healing energy in the direction of my marriage. My wife, Lira, and I are having some problems.

Right now, we are seperated, and looking at a divorce. We both need to see things clearly, and see what is best for us, and our children.

I feel that a divorce is a bit far. I think that each of us is trying to keep from hurting our ego and pride.

We have each hurt each other, but I feel that we can make things work.

I thank all of you that will help.

NightFire

[Man/Wolf]

NIghtFire, I wish happiness for you both. If that happiness is to be had together, so be it. Bless your children.

[Desert_Shadow]

Prayers and candles lit for you and your family. May the Goddess/God hold all of you close and guide you to the path best for all!

[Topazz]

Sending prayers and energy for the best outcome,
and the strength and wisdom to get there with as
little damage as possible done to the family.

[WandererInGray]

*hugs*

Prayers and candles for what will happen, whatever that may be.

*soft smile*
If you feel that pride truly is in the way, perhaps swallowing your own and telling her *exactly* how you feel might help? (that is, if you haven't already done it) I can't count the number of times that I've done that in the past year. But it was worth it every time.

[NightFire]

I very much appreciate this support.

I have talked with her, and apoligized to her, she just has so much anger. I feel I need to let her get her anger out, and I'm trying to be available for her to yell at, but it is difficult to not defend myself when I am accused of things that aren't true. I have asked her to go to a marriage counselor, but so far, no luck with that. To make things more difficult, she decided to go to the other side of the country for this, so I sometimes get a phone call from her. She refuses to answer when I call. It is hard to work things out without very much communication.

Things have been said on both sides since she has left that have caused us to be upset and angry with each other. I try to be very careful with what I say to her to prevent any more of a rift.

I feel things will work out, we never had any major problems. I just want for us to be happy, no matter the outcome.

Thanks,
NightFire

[Dancin Girl]

My thoughts and energy go out to both of you as you try to work through this. May the Goddes guide both of you down the right path whether together or apart. And what ever the outcome, where the path takes you, may your paths always guide your children together.

[kblackthorne]

I wish all of you (you, her, and your children) the healing you all need.

It's too bad she won't consider the counseling option. I would have left my husband before we were married were it not for a good marriage counselor. And it seems like she has some stuff of her own going on that a counselor could help with.

Ah, well. You can't choose for her. Only she can do that.

Again, Healing to both of you. May your heart find peace.