she's gone and ****ed it up again

[johenn123]

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[johenn123]

oh i forgot to ask.. can someone give me advice please?

[Cassie]

My boyfriend sent me a text last night that was a little insensitive but it was a joke, and I overreacted with a sarcastic angry reply and now he hasn't replied yet....
... Finally I keep thinking my ex was a nicer boyfriend than my current one and even now he's being so nice to me and protective of me and he's helping me out. I don't fancy him any more but I feel guilty because I was harsh to him when we broke up and now he's being sweet to me.
Sorry I can't give you any advice about that, but I think the text problem will probably blow over fairly quickly.
I think you are 'over-thinking' the comparison between your ex and your current boyfriend. It is good that your ex is being nice to you even if you now think you treated him a bit harshly. A close friend of the opposite sex can be a very good thing to have. The only problem could be if he still has 'other' feelings for you which you don't have for him. For now I would simply accept his friendship but in fairness and respect to him try and be clear what you want and don't want in that friendship.

My mum seems to care about nothing but revision and keeps assuming that I'm refusing to do it when I'm doing nothing of the sort. She also thinks I'm anorexic because I've lost a lot of weight recently.
I think it is just that parents and children have different priorities. Your Mum knows you have a lot going on in your life and may be concerned that revision is not as much a priority for you as she thinks it should be. I think that parents of teenage children sometimes panic that they are loosing touch with, and influence over, the people they love the most. Maybe you could make an extra effort to assure your Mum that everything is under control. When I was the age you are now (not so long ago!) getting to know my mum in a new way, as an adult friend, was one of the most important and rewarding things in my life.

Also my dad's taking pills for his depression (bi-polar) and last week he hit me when he was on withdrawal. I kicked up a big fuss about it and make people feel obliged to do something. I forgive him though because I understand how he felt.
It is good that you understand and forgive your Dad, but this is something I think you need to talk about more with both your parents. I am sure he feels awful about doing it, but...
It mustn't ever happen again.

[ApollaJade]

Everything I would usually say has been said, but I think you still need a hug. I love you dearie!

[SilverClaw]

hey Queenorivers nod advice here but sending you a :hugz:

[johenn123]

welll... i've sorted out most of it. Thanks for the advice. The text thing blew over quickly and me and my mum had a talk..

[SilverClaw]

Glad it is sorted out :hugz: