breaking a soul bonding

[tarotgirljess]

Okay guys I need some help. I know this is a touchy subject but it didn't come up because i was being fickle or anything. Short version is this:
I got tricked into a blood exchange. The Guy is truly psycho. we have been seperated now for 4.5 months. The bond is NOT fading. it is detrimental to me and my well being. Yes he's aware of the what he was doing at the time. no he won't help me reverse it.
I have tried almost everything i can think of to break this bond. But he still uses it to dreamwalk. he still picks up on my emotions and tries to use them to his advantage.
Does anyone know how i can break this? I have tried mirroring, blocking, calling what was mine back to me.
now i don't have anything against a blood exchange with consenting parties. but i was not consenting and he is purposly using this bond to hurt me.
Please give me some idea on what else i can do? if you don't feel comfortable posting it here feel free to pm me.

also when i do break this bond what side effects should i expect? will it hurt? backlash? what do i need to be aware of?
thanks in advance
Jess

[Willow Rosette]

Honey Im afraid I dont have any advice but I want you in my prayers that you are able to get this stopped. (((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

[Glory]

The only time I ever felt the need to break a bond was using ribbon and scissors in a very simple ceremony... but this sounds much more severe and someone with more experience would probably be a better source of advice. Just posting so you know you're in my thoughts and I hope it all works out for you. I hate emotional abuse.

[Kalika]

I could better help you in person, I'm afraid.

The ribbon ritual mentioned may work... blood exchange is tricky, though.

As for backlash... yes, it'll probably hurt like hell. You may want to follow up with a binding of him, or the backlash could be worse.

[Shadow Angel]

Will pm you with some info on this.x

[tarotgirljess]

many thanks for your kind words and for your PM shadow angel. Thanks! ANyother ideas suggestons?

[David19]

I don't have any advice, but I hope you figure out a way soon.

You may want to ask this question in the new Mystic Wicks forum for dark magic, and I think this is one of the types of things that you'd get a lot of helpful advice on, a lot of the people who post there, IMO, seem to know their stuff.

The address is: http://mwdark.com/, just register there, and PM GreenEyes BlueSoul to activate your account.

Anyway, hope this helps :).

[Meadhbh]

You could try this antidote to binding spells I don't know who eefective it would be againist a link like yours but its worth a shot.

Add powedered sassafras bark to a blend of castor and jojoba oils. Do not use essential oil of sassafras it is highly toxic. On serven square pieces of paper write the following using dragons blood ink "I break your power; I destroy your force (name), child of (mother's name) you have no control over me (name) child of (name) you have no power over me (name) child of (name) I am free from your binding spell." Every morning for seven consectutive mornings soak one paper in the oil. Tear it into either three or five pieces. Add the pieces to frankincense and myrrh resin and burn them. Every day as you complete this spell the power of the other person over you diminishes. It should be completely broken by the spells conclusion.

[Sequoia]

This might not be worth the pixes it's written with, but have you tried burning sage? I don't think it would break the bond completely, but it would definately muddle the energies surrounding you, possibly mute them completely and clear his influence out, so that you can focus entirely on breaking the bond.

I have a thing for white sage, it's just so effective in "cleaning" and clearing out energy.

[Rick]

Okay guys I need some help. I know this is a touchy subject but it didn't come up because i was being fickle or anything. Short version is this:
I got tricked into a blood exchange. The Guy is truly psycho. we have been seperated now for 4.5 months. The bond is NOT fading. it is detrimental to me and my well being. Yes he's aware of the what he was doing at the time. no he won't help me reverse it.
I have tried almost everything i can think of to break this bond. But he still uses it to dreamwalk. he still picks up on my emotions and tries to use them to his advantage.
Does anyone know how i can break this? I have tried mirroring, blocking, calling what was mine back to me.
now i don't have anything against a blood exchange with consenting parties. but i was not consenting and he is purposly using this bond to hurt me.
Please give me some idea on what else i can do? if you don't feel comfortable posting it here feel free to pm me.

also when i do break this bond what side effects should i expect? will it hurt? backlash? what do i need to be aware of?
thanks in advance
Jess
Have answered in your thread over on the MWDark

[Shadow Angel]

many thanks for your kind words and for your PM shadow angel. Thanks! ANyother ideas suggestons?

apologies, had a few marrital problems to contend with so had to come off line. will sort this for you at some point today. humblest of apologies.

[Meirya]

Yes, it will hurt, especially if it's been like this for some time now - I was an idiot back before I was pagan and donated some blood to my then-boyfriend, which caused all sorts of interesting emotional/codependency issues on my part, even after he cheated on me and broke up with me. . . they persisted until a while after I'd become pagan, when I finally mentioned this to a couple friends who cut the link. It hurt like hell and I was curled in a ball of shock and pain, shaking and crying, for 20 minutes or so afterwards, even though I hadn't PHYSICALLY been cut at all.

This is a good article (http://www.kheperu.org/modules.php?op=modload&name=News&file=article&sid=283&mode=thread&order=0&thold=0) on cutting links. Yes, many people might find the group (House Kheperu) a bit odd, but they're a good group and do their research and really know what they're doing. I've been to a few of their gatherings; they know their stuff.

[ancestral_lee]

just about to go over and have a look at MW dark.

something to bear in mind - hew is using this bond to hurt you. you can also use this bond to get at him.

see where im going with this?

[BFD_Zayl]

short of killing the other person, there is no way that i know of, i have many blood bondings, and they all work for me, mostly because its between other necromancers of the same order, my masters and even the grandmasters blood pumps through my veins, we are all family. i shall consult my master on this, he might know a way to effectivley break this. during the meantime all of my experience suggests taking the offensive, make him feel the pain and he might back down, i do not suggest this, if he truly is psycho, it might drive him to greater torments.

[Tabbykitty]

also when i do break this bond what side effects should i expect? will it hurt? backlash? what do i need to be aware of?
thanks in advance

Blood bond, soul bond or WHATEVER...... it is my experience that no matter how "strong" the bond YOU can break it.

The strength of some of these bonds come from a belief that they are somehow "too strong" for a person who is a victim of it, to break or unbreakable. Preconcieved notions that there will be some form of a "backlash" often make it worse. See, if you believe there is going to be a backlash, then there will be.

Firstly, you need to get rid of all preconcieved notions that might cause you to believe that you are not strong enough or that the bond is too strong. Also, get rid of all notions that there's gonna be some kinda backlash or any notions that will cause you to fear breaking the bond.

you can do any form of spell or energetic ceremony to break the bond. I like Meadhbh's ceremony cos it makes the break as thorough as you can get.... Once broken.... remember to:

1. take back everything that is yours that he took from you

2. make SURE all energetic stuff that he has put on you (eg. spells, bindings, cords... whatnot) are gotten rid of.

3. avoid all further contact with him and any means by which he may try to make contact with you.

I have broken bonds before... not least the bond to my teacher's teacher. Well, I found out one day that I had this bond to my teacher's teacher.. and that somehow that vampire was draining both of us...... I challenged my teacher about this..... and well, we did something to find out if this was really true..... and, apparently it was!

My teacher was a little in awe of her teacher..... it made it harder to really break all connections.... I was however....NOT in awe of that woman.....and well, for me it was easier to make that break

We knew it happened cos well... that vampire urgently attempted to contact us the following morning..... you can be sure we didnt answer any of her pleas!

[Willow Rosette]

I have thought about this since you first posted and I realised that I had a blood bond w/ my X husband when we were handfasted. And it has never been an issue even 10 years later. So I kinda think they only have the ability to exert that control over you if you allow it. IMHO but I am keeping you in my prayers that it all stops honey.

[~Owl~]

As this thread is starting to go rather dark, I'd prefer to either keep this thread on a lighter note, or if you have specific spell suggestions that involve the use of blood or bindings or harm, and chosse to discuss it in public on this thread, I'm afraid I will have to move this discussion to MWDark.


On that note, remember...you are feeding it MORE power over you with your belief that this person has in fact, such a bond with you.

This is the core of ALL negative magic. Without it, it is rendered useless.

Therefore, concentrate on this person's actions and what he says to you. It is likely he will choose his words very carefully, in order to try to manipulate you emotionally. If you can see this coming, simply throw it back in his face, by smiling, (even if you have to force yourself to), and say, "that's the best you can come up with?" Then LAUGH in his face. These types of actions are the best type of counterattack.

If you wish to reinforce this with ritual means, I may ponder on PMing you some remedys, but you must remember, it is not your "soul" that he is bonded to, as much as it is his control over your thoughts, emotions, and mentality, that when something bad happens, you automatically believe it is his doing. This only feeds his ego, as well as any magickal power that has been sucessfully performed.

You and you alone must do this. There is no spell that someone can do on your behalf, withoutyour firm belief that it will work.

More than likely, the reason your own countermagic spells did not succeed, is because you have let doubt creep in , along with a lack of self confidence.

These are core issues you MUST master, along with tried and true ritual magic, for it to be effective.

Nothing can be done to you against your will magically. But if there is a shred of belief in you, then that power will travel the path of least resistance.

Therefore, look within yourself, and find what it is that you feel are your weak points. Then strengthen them. Visualize, light a white candle, visualize a white light surrounding you, and and negative energy bouncing off of you and returning to the sender 3 x as potent. Hold a quartz crytal , wear one on your body, buy a pendant of one, etc.

If the BELIEF and INTENT is not there, you are simply allowing him to manipulate you in all spirtual matters. Rember, magick is based on the WILL and the WORD.


Blessed Be on your endeavors...