Spread of the Week - 4/26/07 to 5/3/07

[LisaT4P]

Spread of the Week rules / instructions:

1. A new spread will be posted weekly (hopefully I'll manage it every Thursday and we may change it to bi-weekly or monthly if weekly doesn't seem like enough time to get the readings done).

2. If you'd like to attempt the spread and have a reading done for you using that spread in return, post in the thread.

3. The first person to post will receive the first reading from the 2nd person to post, etc. So, whoever posts in front of you is who you read for, and whoever posts behind you is who is reading for you.

4. The readings should be posted in the thread so that others can read them (after all, this is for the purposes of learning and we all learn better by reading over examples by others) UNLESS the reader deems that the information is too personal to be shared on an open board. If that is the case, then the reader should PM the person they are reading for, but post in the thread that the results were personal and their querent has been PM'd with the results of the reading.

5. Do not post in the threads if you are not willing to read for others. This is a reading exchange, not a free reading.

6. Use only the spread posted. You may use whatever deck you like.

If anyone else can think of any additional questions or rules, please let me know and I'll edit this post. I think the rules should be posted as the first post every week.

If you have a spread you'd like to submit for the "Spread of the Week", PM me and I'll add it to the queue. Potential spreads should be 10 cards or less, for ease of posting and to not overwhelm newbies who'd like to participate.

As usual, the first person to respond will read for me, and I will read for the last person to respond. :)

[LisaT4P]

So, I thought we'd try a relationship spread this week. Something I don't think that we've done before. The relationship can be with your S.O., boss, co-worker, anyone at all. Just tell us which of your relationships you want us to focus on.

1. How you see yourself in this relationship?
2. How you see _____ in this relationship?
3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you?
4. How can you overcome those obstacles?
5. Outcome / Advice

I'd like a reading about me and my daughter. :)

[RhiamonButterfly]

I'll bite http://www.smileycons.com/img/emotions/143.gif
Remember, I haven't read in awhile..hehe...I'll get working on this!

edit: for my reading, I'd like it for me and hubby please :)

[pentacledreamer]

Yeah so I get to read RhiamonButterfly than!
And for who reads me I'd like a reading on the relationship with my roommates.. I already know about the romantic relationship I'm in.

[Taliesyn]

okay, I get to read for someone new!

for my reading, let me know more about my relationship with my co-workers.

[Rowan MoonDragon]

Ok, I'll read for Taliesyn. I'm a little rusty though. :hahugh:

For my reading I would like to know about me and my husband.

[aluokaloo]

I'll read for Gaia21

Gaia21 and her husband Animal-Wise

1)Otter ( 3 of Pentacles Upright) How you see yourself in your relationship-the Otter represents the Joyful, and Nurturing Feminine, you see yourself as creative, bold, curious and playful, a nurturing soul with the patience to teach, and ease others into the rivers of life.
2)Painted Turtle ( 6 of Wands Upright) How you see your SO in this relationship-the painted turtle represents Faith and Efforts Rewarded, you see your SO as a patient person, willing to have faith that things will work out right in the end, in their own due time, but this is someone who must not be hurried who should do things at their own pace.
3)Caterpillar ( Page of Cups Reversed) The obstacles you face, what is coming between you-things may stagnate for a while, growth could stop, and frustrations could make things a little tense,
4)Eagle ( The Emperor Upright) How you can overcome these obstacles-the Eagle being a farseeing bird with a high vantage point, can help you both see the whole picture instead of just a tree or two, take advantage of it, and be each other's strengths and pillars, lift each other up and take some personal time for yourselves and each other
5) Stickbug (4 of Cups Reversed)Outcome/Advice-Sctivity beneath the surface, the stagnation period will eventually pass but in it's own time.


I'd like a reading for me and boyfriend

[Brightshores]

I'll read for you, aluokaloo.. :)

I'd like a reading for myself and my husband, please.

[Shatril]

I will read for Brightshores

for my reading I would like one for me and my hubby

[Zephyrstorm]

I'll read for you Shatril, probably tomorrow. (just got back from camping for Beltane. I'm exhausted.)

I'd like a reading about me and my best friend, M.S.

:)

[RhiamonButterfly]

Hanson-Roberts :)

1. How you see yourself in this relationship? Judgement
To me, this card represents your interest in spending time with your daughter or the want to get closer. You may feel that she views you as "judgemental" or not giving her a chance because "you're the mom".

2. How you see _____ in this relationship? 7 Swords
I believe that this card is showing that you feel that you're not getting your point across with your daughter, or you are failing to be what she expects from you.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? The World
there may be alot going on with either or both of you, so spending time together is being postponed for other plans or projects. You need to both make time for eachother to just have quality time.


4. How can you overcome those obstacles? 7 Pents
this card is definitely saying "get off your butt, put everything on hold and let's just hang out together". Having a good relationship takes alot of effort from both sides, especially if you both are busy.

5. Outcome / Advice 6 Swords (Reversed)
it sounds as though you will work things out, but it will always take effort from both of you or things can pile up and come between you again if you let it. you and your daughter both want a good relationship, but need to be on the same page. Once that happens, and you both realize how much the other loves them, it will be worth working on making time for eachother. :hahugh:

[LisaT4P]

Thanks, sweetie! This is pretty much dead on. My daughter is 12 (going on 30) and we've got a rocky relationship. She keeps screwing up to get attention. I've explained to her that I'd like to do more things together, but I can't do that if she keeps screwing up because I refuse to reward her for bad behavior. I've told her to straighten up and then we can start doing more stuff. So far it seems to be working... but we'll see. *sigh* I hope she gets it and stops doing all these stupid things.

Thanks for the reading and I'm definitely going to be complimenting her when she doesn't screw up to reinforce the good behavior.

:hugz:

[Zephyrstorm]

I will read for Brightshores

for my reading I would like one for me and my hubby

This is my first reading with the Animals Divine Tarot, so forgive me if it feels off or disjointed. :o

Shatril, you and your hubby...
1. How you see yourself in this relationship? Rhiannon, The Challenge (The Devil) - I get the impression that there are times that you feel like you are being made to feel restrained or otherwise muzzled.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship? Quetzalcoatl, King of Swords (Fire) - You see your husband as a man of power and strength. He seems to be someone who likes things just so, and who has a lot of willpower and passion.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? Poseidon, King of Cups - It seems that the obstacle is a matter of the heart. The two of you are having trouble meeting emotionally at times, and out of touch from each other.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles? Octopus, Eight of Cups - Both of you need a break from the things that are keeping you apart. Try to take a time out. Find a sitter and go out on a date together. Take time to talk to each other about something other than work and family. The daily grind is part of what is keeping you from connecting, so do something different together.

5. Outcome / Advice - Kutkinnaku, the Knight of Swords - Every relationship has it's times like this. Accept that there will be days when the two of you don't connect, and be proactive to prevent what you can. Be there for one another and enjoy the times when it's easier.

I hope that helps.
Z

[Taliesyn]

okay, PD, here you go!

1. How you see yourself in this relationship? page of swords
well, I guess this is saying that you are full of energy, wanting things to go your way, but being passive about this- if you don't talk about the things on your mind, the roomates can't know what's going on.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship?6 pentacles
you see your roomies in a positive light- they are very generous and helpful. maybe this is why you are keeping your mouth shut.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you?7 cups reversed
practical issues, money, work, bills.
4. How can you overcome those obstacles? Knight of cups reversed
the problems are practical, earthy problems, and the best way to work it out is without emotion. don't let your feelings get in the way.

5. Outcome / Advice The Fool
relax. let spirit guide you. pay attention to co-incidence. if you can be alert, the way will reveal itself to you.
maybe there is a potential for a new job, one that would be along your chosen path. think about old friends.

hope it helps.

[Shatril]

For Brightshores using RWS

I'd like a reading for myself and my husband, please.

1. How you see yourself in this relationship? Ace of Wands-Wow, You've discovered a new passion, this relationship has put new energy in you.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship? 4 of Swords-You view this relationship as a healing retreat for your husband. It is like he was in a bad place before you came along, but you have given the refuge and the calm needed to heal him.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? The Empress-You may be over nurturing this problem you husband has, and you need to give it time to gestate and grow. Patience is something that is needed here, but may be in short supply.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles? Ace of Swords-Communication is the key to any problems arising from this situation. As if we didn't already know this. Try listening and communicating without judgement of accusation. There is no need to test the edge of that sword.

5. Outcome / Advice 5 of Swords-"How can I win in an argument with this person?" The answer/prediction: "You can't. All you can do is not argue." This is the closest to a win one can come to in this situation. But if the Querent feels they must argue, then they need to be prepared to learn from it, not allow feelings of failure, anger or blame to overcome them." Took this right out of the interpretation. I think this says it all better than I can say it.

Hope this makes some sense to you. Let me know how I did.

[Shatril]

This is my first reading with the Animals Divine Tarot, so forgive me if it feels off or disjointed. :o

Shatril, you and your hubby...
1. How you see yourself in this relationship? Rhiannon, The Challenge (The Devil) - I get the impression that there are times that you feel like you are being made to feel restrained or otherwise muzzled.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship? Quetzalcoatl, King of Swords (Fire) - You see your husband as a man of power and strength. He seems to be someone who likes things just so, and who has a lot of willpower and passion.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? Poseidon, King of Cups - It seems that the obstacle is a matter of the heart. The two of you are having trouble meeting emotionally at times, and out of touch from each other.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles? Octopus, Eight of Cups - Both of you need a break from the things that are keeping you apart. Try to take a time out. Find a sitter and go out on a date together. Take time to talk to each other about something other than work and family. The daily grind is part of what is keeping you from connecting, so do something different together.

5. Outcome / Advice - Kutkinnaku, the Knight of Swords - Every relationship has it's times like this. Accept that there will be days when the two of you don't connect, and be proactive to prevent what you can. Be there for one another and enjoy the times when it's easier.

I hope that helps.
Z

Well part of it is right on, but I don't see my husband as strong. In fact, I'm the strong one. The devil thing makes lots of sense, but it is like I am chained to an addiction, which is my husband. :rollingla The rest is quite true though, we do need to get away and reconnect because the everyday rigor of work and life is overwhelming us. Good reading, the cards are right, and if we were together for this you would have called them right. Thanks.

[RhiamonButterfly]

Thanks, sweetie! This is pretty much dead on. My daughter is 12 (going on 30) and we've got a rocky relationship. She keeps screwing up to get attention. I've explained to her that I'd like to do more things together, but I can't do that if she keeps screwing up because I refuse to reward her for bad behavior. I've told her to straighten up and then we can start doing more stuff. So far it seems to be working... but we'll see. *sigh* I hope she gets it and stops doing all these stupid things.

Thanks for the reading and I'm definitely going to be complimenting her when she doesn't screw up to reinforce the good behavior.

:hugz:

LOL..whew, I was so afraid you were gonna say your daughter was 2 or something..LOL...but from the reading, I gathered she was old enough to already be very headstrong...good luck with that, you are a good mom :)

[Zephyrstorm]

Well part of it is right on, but I don't see my husband as strong. In fact, I'm the strong one. The devil thing makes lots of sense, but it is like I am chained to an addiction, which is my husband. :rollingla The rest is quite true though, we do need to get away and reconnect because the everyday rigor of work and life is overwhelming us. Good reading, the cards are right, and if we were together for this you would have called them right. Thanks.

Thanks for the feedback, it's just what I need to know. :)

[Brightshores]

For Brightshores using RWS

1. How you see yourself in this relationship? Ace of Wands-Wow, You've discovered a new passion, this relationship has put new energy in you.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship? 4 of Swords-You view this relationship as a healing retreat for your husband. It is like he was in a bad place before you came along, but you have given the refuge and the calm needed to heal him.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? The Empress-You may be over nurturing this problem you husband has, and you need to give it time to gestate and grow. Patience is something that is needed here, but may be in short supply.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles? Ace of Swords-Communication is the key to any problems arising from this situation. As if we didn't already know this. Try listening and communicating without judgement of accusation. There is no need to test the edge of that sword.

5. Outcome / Advice 5 of Swords-"How can I win in an argument with this person?" The answer/prediction: "You can't. All you can do is not argue." This is the closest to a win one can come to in this situation. But if the Querent feels they must argue, then they need to be prepared to learn from it, not allow feelings of failure, anger or blame to overcome them." Took this right out of the interpretation. I think this says it all better than I can say it.

Hope this makes some sense to you. Let me know how I did.

Pretty dead-on. :) My new passion is probably my new job, which I like very much, but does take time and energy. My husband's had some pretty serious health problems, which I've been nursing him through, and frankly I think I've been "mommy-ing" him a bit too much. We do have to work on our communication... and with his Mediterranean temperament, it's impossible to win an argument with him. :lol: Another brilliant reading.. thank you very much. :)

[SentineledFirs]

Signing up to read for Zephyrstorm - I'll have the reading to post tomorrow (:

I'd like a reading about me and my best friend, Chione.

[pentacledreamer]

Alright sorry it's finals week and I have one more final. Heres your reading hun. I didn't see you say what relationship you wanted read though.

1. How you see yourself in this relationship? Seven of swords-You are carrying all the burden in this relationship. I see secrets that your not suppose to share that might actually hurt someone.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship? Ace of wands (Reversed)-You are having a dissatisfaction in this relationship. whatever it is, with whomever it is you are not happy being friends with this person.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? Five of cups (Reversed)-There appears to be a fight where one of you is going to away, this might entail that one of you are just avoiding the matter all together so when it comes up and theres no where to hide the person is going to run away.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles? The Empress- You'll need to be your self. Take an understanding point of veiw. Put yourself in their shoes.

5. Outcome / Advice - Nine of swords (Reversed)- I beleive that your having a problem with listening, not that you don't. It is that you listen to much to people and not yourself. Don't let the opinions of others over shadow your own thoughts about a situation.

I hope I got this since I don't know what relationship I was reading.

[pentacledreamer]

It does help alot thank you so much Taliesyn! I do beleive a new job is in order. I am an Anime fan to the extreme and left my old job becuase they wouldn't give me the weekend off I needed for a convention.. and now my new job is telling me that I'm not going to be able to take off this weekend in August.. thats MONTHS warning.. for Anime Iowa.. which is a convention I go to EVERY YEAR and can't miss becuase I make money.. sorry rammbling.

My roommates and I have a specail relationship, they pulled me out of my abusive relationship and give me aplace to stay with food and stuff...and communication IS our biggest problem.

thanks much!
Me

[SentineledFirs]

Reading with my new Revelations Deck:

1. How you see yourself in this relationship? - Five of Pentacles -

You are uncomfortable about some situation in your relationship with M.S. - perhaps a struggle or something that has been bothering you for awhile. You may even have had an argument, or some sort of forced separation (so you have not been particularly close of late).

2. How you see M.S. in this relationship? - The Tower -

Dramatic change is usually the prediction of the Tower - positive change. If you've recently had some struggles with M.S., perhaps he/she is making large changes in his/her life (moving away, changing careers, a new relationship) - either way, the changes are likely to have a good outcome, even if the change itself is rocky.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? - Death -

Some major period in one or both of your lives is coming to an end (makes sense with The Tower, really) and that is putting a strain on your relationship right now, but with each end comes a new beginning.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles? - The Hermit -

Be wise and patient, like the hermit, and use forethought before making major decisions or changes. The Hermit warns against careless or thoughtless actions and impulsive decisions - make sure to look at all the angles of the situation.

5. Outcome / Advice - Two of Swords -

The Two of Swords is a card that is balanced - the imagery of this is a man balancing two swords while walking a tightrope. If, throughout all of this, you are worried about M.S. or spending a lot of mental work/thought on the friendship, I think in the end you will either be able to find or need to find a balance between the two of you that works for you both.

((Ok - and I'm throwing out there the idea that my deck is pissed at me this morning. This is the second "unhappy" reading that it's thrown at me today - I'm trying to keep a balanced look at the cards because all of them can be either positive or negative, depending on context, so I hope this makes some sense to you, Zepyrstorm!))

[Zephyrstorm]

It's okay, SentineledFirs. I can actually really see it.

She's been going through a lot for the past year or two, and so have I. The result has been that we haven't had time to spend together like we used to. I'm trying to make time for spending with her though, but her own work and schoolwork keeps getting in the way.

We'll manage, but I needed a different perspective than my own. It was a really great reading.

[RhiamonButterfly]

Alright sorry it's finals week and I have one more final. Heres your reading hun. I didn't see you say what relationship you wanted read though.

1. How you see yourself in this relationship? Seven of swords-You are carrying all the burden in this relationship. I see secrets that your not suppose to share that might actually hurt someone.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship? Ace of wands (Reversed)-You are having a dissatisfaction in this relationship. whatever it is, with whomever it is you are not happy being friends with this person.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you? Five of cups (Reversed)-There appears to be a fight where one of you is going to away, this might entail that one of you are just avoiding the matter all together so when it comes up and theres no where to hide the person is going to run away.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles? The Empress- You'll need to be your self. Take an understanding point of veiw. Put yourself in their shoes.

5. Outcome / Advice - Nine of swords (Reversed)- I beleive that your having a problem with listening, not that you don't. It is that you listen to much to people and not yourself. Don't let the opinions of others over shadow your own thoughts about a situation.

I hope I got this since I don't know what relationship I was reading.

actually, this reading was really good considering you had no idea who I wanted you to read for!
Yes, I am carrying alot of responsibility due to hubby being deployed...and I keep things from him fr his own safety, as I don't want him preoccupied with us when he's in Iraq, ya know? As far as one of us going away, I believe this is about him being gone, considering that is a main issue for us..lol
Thank you so much!!!!!

[LisaT4P]

CLOSED TO NEW READERS

Ok, then! This one was really great, I think. I enjoyed reading all of the responses.

SF, I'll have your reading done & posted tonight. *procrastination* :)

[Brightshores]

Aack! Sorry, aluokaloo... this week has been crazy. I promise I will get to your reading tomorrow... sorry for taking so long!

[aluokaloo]

:eek: Oh Brightshores! How vould you do this too me?!?! I cannot go on now! I've been dropped like a fly in the deadly and mysterious mists of RAID!




Hee hee hee:lol: j/k! It's ok, I'm sure you'll get to it when you can.

[LisaT4P]

For SentineledFirs using the Robin Wood Tarot

1. How you see yourself: 4 of Pents
2. How you see Chione: 4 of Wands
3. An obstacle you face: Queen of Cups
4. How you can overcome it: 2 of Wands
5. Advice / Outcome: 8 of Swords

A very interesting reading here. Actually all but the 4 of Wands came up reversed, but since I can't remember whether or not this deck has reversals intentionally, I'm going to wing it on that. :)

I think that maybe you are seeing yourself in this as the generous one. You give, you often buy when you guys go out, you get little treats and make thoughtful gestures. You try to make your friend feel special and let her know that you love her. She is the one who is a rock though. I kind of see her as the one that maybe keeps you sane and grounded. You are both 4s, which is very interesting. Very solid and real.

The Queen is maybe someone else? There is a lack of nurturing, or a nurturing only of the self. This person is not taking care of what they should be, maybe over-indulging and being narcissistic? It is taking away from everything else in their life, but they can't really see that, they just see that they are filling their needs, or more accurately, their wants. Manipulative.

It may be time to let that person go. I love the 2 of Wands because to me, it is the gambler's card and it always makes me think of the Kenny Rogers song (let me clarify that I am not normally a country music fan! LOL) "you gotta know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em" and it may be time to fold 'em. The gamble may just not be worth it. The risks outweigh the possible benefits.

Ultimately, you know that this is not even really your decision. I think that you are worried about it, but it's not YOU. You can only make changes to yourself, and not for or to others. If someone in your life is misbehaving, all you can really do is choose to be there for them and help, or to let them make their own mistakes. The bonds are not holding you, you are holding them.

I hope this makes some sense. I did read them as mostly reversals, so if it seems wrong or unclear let me know and I'll re-do the reading.

:hugz:

[SentineledFirs]

Chione and I are definitely both 4's, that's actually really neat and makes a lot of sense - and I think in this case we both have aspects of both 4's at different points (:

As for the rest, I'll have to think on it. There are a few people that might be sitting in the queen of cups/reversed position (and at least one of them could be also in the queen of cups upright for me as well).

The last bit about remembering that I can only change me and have to let others change themselves is just generally good advice for me though (as I tend to get sucked into people's problems). And I love the "hold 'em/fold 'em" analogy!

[Brightshores]

Sorry this took me so long! :o

Using the Goddess Deck..

1. How you see yourself in this relationship?

Transformation Reversed.
For perhaps the first time, your relationship with your boyfriend comes at a time where your life is fairly stable. There's no need to change, to become someone else in order to make this relationship work. You are in a place where you can feel comfortable in who you are already. Be careful though, of stagnation - don't let the comfort you feel now allow you to fall into a rut or prevent you from growing as a person.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship?
Eight of Pentacles Reversed

You may be a bit concerned about your boyfriend - he may not be quite as ambitious, committed or disciplined as you might like him to be. He may have a job that he's not satisfied with, or he may be trying to do things the easy way, rather than putting necessary hard work into developing himself, his path in life, and possibly his career.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you?
Queen of Staves Reversed

My first thought on seeing this card was "mother-in-law." 8O This card can represent the stereotypical MIL... bossy, intimidating, overbearing, controllong, overprotective. Is his mother, or yours, (or someone else fitting this description) causing problems between you? Alternatively, perhaps one of you two may be trying to control the relationship more than you should...

4. How can you overcome those obstacles?
Ten of Staves Reversed

This is a strange card here. Perhaps the influences from the last card are causing you both a huge amount of stress... try to relax and let things take their course without trying to "manage" too much. If there is a MIL-style person causing trouble... perhaps a bit of innocent truth-bending can even be called for here.. the old "what she doesn't know won't hurt her" adage.

5. Outcome / Advice
Ten of Pentacles
Well, since one of the "book meanings" for this card is domestic bliss, I think you guys have a lot going for you. There is the potential for great joy, fulfilment, and love in your relationship. :) Even if you don't work out long-term, this is a very important relationship in terms of your personal growth and becoming who you are meant to be.


Hope this makes sense, and again, I'm sorry it took so long.

[aluokaloo]

actually that makes perfect sense BrightShores, his mom does try and interfere but he's real laid back, and takes everything in his stride, his slow but steady pace frustrates me, but that's just part of him. Thank you very much Brightshores.

[Taliesyn]

gaia 21 where are you?

:lookwhats

[Rowan MoonDragon]

Sorry Taliesyn. My brother in law died this week and then I haven't been able to get onto the site. I will have for you momentarily.

[Rowan MoonDragon]

Deck - Llewellyn

1. How you see yourself in this relationship?

5 of wands = You see yourself as very competitive and your ideas and principles always clash with theirs.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship?

8 of Wands = It seems as though your co workers have alot of opportunity and things happen pretty quickly for them.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you?

4 of Pentacles = You are guarding your ideas and you dont want to share them.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles?

4 of Swords = Right now you just need to step back, relax and be silent. The right time will come and the truth will come out.

5. Outcome / Advice

9 of Cups = The outcome will be relief and a warm encouraging atmosphere.

I hope this makes sense. Its kinda short but for some reason thats all I could get out of it. Told you I was rusty. LOL! If it doesn't make sense, I am more than happy to do another one.

[Rowan MoonDragon]

I'll read for Gaia21

Gaia21 and her husband Animal-Wise

1)Otter ( 3 of Pentacles Upright) How you see yourself in your relationship-the Otter represents the Joyful, and Nurturing Feminine, you see yourself as creative, bold, curious and playful, a nurturing soul with the patience to teach, and ease others into the rivers of life.
2)Painted Turtle ( 6 of Wands Upright) How you see your SO in this relationship-the painted turtle represents Faith and Efforts Rewarded, you see your SO as a patient person, willing to have faith that things will work out right in the end, in their own due time, but this is someone who must not be hurried who should do things at their own pace.
3)Caterpillar ( Page of Cups Reversed) The obstacles you face, what is coming between you-things may stagnate for a while, growth could stop, and frustrations could make things a little tense,
4)Eagle ( The Emperor Upright) How you can overcome these obstacles-the Eagle being a farseeing bird with a high vantage point, can help you both see the whole picture instead of just a tree or two, take advantage of it, and be each other's strengths and pillars, lift each other up and take some personal time for yourselves and each other
5) Stickbug (4 of Cups Reversed)Outcome/Advice-Sctivity beneath the surface, the stagnation period will eventually pass but in it's own time.


I'd like a reading for me and boyfriend


This is dead on! Thanks!

[Taliesyn]

Deck - Llewellyn

1. How you see yourself in this relationship?

5 of wands = You see yourself as very competitive and your ideas and principles always clash with theirs.

2. How you see _____ in this relationship?

8 of Wands = It seems as though your co workers have alot of opportunity and things happen pretty quickly for them.

3. The obstacles you face, what is coming between you?

4 of Pentacles = You are guarding your ideas and you dont want to share them.

4. How can you overcome those obstacles?

4 of Swords = Right now you just need to step back, relax and be silent. The right time will come and the truth will come out.

5. Outcome / Advice

9 of Cups = The outcome will be relief and a warm encouraging atmosphere.

I hope this makes sense. Its kinda short but for some reason thats all I could get out of it. Told you I was rusty. LOL! If it doesn't make sense, I am more than happy to do another one.

It makes alot of sence- hope the outcome is correct!
sorry that i rushed you- and I'm sorry for your loss.

[Rowan MoonDragon]

you didn't rush me. no worries. :hahugh: and thanks for the condolences.