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maeli
January 25th, 2007, 12:17 PM
I just found out I am pregnant! I am so excited but about a year ago I miscarried and I am afraid it will happen again. I would love it if someone could send healthy energy my way. I'm scared to death.

darkchild
January 25th, 2007, 02:40 PM
Hello,
Congratulations on your pregnancy. I am sending energy your way for a happy, healthy pregnancy and delivery. Don't be afraid, just embrace the joy of having a little one to nourish and protect!


Dawn

Brenda
January 25th, 2007, 02:51 PM
:hugz:

Ferina
January 25th, 2007, 06:36 PM
Love and support headed your way. Try to stay relaxed cause the more stress you place on your body the harder the baby needs to fight to stay there.
I hope it works out for you this time around you are very brave to try again.

cloudspanther
January 25th, 2007, 08:39 PM
Just so you know, if you have a miscarriage once, it doesnt mean that it will happen again. Just try to take things easy, relax, and try to not allow the fear of losing again, to cloud the joy of this gift.

I had a miscarriage july 96, I got pregnant again jan 97 and delievered a healthy happy bouncing baby boy. I understand how scarey it is, how it is hard to let yourself believe because what IF it happens again. Energies being sent that ths baby comes to term and you get to hold that baby in your arms.

lady bless,
clouds

Lunacie
January 25th, 2007, 08:55 PM
Healthy pregnancy, calm spirit energy on the way! My daughter miscarried her first pregnancy and felt very ambivalent through the whole pregnancy when she got pregnant again a couple of months later. Things turned out fine for her and she did the whole thing all over again three years later. Good luck! :) :hugz:

BlueEyedWolf
January 25th, 2007, 09:18 PM
:hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

RainInanna
January 25th, 2007, 09:29 PM
Sending good energy! Try not to worry, there's no increased chance of it happening again. Just keep taking your prenatals and pampering yourself.

Teresa
January 26th, 2007, 02:13 AM
I just found out I am pregnant! I am so excited but about a year ago I miscarried and I am afraid it will happen again. I would love it if someone could send healthy energy my way. I'm scared to death.

Of course ! I will dress a candle for you and the baby !

Philosophia
January 26th, 2007, 04:20 AM
Sending positive and calming energy! :hugz: Congratulations! :hugz:

Lauren Michele
January 26th, 2007, 04:35 AM
I understand your anxiety,but it doesn't mean it will happen again. Here is a hug for you to help you relax and I will say a prayer for you.
Congratulations!
Relax.
Lauren~

Scarlettvixen
January 26th, 2007, 06:18 AM
:hugz:

SpiralDancing
January 26th, 2007, 04:12 PM
Huge, huge hugs to you.
Sending healthy happy comfy baby vibes to you, and some calming and serene ones too.

maeli
January 28th, 2007, 12:03 PM
Thanks everyone so much for the support. The past week has been great. I had this blanket of calm come over me yesterday and deep down I knew that I was going to have this baby.


I will keep everyone updated. (keep your fingers crossed)

XOXOXO

SpiralDancing
January 28th, 2007, 02:48 PM
Lovely to hear you are feeling so positive. Sticky baby vibes coming your way! How is the morning sickness?

synopa
January 28th, 2007, 02:51 PM
enjoy the experiance! Sending loving energy your way!

Julea
January 28th, 2007, 05:52 PM
:heartthro I'm lighting a candle for you tonight. Good luck!

Lunacie
January 28th, 2007, 06:02 PM
There is a school of thought that a spirit will visit the womb during the first month or two, and decide whether to go ahead and be born into that body. Also it is thought that the spirit visits again towards the end of the pregnancy and leaves the mother with a dream or vision, and that sometimes lets the mother know if the baby is a boy or a girl. I think maybe you had a visit from the spirit who is going to be your baby and that you're right to think that this time it's really going to happen. :hugz:

maeli
March 6th, 2007, 11:36 AM
~UPDATE~

I went to my 1st appointment yestarday and everything is great! We heard the heartbeat and it was a healthy 168 bpm. SO far everything is going good. My dr has me on iron and progesterone pills but other than that I am great! Just wanted to update everyone and once again thank you for your kind words.

Annorah
March 6th, 2007, 11:46 AM
Congratulations!

Sending positive energies your way - keep us all updated :)

Shatril
March 6th, 2007, 11:48 AM
Well being scared is understandable, but it isn't very healthy. Put your mind on the fact that you will have a very healthy baby. Think positive, and do things to help you relax. ((((((((relaxing energy sent)))))). You are in my prayers.

Eternal Night
March 6th, 2007, 12:02 PM
Oh Babes.*Hugs tightly* Stay positive, difficult I know.but try.
Energies and my thoughts going out to you.

Kalika
March 6th, 2007, 12:19 PM
:hugz:

Lunacie
March 6th, 2007, 12:25 PM
~UPDATE~

I went to my 1st appointment yestarday and everything is great! We heard the heartbeat and it was a healthy 168 bpm. SO far everything is going good. My dr has me on iron and progesterone pills but other than that I am great! Just wanted to update everyone and once again thank you for your kind words.




That sounds great ! I'm glad to hear things are going well. Thanks for the update. I hope you can enjoy this stage of your life now.

Brightshores
March 6th, 2007, 03:40 PM
:hugz: and best wishes to you and to your baby!!

MysticWitch
March 6th, 2007, 04:46 PM
Congrats Maeli!

Athena-Nadine
March 6th, 2007, 04:47 PM
:hugz:

Willow Rosette
March 6th, 2007, 05:00 PM
I had that same fear all the way though my pregnancy with my daughter. I was on bed rest and in the hospital 21 times, and this is after 2 miscarages. I drank reaspberry leaf tea through out the whole thing. It strengthens the unterus (sorry cant spell). But it worked she was 9 lb 2 oz

dizzydormouse
March 6th, 2007, 07:05 PM
Do you have a brighid/bridget shawl honey? - I found mine really comforting through my last pregnancy.

I know what it's like to be trying to carry a pregnancy after miscarriage. - If you ever need to talk you can always email or MSN messenger me on dizzydormouse@hotmail.com

You are going to be fine honey!

dizzydormouse
March 6th, 2007, 07:12 PM
I had that same fear all the way though my pregnancy with my daughter. I was on bed rest and in the hospital 21 times, and this is after 2 miscarages. I drank reaspberry leaf tea through out the whole thing. It strengthens the unterus (sorry cant spell). But it worked she was 9 lb 2 oz

Hmmm - not wishing to be contradictory or anything but I just had a baby five months ago & my midwife was adament that I did not drink it in the first trimester - because of the contracting properties.

The advice here in UK is that Raspberry leaf tea (no more than two cups a day) is fine from week 34 onwards


Just thought it best to mention - sorry!


Mouse xx

Pesha
March 6th, 2007, 07:37 PM
Brightest blessings to you hun. Positive healthy and stress free pregnancy vibes flowing your way.