6 months without him

[Aina]

I know this sounds so meaningless in here, with everyone else having bigger and more important issues than I...but, i just need some happy energy...

My fiance is moving back to his hometown, back in with his mom so that he can finish his final semester of college and save money for a house for us. I'm supporting him 101% but i just feel so sad. He just left about a half an hour ago to go back to work, after talking to his mom on the phone, and i burst into tears. It's kind of hard, when I've been living with him for a year now, to go from that to living back with my parents. He says he's gonna come and visit me on the weekends, and he said I can come there (though I'm unsure how to get there by myself..)
It's just the weird fact that he wont be there...just to cuddle with or something..

I just want happyness..not this sad poop..

-aina-

[Sakurako]

:hugz: Just think about how much better you'll be in the long run :hahugh:

My hubby is in the army and in a weeks time is moving to the other side of the country for 8 months. It's tough but it'll be a much better life for us & our son in the long run,. Im sure it'll be the same for you. :)

[BlueEyedWolf]

:hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

[Marcasite]

Ohh I am so sorry. I thought that my fiance and I would have to do the same thing this summer, fortunately things worked out for us. 6 months apart will not be easy, but you'll get through it :hugz:

[Willow Rosette]

Honey you know Im always here for you. :hugz: :hugz:

[Brightshores]

:hugz: Best wishes to both of you for strength and commitment while you're apart; and when you get back together, for a happy reunion and a wonderful future!

[Annorah]

Strengthening and positive energies heading your way.

May the time fly for you.

:hugz:

[Lauren Michele]

I am so sorry. I can understand you wanting him near you. Just to reach out to him for a hug when you want to. And, your problem to you is a big problem. No need to feel that it is not big enough to be compared to others. I hope that-that make sense. :hugz:

~Belladonna~

[Aina]

I am so sorry. I can understand you wanting him near you. Just to reach out to him for a hug when you want to. And, your problem to you is a big problem. No need to feel that it is not big enough to be compared to others. I hope that-that make sense. :hugz:

~Belladonna~
Yes, it does. It just kind of sucks, because I can't stop crying. I mean, my mind is my worst enemy right now. I look around here, and think of all the stuff we've done, how silly we've acted, I see the plants that we've potted together and stuff. Things like that, just tears me up. I know 6 months will go by quickly. He said that time will fly by before I know it. Lol, i asked if I could have the bed and his computer desk. (I'm so used to that big bed now, when I moved back with my folks I don't think I could stand sleeping in my twin-sized bed.) I'm hoping that i'll keep busy with work...Actually, I might find a new job, only because he works there right now and when he moves back and I stay here, I really don't want to go there and then be reminded of him there. Wow, I'm sounding pathetic. I mean, he's not dead...we're just gonna not be living together for a few months. I really shouldn't be getting this upest should I?

[ShadowcatX]

It's perfectly normal to miss someone when you know you won't be seeing them as much, but this doesn't have to be all bad. Use this time apart, and the small amount of time you will have together during this time apart, to make your relationship grow stronger and deeper.

[Lauren Michele]

Yes, it does. It just kind of sucks, because I can't stop crying. I mean, my mind is my worst enemy right now. I look around here, and think of all the stuff we've done, how silly we've acted, I see the plants that we've potted together and stuff. Things like that, just tears me up. I know 6 months will go by quickly. He said that time will fly by before I know it. Lol, i asked if I could have the bed and his computer desk. (I'm so used to that big bed now, when I moved back with my folks I don't think I could stand sleeping in my twin-sized bed.) I'm hoping that i'll keep busy with work...Actually, I might find a new job, only because he works there right now and when he moves back and I stay here, I really don't want to go there and then be reminded of him there. Wow, I'm sounding pathetic. I mean, he's not dead...we're just gonna not be living together for a few months. I really shouldn't be getting this upest should I?


You don't sound pathetic at all. Of course getting this upset is so natural. You sound like you really care for this person very much. It is going to be extremely hard in the beginning for you. This is an adjustment period. You were so used to having him around. Now you need to get reaquainted with yourself. Love yourself. Pamper yourself. Six months seems like forever, but it isn't and you will be reunited once again. :hugz:

~Belladonna~

[ShadowStalker]

:hugz:

[Philosophia]

Sending positive and comforting energy to you and your fiance! :hugz:

[Pesha]

Calming and positive energies flowing!

[Glowy]

How have you been holding up? Perhaps you could spend this time doing something you have always wanted to do like lean to play an instrument or yoga or a cooking class. If you find something new to be passionate about maybe the time apart won't feel so daunting.

[Teresa]

:hugz:

[RoseKitten]

Hey! No more tears! (Easier said than done...), but I'm so gonna dunk you in the lake if you don't stop! _wedgie_ Aina, you know you can always come see me and we can go shopping and whatnot. :) My door is always open, and it's even easy to find, remember? :) I hope you get feeling better soon, and I'll be home all day if you want to talk. :hugz: