Desert_Witch
January 15th, 2007, 05:39 PM
Dammit! DW really needs to sign out when he is done on here! This is his wife, binah06.
Hi everyone,
I have been super stressed the last couple of months. I promiced a friend (not a close friend but I do like her) that I would help her out in her business. I would make some extra money and get free stuff and it would help her out. Well the business is not what I expected. On my first day I was just glad it was over at the end of the day.
I have all this stuff of hers that she ordered to help me out. I dont know if she had to pay for any of it. And I dont know if it can be returned even though it is only used once. She will make money off of the work I did for her but I also think she will loose some money if I tell her I cant do it.
I also signed a contract that has not been turned in yet. I am not too worried about it. I dont think the contract will be the issue.
I am working on a job offer that will severely limit my availability to help her too and I am starting school again at the end of the month.
I hate to dissapoint people and I hate hurting feelings, even people I dont know, but I cant do this. I have been stressing about it for months.
There are also other concerns about friendship loyalty between another, much closer, friend and the friend in question. I think I may have affected my friendship with the closer friend by going into business with the other friend.
I am so sick of this. I am getting this familiar feeling of regret. I feel like I always make the most stupid choices and I always end up regretting everything. Whats next? I keep making these dumb choices that have affected my life. I feel so old and beaten sometimes. I just wish everything would go smoothly for a while. I want to live comfortably with the bills paid and time to think clearly without worry. I am so tired of worrying all the time.
Thanks for listening. Advice is apprieciated.
Binah06
Hi everyone,
I have been super stressed the last couple of months. I promiced a friend (not a close friend but I do like her) that I would help her out in her business. I would make some extra money and get free stuff and it would help her out. Well the business is not what I expected. On my first day I was just glad it was over at the end of the day.
I have all this stuff of hers that she ordered to help me out. I dont know if she had to pay for any of it. And I dont know if it can be returned even though it is only used once. She will make money off of the work I did for her but I also think she will loose some money if I tell her I cant do it.
I also signed a contract that has not been turned in yet. I am not too worried about it. I dont think the contract will be the issue.
I am working on a job offer that will severely limit my availability to help her too and I am starting school again at the end of the month.
I hate to dissapoint people and I hate hurting feelings, even people I dont know, but I cant do this. I have been stressing about it for months.
There are also other concerns about friendship loyalty between another, much closer, friend and the friend in question. I think I may have affected my friendship with the closer friend by going into business with the other friend.
I am so sick of this. I am getting this familiar feeling of regret. I feel like I always make the most stupid choices and I always end up regretting everything. Whats next? I keep making these dumb choices that have affected my life. I feel so old and beaten sometimes. I just wish everything would go smoothly for a while. I want to live comfortably with the bills paid and time to think clearly without worry. I am so tired of worrying all the time.
Thanks for listening. Advice is apprieciated.
Binah06