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Aina
January 25th, 2007, 08:31 PM
Today I found out that my cousin had died. He was found at his work dead. He left behind a wife and three kids, and a daughter in law. My family is grieving. And I don't know what to think, or do.

BlueEyedWolf
January 25th, 2007, 08:36 PM
:hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

cloudspanther
January 25th, 2007, 08:43 PM
prayers sent for combort and peace during this sad time.

lady bless,
clouds

Lorrie
January 25th, 2007, 08:44 PM
Take it from me, don't try to do anything but just be there for everyone. Last September 20th I went to wake my DIL for work and found her dead, she had three very young children. The oldest had to go to his real dads to live just before x-mas and I am helping my son raise the other two. I am taking everything I can find to make a scrapbook from for the kids, one of the things I have done is to go back in this forum to some of her posts about the kids and print them off for them to see her own words. I also printed out the ones where she asked for advice about her health problems so they might understand better when they are old enough just how it was before she died.( we only got the cause of death days ago, she had leukemia and no one knew it, along with an inflamed pituitary that was a post-partum thing) These kids are 1 and 2, I want to make sure they will always know about mom. I talk about her every day, how proud she would be of them, anything to keep her memory alive for them. Our biggest problem has been my son works alot of hours, sometimes he ends up staying at the store. I have the kids 24/7, plus my daughters baby twice a week. So many people told us if we ever needed anything, just ask, they would be more than happy to help out watching kids or whatever. Well, when we need help no one can watch them. I ask if you can help out this way, do it.
Strength for all of you!

Teresa
January 26th, 2007, 02:12 AM
Keeping Your family in my thoughts and prayers!

Philosophia
January 26th, 2007, 04:20 AM
Sending healing, positive and comforting energy to the family! :hugz:

Wisowl
January 26th, 2007, 10:07 AM
Sending healing, positive and comforting energy to the family, as well as to you Aina.

Love, Light and Healing