Astral experience.

[Storm]

My husband has been OBing and he has found a spirit guide who took him on a tour of the furture. 14 years ahead to our son's graduation and he saw me with someone else. I don't know who and I don't know if he knows who. At any rate he is freaked out. I cannot give him comfort cause I am not sure where I am in this relationship. It hasn't been a relationship for so long.

[Rick]

I'm moving this thread to Divination, where perhaps some of our 'seers' can shed some light...

[Myst]

Well he has reason to freak out, if we go by what you've been sharing with us.

I don't think there is anything to divine from that hon. If you say you don't believe it, you might be lying. If you say you do, it won't help the situation. Maybe you should suggest to him he concentrate on the hear and now and fix this before it happens?

We know the future can change.

[Mithrea]

Ooooh, and since it can change, I try not to look! :D Don't want to get freaked.

[Flar's Freyja]

Sounds like your husband is insecure in the relationship, and you admit that you don't know where you're at. You also say that you haven't been together long.

You haven't shared the details of your marriage. Are there problems? Feelings of insecurity are very normal, especially in the first few months or years. And your husband's vision is 14 years away.

As Myst said, it's best to focus on the present. You'll both miss a lot of precious moments if you're projecting into the future. Realistically, one or both of you may not even be here 14 years from now. And if his vision is your destiny, it might be best to trust your deities and know that whatever happens is for the greatest good.

[Rick]

Ya know that old saying, "If I'd only known then (in the past)what I know now(in the present)..."? That's the point of divination, to know now (present) what we will know later (future).

You've been offered an opportunity here... an opportunity to affect your future, & the future of your family (you'll notice I didn't use the word change, because, as previously stated, the future isn't written in stone, or in a big book somewhere). What you choose to do with this opportunity is up to you...

BTW, did your husband see himself at the graduation? Don't want to sound dire, but it might be an omen to him to begin a healthier lifestyle, rather than an omen about your relationship... just a thought...

[Flar's Freyja]

I agree with Rick that this may be an opportunity to change the future by reflecting on the present and what you can do to make things work differently now.

[Silver Venus]

I agree too, we live in the present so its best to get that sorted out first.

[Storm]

Actually we have been married for almost 7 years but he has never been around untill the last month and half. And he saw me with someone specific and judging by the way he has had the itch to fix the house so we can sell it and move I know who it is and right now he doesn't even know I know the guy. My husband was never been around, he is antisocial and doesn't talk to anyone in the neighborhood so there is no way for him to know this guy was around. I know he didn't make it up to test my reaction because the morning after I was bringing him coffee and he was writing in his ASTRAL journal and I wasn't snooping but the first line was.....I HAD A FREAKY VISION OF THE FUTURE WHILE OB LAST NIGHT....

I don't know where he keeps it which is good because I don't know if I could fight the temptaion to read about it. He also went 8 years into the future but he wont tell me about that.

He has a spirit guide. The guy has only been interested in the occult for a month or two now.

ME...I have always been and I have been trying to astral for 4 months and I can't get past the mind split...if anyone is familiar with that(I leave but I don't remember what I have done while gone, my mind isn't going with it). And I need some guidance so bad.

[Dellit Tandannon]

hold on. his spirit guide let him see the future through the akashic records and he's still alive?

[Storm]

Why? Are they supposed to kill you for seeing such things? He is not sure about the spirit guide but he is very sure about the OBE's. He read about them then decided to do them and they happen to him very easily. He is quite aware of what is going on although the tour of the future was a bit out of his control. Which he doesn't like.

[Flar's Freyja]

Storm, I'm really confused here. In your first post you said that you don't know who this other person in the future is, and then you said that you do know based on your husband's wanting to fix up and sell the house and move. Is it a neighbor? You said that "the guy has only been interested in the occult for a month or two now." Does that mean your husband?

I'd still have to go back to my last post and say that it sounds like he's insecure in the relationship if that's the case. I'm not sure this has a whole lot to do with astral travel.

[Storm]