Looking for information

[CandyNico28]

I'm writing to look for information for my boyfriend. I believe he has many magical gifts, and he is starting to think it might be as well, I just don't know where to guide him to start studying.

Let me explain the main thing i have questions about. He produces an extreme amount of heat. If he puts his hands close together (about 5 inches apart) the space between them gets about 5-10 degrees warmer. He heats up any room he is in for more than an hour by a couple of degrees. It's such an unusal thing that it makes me think there is more to it. I wonder if maybe it is some type of healing gift. but since i have never studied that type of thing i don't know anything about it. He also has the ability to see spirits and energy forces that are around him, so i'm not sure if it might have to do with that either.

Any ideas or advice would be great appreciated.

[Shaw]

For some reason when read this I immediately thought of one of the legends of Cuchulainn, half-god son of Lugh. He was committed to battle by his father on the side of the gods. See the thing is when he went into the battle fury he heated up, on one occasion to the point of explosion.

I would say the heat is a sign your friend is favored maybe, no telling what he may be capable of, in the fullness of time, with study.

[inkywitch]

If your looking on information on healing, check out the healing and reiki forum. Google also has a hell of a lot of information, as well as the search function here. Good luck to your friend!

[Sesen]

I don't mean to be a bubble burster but perhaps you should look for more mundane reasons before you start jumping to conclusions. He may just have a naturally high body temperature. I'm like this and I can walk outside in freezing temperatures in a short sleeve shirt and a pair of shorts while complaining about the heat. Just out of curiosity, why do you think he can heal? Has he ever healed anyone before?

[CandyNico28]

I don't mean to be a bubble burster but perhaps you should look for more mundane reasons before you start jumping to conclusions. He may just have a naturally high body temperature. I'm like this and I can walk outside in freezing temperatures in a short sleeve shirt and a pair of shorts while complaining about the heat. Just out of curiosity, why do you think he can heal? Has he ever healed anyone before?


yeah i thought about things like that, as far as having a high body temp i know thats not it, his normal temp is below average (around 97.8) I'm really just assuming healing because he has always had a strong desire to help people. he's getting his emt license right now. also based on the fact that i've noticed people feel more energetic when he is around and are always in a better mood. as far as if he is healed anyone before that i'm not sure about, I know I don't feel my little pains when he is around, but not sure if it has anything to do with it. But anyway, I'm looking into the "normal" stuff to, i just figured i would search for both... lol

[Sesen]

yeah i thought about things like that, as far as having a high body temp i know thats not it, his normal temp is below average (around 97.8) I'm really just assuming healing because he has always had a strong desire to help people. he's getting his emt license right now. also based on the fact that i've noticed people feel more energetic when he is around and are always in a better mood. as far as if he is healed anyone before that i'm not sure about, I know I don't feel my little pains when he is around, but not sure if it has anything to do with it. But anyway, I'm looking into the "normal" stuff to, i just figured i would search for both... lol

Okay, many people tend to let wishful thinking blind them when it comes to magic. Thats the only reason I felt the need to give a different perspective. The only magic related reason I can think of why he would be emitting heat seems to apply given the description you gave. He may have an elemental imbalance in favor of the fire element. If you do some reading on the elements you'll see that the fire element has the qualities of heat and expansion. It tends to fill you with energy and ambition and this could be spreading out to others in his general area. This element is also related to clairvoyance which you said he seems to have as well. Just a thought, though I would suggest you keep searching for all available explanations. You never know. If the two of you do decide he has an imbalance though he should try and correct it or he may end up burning out, so to speak. Good luck.

[CandyNico28]

Okay, many people tend to let wishful thinking blind them when it comes to magic. Thats the only reason I felt the need to give a different perspective. The only magic related reason I can think of why he would be emitting heat seems to apply given the description you gave. He may have an elemental imbalance in favor of the fire element. If you do some reading on the elements you'll see that the fire element has the qualities of heat and expansion. It tends to fill you with energy and ambition and this could be spreading out to others in his general area. This element is also related to clairvoyance which you said he seems to have as well. Just a thought, though I would suggest you keep searching for all available explanations. You never know. If the two of you do decide he has an imbalance though he should try and correct it or he may end up burning out, so to speak. Good luck.


Yeah i know all about wishful thinking.. lol... but the element imbalance would make sense i never thought about that.. i'll have to look into it more. thanks for the advice.

[Tabbykitty]

I do agree with the other posters. you might wanna see if its natural for him to be this hot..... it could be an imbalance..... or something else....

IF it turns out this is how he naturally is... AND he indeed has many gifts..... then simply....

1. let him be the one taking the lead, asking the questions...... choosing to be a healer or to do magick or energies. if this is truly his path in life, he will seek it without any prompting at all.... and his path WILL seek him out as well......

2. For his sake..... please let this be the last time you ever let anyone else know how gifted your boyfriend is. I mean, if he decides to choose a spiritual path, his gifts will become evident to others in time.

There's things out there that seek out people like him.... to either make use of them..... or worse...

Im just sayin this from experiences I encountered when I got to know individuals who are a lot like your boyfriend.

That's my view on this issue....Feel free to ignore or disagree with the points Ive raised.

[wyrdmage]

My mother can move a piece of gold across the table without touching it. Why? I can step outside in my shorts in the winter and keep my body warm for awhile by willing heat into my extremities( makes my daughter laugh). Why? I don't know exactly. I have a few ideas and some questions. These lead to more questions and---well...you get the idea. The point of all this is that I asked. Your boyfriend needs to ask too...for himself. Then, "if" he likes the direction the answers are taking...he'll have to ask more questions. Basically, if the need to know is there than he'll learn, or he'll back out and say this isn't my scene. But whatever you do...don't influence him in that way that all women can...let him make his own choice.:yikess: