Can others affect the strenght of your powers?

[Neptune]

I have recently run into a certain person in my life and from the moment he walked in ... my powers seem to be stronger ... my visions much more clear and more often ... my inner strenght increased and well ... I have never experienced anything like that before ... with this person has come a lot of positive changes in my life in the short course of a month ... I was just wondering if it is common or coincidence

[Myst]

If he's a friend or someone you get along with, or maybe someone you will get along with, sure. :)

It's like, we get the ouija board out and if Magestya is there with me (or I'm there with her) suddenly the planchette goes crazy. Maybe the energy just works well together, I dunno.

But anyway not the first time I've heard of that :)

[Neptune]

Well, this person is my lover ... I guess that would be the best term for it ... we re-met after having not seen eachother for 3 years and have been almost inseprable since. Once he came back into my life things have been happening and my visions more often and stronger at that.

[Rick]

It is possible that your energies compliment each the other's... or in some way he 'boosts', or amplifies your energies (kinda like beans & rice separately are good for you, but together they are nutritionally near perfect)... but it's more likely that you are more positive due to the relationship, & this reflects in your spiritual self. And it's been my observation that 'growth spurts' occur during /after highly emotionally charged times in ones life.

But nothing quite affects my powers quite like Kryptonite...

[Flar's Freyja]

Originally posted by Rick
But nothing quite affects my powers quite like Kryptonite...

And pork chops.....

I'd have to agree with Rick. You seem to have that basic chemistry that is actually a hormone that increases with your attraction to someone, and this can enhance many areas of your life, including your magickal powers.

[Rick]

Originally posted by Freyja
And pork chops.....

DAMN! You're givin' away ALL my weaknesses... :T

Just don't tell 'em I'm ticklish...

[Flar's Freyja]

Originally posted by Rick

DAMN! You're givin' away ALL my weaknesses... :T

Just don't tell 'em I'm ticklish...

:eyebrow: I think you just did, babe......:lol::smooch:


Just as feeling positive about someone can enhance your magickal abilities, being around someone whose negative energy affects you can do the same.

[SpikesPet5150]

The same thing happens to me.. with 2 different people, though neither were my lovers.. just friends. And strangely enough, both of them are named Jeremy. LOL It scared me the first time, but now, it's just normal to me. They notice the energy change, as well.. neither are witches or anything... but they've both said they feel a strange electric energy in the room, when we're together. The first Jeremy described it as feeling as though there were a tiny electric current running under his skin.. not uncomfortable, though. And the second Jeremy described it as having that Full Moon energy. Either way, it's just something I've come to accept.. and happily so... they've both completely changed my life. :) Love my Jeremy's!
~Bree

[Bridgid Flame]

Well, that sounds like a familiar scenario there Neptune.....

My bf and i remet in october after not seeing each other for four years.....he kinda fell off the face of the earth....

It took a bit, but we started dating in december, and we clicked.....and have been together ever since......(although he just moved two hours away from me)......

and yes, my readings have become more accurate, my thoughts and feelings more senstiive.....even my regular 5 senses (smell, touch, taste, and hearing) have become more acute....

i don't really know if it is because of him.....but, *shrug*, it might be.....

he is very interested in my practices and my religion, and is supportive of everything i do......so that might also make a difference.....

I don't know if that helped.....

BB

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[Mnemosyne]

What a sweet story, Neptune! :) I totally agree with the others. I too believe that others can affect your energies. Some people just click with each other. After all, some people just give us such positive energy. If someone is giving us negative energy, we are immediately going to have a negative emotional reaction. To combat this reaction, the brain focus its time and energy on that problem. I believe that when you are having positive energy, you are more capable to focus more strength on having more powerful visions, dreams....etc. Take care.

[Neptune]

Thanks our story really is amazing.

We lived in Las Vegas at the same time in our lives and moved to the town we live in now the same summer ... eneded up going to the same school and in ROTC together ... there are many other parallels going on as well but anyways ... we hung out some in ROTC but not much I was kinda the outcast and he was Mr. Popular. But we just recently met up (about 2 months now) at a party through one of our mutual friends in ROTC. Now I had just started talking with this person a month b/4 the party ... Chris had just started talking with this person a week b/4 the party. Lot's of wierd little things like that happen all the time for us. I guess it was just meant to be.

[Scarlett O]

Well, I'm just gonna jump in here...I'm new to this, but very excited about it!

Hello all!

I wanted to jump in here because, I had this happen to me last November. Actually, I wished on the moon to bring me my love. After being alone for 2 years and divorced for 5 I felt like I was ready. I met "him" about a week later. I was amazing...It was a whirlwind. We could read each other's minds. Once he was in TX, and I thought, "Come on baby, call me, I miss you." 20 minutes later he called. I told him that I had thought about him calling, he asked me when, I told him, he laughed and said, "Actually I started to call you about 20 minutes ago, but I had to do something first."

We loved each other. Then...His dad died in January after a 2 year battle with cancer. He withdrew from me, and a few weeks later he ended it. I was devastated, but I understood...I knew that he was dying inside, and he couldn't or wouldn't let me help him.

We live and work very close to each other and I still know when he's having a bad day.

We've been seeing each other off and on, but I can feel him pushing me away again, and I don't know what to do. I know he still loves me, I can feel that, too.

You talked about the energy that's felt. When we're together everyone feels it. For some reason he seems to be focusing on negatives and I don't understand why. I keep trying to send him positive energy, but it's almost as if he's blocking me.

Does anyone have any ideas as to why he would be doing this, and what's a girl to do?

Sorry this is so long, but I've been trying to find a place to ask for help on this, and maybe I picked the wrong thread, but I really need some guidance on this.

Thanks

[Xander67]

I can offer you some advice from personal experience ...

If you feel your energy is not wanted or being blocked,
then stop sending it, you can still keep him in your thoughts and pray to the Goddess...

By turning it over to the Goddess you are putting your trust in her that her will be done, and in time... if it was meant to be, he will come back to you., I know , I am going through something similar, but I am sure he knows you are there for him..

as in my case, I know she knows I am here

[Mithrea]

I agree. I had the same problem with my former fiance. His stepdad of cancer and after that, he just sort of died too. He withdrew from our relationship and honestly, we never really broke up, we just gradually drifted apart. I haven't talked to him in months. But I can still feel him and know where he is and what he's up to. I also know he will be back. My advice is just to follow the natural flow of your relationship without forcing anything. If it is meant to be, it will right itself. If it's not, there is something else for you and you will find it soon enough. Have faith.

[Scarlett O]

Thank you...

Basically, I have been trying to just "go with the flow." In the past 3 months he has been the one to seek me out.

A couple weeks ago it seemed like things were changing for the better. I knew he was confused, he told me as much. This week...just seems off somehow, I'm not sure if he's blocking me, or if he's just messed up in the head. lol

I'm trying to put my trust in myself and The Goddess, but I'm not the most patient person in the world, and I feel like I NEED to be doing SOMETHING to "help" the situation, even if he doesn't know I'm doing it. Does that make sense?

Anyway, thank you again. :)

[Xander67]

well in my situation,
I was unsure myself, should I back off , or continue to send thoughts and letters, then she asked me to give her some time.. so I am not makeing any attempts to contact her, out of respect for her wishes...

I dont think it is right to try and force things, if feelings arent there or if a friendship is not there, then it jsut isnt there, I accept that...

and it is better to have someone be with you that you know wants to be with you..

communication is very important!

if you try to help things along, you may wind up pushing him away!

and Goddess only knows , he could be talking to his pals for advice and who knows what they are telling him.

But It's better to have someone who believes what they see rather than what they are told. in otherwords,

you want him to like you for who you are! and you wnat him to be with you becasue he wants to, not becasue he feels sorry,

im no expert here, but mabey this helps