Healing Energy for my Father.

[Kadi]

My father has taken a turn for the worse this morning. He's fighting bone and prostrate cancer. He's so weak he can barely talk and he can no longer sit up by himself. We are trying to get him to volunarily go the the hospital, as I'm afraid if we call an ambulance for him, it will upset him and make things worse. You know how stubborn old men can be!

This man is my rock. He is the first person call when anything good or bad happens in my life. He's been my best friend for years, and an awesome role model for my daughter whose own father didn't want to be a part of her life. He was her daycare as a baby, and has devoted the last 15 years to making sure she had more than I could give her alone. He's such a wonderful man and this is just so hard.

Please say prayers for him, send him healing energy and positive energy!

[covenofkeys]

~hugs you tightly~ blessings, and healing energy is sent.
my advice?
just phone them -yes, itll upset him for a bit, but you have no option,he needs a doctor.xx
look at your options-i know it must be hard-hurt his feelings, but he gets at least some help, or dont phone, and he deteriorates. just do it!!! worry about how he feels later.at least you wouldve tried because you care, and not just to deliberately piss him off.
all the best, my friend.x

[Lunacie]

What does your father want though? Is he ready to give up the struggle or is he still fighting for his life?

It's hard to let a parent go, I know, I went through it 10 years ago with my gramma-in-law who I was very close to, and then went through it again with mother 8 years ago. Both had cancer and had fought as long and as hard as possible. I'm in the process of letting go of my sister now, she's been fighting ovarian cancer for the last 3 years and has finally decided it's time to stop fighting. Oh gods! it hurts to go through this all over again.

But it has to be their own decision and we have to respect whatever choice they make. Hugs and energies for you to be supportive for your dad and to get through this time of hurting. :hugz:

[Wisowl]

Soft energies sent to your father :hugz: for you and calming and positive energies to you and your family.

Love, Light, Life and Healing

[Brenda]

:hugz: :hugz:

[Ancient Wisdom]

:hugz: Your dad will probably get angry at the moment, while they take him.. but when they give him the apropriate meds he'll feel better and will thank you for what you did....he will no longer be mad at you. :hugz:
Sending your dad comforting and healing energy, sending you strength and will. :hugz:

[Merrilyn]

My thoughts are with you; we are facing a similar situation in my own family. It takes such strength! I know you can make it through.
I wish you all peace and comfort. May your father find calmness and serenity.

[Kadi]

We called my fathers doctor, and the doctor got on the phone with him and told him he needed to go to the ER. My father finally agreed. They admitted him before noon, and have him on fluids. He didn't want to go to the hospital because he said he isn't ready to die, and he thinks he'll die there. I just keep telling him that he will go home, they will just get him feeling a little better.

He's not ready to give up, he just wants to feel better. He lives for my daughter, and would live to her dying day if he could. She's his sun and moon. And he has so many plans for her future.

Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers!

[Philosophia]

Sending healing, positive, and comforting energy! :hugz:

[Kadi]

Thank you all. My father passed away today. His heart just couldn't keep up.

[Wisowl]

:hugz: and healing energies to you and your family.

Love, Light and Healing

[AineDanu]

Oh Kadi I am sorry for your loss. I was just reading this to send energy for his health but instead I send for you and your family's grief and for him to have a smooth easy journey. Losing ones father is so very hard, especially one who has been so much to you. My heart is with you and your daughter.

[Mouse]

:hugz: I'm so sorry to hear that.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Bless you,
~Miriam

[Catiana]

I'm so sorry for your loss, :hugz: for you and your family.

[mooneyes]

I will say prayers for your father and for you. My husband has just been diagnosed w/aggressive prostate cancer which may be starting to go to the bone, please can I have your prayers for my husband too.