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brymble
July 2nd, 2007, 08:29 AM
I am undergoing a transition and I need some help with the emotional "cleansing" that comes along with change. I do wish to avoid feeding or teasing the Drama Llama, so I would appreciate keeping the discussion off the boards.

Training in counselling of some kind of another would be appreciated if possible, or at least knowledge of some of the following:

loss/grief/mourning
anger issues
life transitions
dysfunctional family issues
non-violent communication/peaceful conflict resolution
poverty/abundance issues

I do take a spiritual approach to healing, so the any of the following spiritual knowledge is helpful too:

tarot/runes
energy/consciousness studies
psychodrama/ritual/pathworking/spirit guides
Eastern philosophies, in particular regarding the ego and observer
journalling/fiction writing


I find it easiest to talk with males my own age or a little older (absent twin issues) but what is really important is that I can honor yet contain the drama in a safe place, keeping it off the boards, so respect for confidentiality and boundaries is also important.

I am not depressed, but I am struggling with grief and anger that can get intense at times. I need to keep moving foreward through this transition acknowledging and observing and honoring the grief but not letting it "drive the bus." I wish to honor the drama without indulging it, if that makes any sense, but this is an on-going issue and I really have to face the fact I can't handle on my own right now, so I would be very grateful for someone with the time for a nightly or afternoon chat via PM's, email, or yahoo messenger, just until the intensity breaks.

Advice would be greatly appreciated and cherished but only followed if it is actually appropriate and helpful!

Please PM me here first, before attempting to email or message me on yahoo.

Thank you so much!

brymble
July 2nd, 2007, 11:13 AM
what wonderful, caring young people are here!

i really don't mean to seem ungrateful for any of the loving support i've recieved from our younger members, and i will reply to your thoughtful PM's soon, but i am undergoing a life transition and really need to talk to someone, male of female, close to my own age, please!

thank you all for being so kind!

Naroddrec
July 2nd, 2007, 09:25 PM
If there is any way I can help, let me know... I may not be your age, but I might be able to relate..

Kahlil the Heretic
July 6th, 2007, 01:57 AM
I start working on my master's in counseling this Fall. Send me a message.

brymble
July 6th, 2007, 09:43 AM
you guys are all totally awesome. those who have pm'd me, i'm not ignoring you, just struggling with the birthing pains of transition, a really intense clash of stressors both positive and less so.

thank you all so much, and i will reply.

brymble
July 11th, 2007, 11:00 PM
kahlil, i don't know if you got it, but i pm'd you some time ago.

i have a few minutes, and i am in a better place now. i think the bubble popped.

i think i was having a very hard time letting go of some experiences and mindsets that are now no longer relevant to my life.

i think i'm able to move foreward now.

thank you.

Lauren Michele
July 11th, 2007, 11:25 PM
I am so happy to hear :hugz: